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rm_RK7068 53M/55F
83 posts
1/31/2007 12:05 pm

Last Read:
4/26/2007 5:33 pm

Our profile...


Our Profile...
Not real sure if others have experienced problems with Adult Dating zone or not.

Over the past few weeks I have tried at least a half dozen times to update our additional questions. The Swinging/Swapping questions to be exact.

For some reason our profile will not update or accept our answers. How freakin hard can this be? Adult Dating zone always seems to be on the blink in one way or another...

So we are going to answer them here:

Life is a journey... not a destination!
Intro:
NO SINGLE MEN. Contacts from single men will be the fastest way to get you ignored. When we see a single male we like, we will contact you.

We are a stable, happily married couple seeking to explore the alternatives in life, specifically his dominant and her submissive nature. We wish to be open and honest with everyone and would request the same. Let's start out as friends and discuss the possibilities!

We have photos on request, so please, send something more than just crotch pictures.

What we're lookin for:
First and foremost, we are looking for Safe, Sane and Consentual. We are not Ken and Barbie nor do we expect those we meet to be.

After that, we are open to new experiences once all are comfortable...

We desire mature, considerate, fun-loving, spontaneous, open-minded, clean, passionate people, like ourselves.

Turn offs:
Conceited, over-bearing, immature, narrow-minded, pushy or crazies need not apply!

We find those intellectually stimulating much more attractive than stuck up GQ and Cosmo types... now if you have the gift of intellectual conversation and looks... it is a rare and delicous combination! But looks alone won't get you any points here. It would be nice to know that if we meet and don't find the chemestry to make it into bed, that we can all be adult enough to not be offended and still truly be friends.


Sexual Activities:
Have you ever had cybersex?
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

What kind of night life do you enjoy?
Whatever mood strikes us

How big of a role does sex play in your life?
A big, frequent role!

What types of sex activities do you regularly enjoy?
, tactile experiences, blindfolds, light spanking, silk scarves, restraints, photography, mutual masturbation, sexy talk, and the first sexual activity
on our top ten list is.... oral.


How much enjoyment do you get from receiving oral sex?
(she cannot answer this with her mouth full)

What are your thoughts on anal sex?
Anal sex gives the best orgasms

What's the largest number of people you've shared a sexual encounter with in one session?
I'm not telling

Sexual Interests:
What types of sexual activities turn you on?
Giving/receiving Oral Sex, D/s

What types of sexual activities are OFF LIMITS to you?
Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), scat, anything outside of SSC

What types of new sexual experiences would you like to explore?
Open to explore just about anything within
our relationship and within the boundaries of anyone who wants to play with us.


Besides the obvious, what areas of your body do you consider erogenous zones?
Ears, Lips, Neck, Hands/Fingers, Chest, Belly/Abs, Back, Butt, Inner thigh, Knees, Calves, Feet/Toes, Mind (Intelligence), Hair, Hips

Have you ever had erotic pictures or video taken of you?
I've taken and been in a few naughty pictures.

Do you enjoy talking dirty during sex?
(she still can talk with her mouth full)

Does size really matter to you?
Yes, but there are ways to work around it.

Swinging/Swapping:
What are your favorite places to play in? (e.g. clubs, conventions, hotels, outdoors, parties, private homes, resorts/cruises, etc.)
Hotels, resorts/cabins and eventually private home with the right couple.

What type of environment do you prefer to play in?
No preference

Tell us more about each partner's amount of participation when you're swinging/swapping?
We both like full participation, but mostly whatever is consensual with both couples.

How open are you to "full swap" (i.e. having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner)?
Yes... as long as everyone's comfy.

How do you get comfortable with new partners?
Chat online, eventually we like to meet in a non-play atmosphere first and then move onto play eventually.

How long have you been involved in the swinging/swapping lifestyle?
Less than 1 year

How much experience do you have with swinging/swapping?
We are new to this, just so you know why we may move slow at first.

How much do you prefer to get to know other people before playing with them?
Enough to be comfortable. If we are not comfortable with you, we do not intend it to be negative. Just because we may be feel comfortable with you in the bedroom does not mean that we don't still want to be friends.

How many couples do you prefer to have involved when you swing/swap?
One couple

How many women do you prefer to have involved when you swing/swap?
Two, one from each couple.

How many men do you prefer to have involved when you swing/swap?
Two, one from each couple.

What are your thoughts about including single women or men?
Single women may contact us at any time.
Single men, we will contact you. if you contact us, we will block you.


If you're a swapper, tell us your favorite swapping story.
Havta get back to you on that one...

Fantasies:
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!
This round of drinks is on us....get comfortable!

What role-playing scenes do you fantasize about?
Cop/Prisoner, /John, Master/slave, Stranger/Stranger, Military

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?
A bed, A rollercoaster, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?
Halle Berry--those eyes!
Rachel Wiesz--just about anything
Vin Diesel--that voice and that body
Clive Owen--those cheekbones!


Tell us about your favorite sexual encounter.
We'll tell you in person.

Is it important to fulfill your fantasies?
Yes--fantasies can keep things interesting... use your imagination.

Have you helped someone else fulfill a fantasy? What was it?
Yes, but not done yet.

How important is it for your partner to fantasize?
It is important--keeps things fresh and interesting.

