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Sex, Fear and loss of Innocence
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Sex, Fear and loss of Innocence How do you go about making new friends on the net? There was a time not so long ago that it was relatively easy. You could go into a chat room see a persons profile and IM them. They were genuine and played no games. Everyone was forthright. It is through those chat rooms that I have met and developed friendships. Friendships that I am thankful and richer for. Now the rules of engagement have changed. Friendships are no longer a priority. It has become a world of what can I get from them. Can I get money out of him or her? Can I<b> get sex </font></b>out of him or her? Can I get free boarding out of him or her? What happened to getting to know someone and becoming friends? The age of the internet was an extension of ones self and the ability to connect to people locally and a far. Long ago after you felt comfortable with someone you could exchange and begin to enrich that friendship. You could gage that person's interest in you based on their voice and interaction. One can no longer do that for fear of ones safety. You have to thoroughly interrogate someone before you have a notion to exchange . Even when you do, it usually becomes the end of the illusion. No more contact, no more calls. I recently tried to reconnect with an old girlfriend over the net and it just spiraled into a bizarre interaction of exchanges. I was curious about the history of her life between the time I dated her and the present. I was met with hesitation and accusations. Accusations of wanting sex. Is she attractive, yes. Would I like to sleep with her, yes. But I prefer to develop a friendship, or in this case rekindle, and see if the sparks are still there before I even follow through on those thoughts. Once the friendship is established set the ground rules and go from there, but I never even got to that stage. Honestly we never really got to know each other again. Truthfully I wonder why I would want to try when someone does not want to open up. Which leads me to the following question, if it’s this difficult to rekindle an old friendship how we truly initiate a new one with a total stranger. The net has changed from an extension of oneself to an impersonal and cold interaction. Thus the birth of specific websites like this one and Adult Dating zone. Both are free and accessible to thousands upon thousand of individuals who share similar interest. The problem now has become who is fake and who is real. Who wants a one nite stand and who wants to develop a friendship? Who can actually read and who needs speak and spell. Obviously many out there lack the ability to read. Let’s take us as an example. If they would bother to read they would know that we are a couple. They would also know that we are seeking females or select couples. When my wife comes across a man that she really truly wants to sleep with she would let that person know. Instead we get bombarded with emails and invites from men. I guess they feel that by doing so my wife may gain an enlightenment to choose them. Well Virgil there is no Santa Claus for you. Now for Virginia it’s a different story. Why men overlook the written word on a persons profile is a whole other post in itself. I digress. Myspace has yielded no friendships as of yet. Adult Dating zone has yielded some. We have met a few individuals in person and are richer for it. Others are just individuals whose blogs I read and return the favor and who we hope to meet in time. Unfortunately not all are respectful. Which beckons the question what happened to etiquette and friendship? What happened to the naive innocent days of the internet? Truthfully those days are long gone. We are in the age of well I can not really say. It has all become a mystery. Moments like this make me thankful for what I have, a great loving wife who I would not trade for anything. Whether we live out our fantasies or not in the end it matters not we have each other and that is fantasy enough. |
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4/9/2007 6:27 pm |
hi i am completly honest i have been on here about a month and all i have found are talkers. i myself i don't want a 1 night stand i am looking to have an afair with a very sexy women in the glasgow kentucky area. your picture is very sexy and i would like to meet you if your in this area.
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4/24/2007 8:21 am |
"Now the rules of engagement have changed. Friendships are no longer a priority. It has become a world of what can I get from them. Can I get money out of him or her? Can I get sex out of him or her? Can I get free boarding out of him or her? What happened to getting to know someone and becoming friends?" Oy ... if I had a dime ... lol ... well, actually they've tried to take them lmao ... Hope you guys are well 
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4/28/2007 11:38 am |
[post 825282] This is an upcoming event, not an invitation for you to join a new group. Please pass the info along to those you know who might be interested. Thanks! Hope to see you there! - DT
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5/7/2007 11:21 am |
i read a lot of blogs here and ever where else and you do a good job. a little backgroud on me i am in iraq and i wish i wasnt but at least i am saving some money here. theirs nothing to do here but read blogs and play on the internet and go on missions so keep up the good work thanks
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