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well... I failed  

rm_loveslilies 57F
27094 posts
8/24/2009 9:45 am
well... I failed


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yep I failed at my first attempt to become a non smoker
I smoked some cigs over the weekend. not to many but enough.
but I am not giving up nope no way. I am getting right back in the battle. mind over matter... mind over matter !!

LL


If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


FITNTRIM10 64M
74 posts
8/24/2009 10:28 am

Good luck with that. YOU CAN DO IT. SO JUST DO IT!

I hope I helped in some small way.

I'd also like to help you in other ways....lol

Let's chat some time soon in the Great Lakes or Chicagoland chatroom or on Adult Dating zone IM.

Take care and be strong.


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/24/2009 11:13 am

    Quoting FITNTRIM10:
    Good luck with that. YOU CAN DO IT. SO JUST DO IT!

    I hope I helped in some small way.

    I'd also like to help you in other ways....lol

    Let's chat some time soon in the Great Lakes or Chicagoland chatroom or on Adult Dating zone IM.

    Take care and be strong.
hun yes you helped, I need all the encouragement I can get

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


photoplaydateM 45M

8/24/2009 11:21 am

I caught a couple of comments this weekend about smoking too much, as well!! I thought maybe I should cut down but caught myself two hours later at the store. (taps his chin) While I'm preoccupied with that, I've read a little of your blog and would like to thank you. I often feel as though some of my ex's might have the same openness in thier thoughts, but haven't found any of them who would share. Reading here kind of taught me something today. Tender kisses to you, Misses!!


tazzerman2000 66M
18912 posts
8/24/2009 11:24 am

keep at it sweetheart, I KNOW you can do it... Just make up your mind that you do NOT want to smoke, period!!! -tm

These blogs are only fun if you LEAVE comments!!!

Please visit my blog tazzerman2000


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
8/24/2009 11:47 am

Keep on trying LL. I guess smoking must be one of the hardest things to give up? I was one of the lucky ones and gave up with no problem.


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/24/2009 12:03 pm

    Quoting photoplaydateM:
    I caught a couple of comments this weekend about smoking too much, as well!! I thought maybe I should cut down but caught myself two hours later at the store. (taps his chin) While I'm preoccupied with that, I've read a little of your blog and would like to thank you. I often feel as though some of my ex's might have the same openness in thier thoughts, but haven't found any of them who would share. Reading here kind of taught me something today. Tender kisses to you, Misses!!
Welcome to my blog
thank you for sharing some of your time to read more while you were here. I enjoy sharing it helps me not to mention its fun too
and if it ends up helping people that makes it even more rewarding for me. you are welcome here anytime
dont give up on quitting to quickly I have been at it for months now I am at my last step goin from 10 cigs to zero

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/24/2009 12:04 pm

    Quoting tazzerman2000:
    keep at it sweetheart, I KNOW you can do it... Just make up your mind that you do NOT want to smoke, period!!! -tm
there you are
dont worry i will be a non smoker !! these things are not gonna beat me anymore !!

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/24/2009 12:06 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Keep on trying LL. I guess smoking must be one of the hardest things to give up? I was one of the lucky ones and gave up with no problem.
ok rub it in will ya
you truly are a lucky dog, count your blessings hun

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/24/2009 12:08 pm

    Quoting  :

ok now that is a good idea but I dont know if I could handle the guilt or not if I fail yeah you are a pats fan arent ya j/k we will have fun razein each other for sure

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/24/2009 1:22 pm

    Quoting  :

Mun ltns thanks, Im not givin up

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/24/2009 1:23 pm

    Quoting  :

I'll be there for ya no doubts
I know where did the weekend go !! but at least I was at home.
hope things are better on your end of things.

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


horny4770 67M

8/24/2009 1:48 pm

You only fail when you longer get back up...I know you will do this!

H.


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/24/2009 2:15 pm

    Quoting horny4770:
    You only fail when you longer get back up...I know you will do this!

    H.
yeah I guess that is true... it was only a stumble then !

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


SensuallyThine 68M
5300 posts
8/24/2009 9:54 pm

One day at a time, One day at a time. I had my last cigarette on 6 June 2000. I am still addicted. I am still a smoker. However, I have not had a cigarette since 6 June 2000. One day at a time.


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/25/2009 8:48 am

    Quoting  :

glad someone does I'll get there I know I will yeah if I have made up my mind, I dig my heels in pretty darn good

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/25/2009 8:49 am

    Quoting SensuallyThine:
    One day at a time, One day at a time. I had my last cigarette on 6 June 2000. I am still addicted. I am still a smoker. However, I have not had a cigarette since 6 June 2000. One day at a time.
yep and if yesterday we failed we just get up and start over the next day

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/25/2009 8:50 am

    Quoting  :

oh I'm ready just gotta make sure and use different coping skills for my stress and man there is alot of it right now but I'm not givin up

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/25/2009 8:52 am

    Quoting  :

I looked at this way when I first started on this goal if I smoked less than I did they day before it was progress this zero thing is pretty darn hard though. Best wishes hun you can do it we both can

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/26/2009 10:30 am

    Quoting  :

I used the patch for the first week or so when I went from 3 to 1 pack a day, it did help but it caused my blood pressure to get to high
oh stayin away yeah I know, I did successfully quit once for 3 months.. but gave in, hang in there maybe one day we wont want any at all

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
8/26/2009 10:32 am

    Quoting  :

thanks J

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Then I Misunderstood The Question


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