What is the most recent fantasy you fulfilled? Was it good?
Fantasy fulfillment is why we are here.

Sexual Accessories:
What toys have you used in sex play?
Dildos/Vibrators, Ben Wa balls, Clit stimulators (battery operated), Vibrating eggs or bullets, Whatever our partner(s) likes/wants.

How do you use your sex toys (with yourself and others)? How often?
Whatever is fun. More often than not...

What sex toys would you like to use and why?
All of the above...

What bondage type gear do you enjoy using during sex play?
Blindfolds, Handcuffs/Shackles, Paddles

What food items have you used in sex play?
Whipped cream, Ice, Cucumbers, Carrots, Strawberries/Berries, Cherries, Bananas

What food items are you interested in using for sex play?
Whipped cream, Ice, Cucumbers, Carrots, Strawberries/Berries, Cherries, Bananas

How do you play with food during sex?
Play a little...eat a little... play a little...

What kind of porn movies do you enjoy the most?
Soft, Hard, BDSM, Anal sex, Busty women, It depends on my mood, Amateur, Group sex, Oral

How do you enjoy your porn?
I enjoy watching porn with my partners, it gets us horny

Dreams & Goals:
Where would you like to live?
At the beach

What would be your dream house?
4 to 5 bedroom house with a nice backyard

What's your dream job?
One that gives us freedom to be with our family and be financially secure.

What's your dream vacation/getaway?
Any beach on the Riviera Maya in Mexico--go every chance you get!

If you could do anything what would it be?
Retire, vacations at costal resorts, travel the country, help raise our grandchildren.

How do you handle set backs to your dreams?
Suck it up, tough it out and do the best you can.

How important is it to share the same dreams as your partners?
Very--common goals give each partner something to work towards.

Tell us about some dreams & goals you recently realized.
Moving to our farm.

What is your ideal fantasy "date"?
Having a few drinks, grilling steaks, good conversation, laughter, maybe a movie before dessert.

What kind of relationship(s) do you want?
Play partners, Casual, Activity pals, D/s

Where do you see yourself in a few years?
Taking pictures, raising , horses and cows on our own personal slice of heaven, our farm.

Physical Stuff:
What is your favorite clothing style(s) during the day?
Casual

What is your favorite clothing style(s) during the night?
Classy

How would you describe your body, style, and appearance?
We both try to stay in shape and have been doing better, BUT, we both also like to find new recipes to try and love being in the kitchen. We both love to enjoy life, and that includes cuisine. We are not Ken and Barbie, nor are we looking for Ken and Barbie.

Describe your most attractive feature.
His--eyes, cheekbones, forearms and ass
Hers--eyes, hair, legs and bust


What body part do you first notice when you meet a person?
Eyes

What do you consider the most attractive feature when looking for a sexual partner?
The entire package, starting with the mind

How much does physical appearance matter to you in a partner?
Sexy is as sexy does.........

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?
Chemistry, Personality, Intelligence, Honesty, Physical attraction, Same/Similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of every factor.

How important is physical attraction to you in a sexual relationship?
The mind is the largest sexual organ... everything else follows suit.

What do you wear for underwear?
Him--None/Commando
Her--Thong, lace


What do you think about tattoos?
Body art is beautiful

What do you think about piercings?
Doesn't really affect me

Do you exercise? How?
Horseback riding, mountain biking, working on the farm, chasing the ...

What is your sexual health status?
STD free (tested regularly)

What STDs are you comfortable with your partner having?
None of the above

Entertainment, Sport, Hobbies:
What type of television shows do you enjoy watching?
Sports/Racing, News, Dramas, Variety Shows/Stand-up/Comedy, Documentary/Learning/History, Movie Channels, Sci-Fi, Porn

What are your favorite television shows?
Lost, any of the CSI shows, Boston Legal (gotta love William Shatner), The Unit, anything on the History or Comedy Channel, Blue Collar Comedy, ER, Crossing Jordan, Myth Busters

What kind of movies do you enjoy the most?
Action, Drama, Sci-fi

What are your favorite movies?
God, there is not enough room....some of the all time favorites would be Quigley Down Under (he loves the gun, I love Tom in those chaps), The Pirates of the Caribbean movies, The Notebook, Tombstone, The Mummy movies (Rachel Wiesz again
and again), Monsters Ball, Monty Python.....we can finish this over dinner.


What kind of music do you enjoy listening to?
Rock 'n Roll, Classic Rock, Women Who Rock, R&B/Soul, Jazz/Blues, Heavy Metal, Industrial, Country and Western, Classical, New Age, Oldies

What does listening to music do for you?
It's relaxing, It's inspiring, It helps me get my anger out, It's great for dancing, It's good background noise, It's how I express myself, It helps me keep rhythm in bed

What are your favorite musicians or bands?
Another LOOOONG list we can discuss over drinks....Aerosmith to ZZ Top

What are 5 albums you can't live without?
Only FIVE? Shoot us now.....

Tell us what you're reading now.
Her--
Anne Rice--Lasher(part of the Mayfair Witches series)
Deane Koontz--Brother Odd (highly recommend all of the Odd Thomas books)
Him--
Brother Odd, Different Loving


What are your favorite authors or books?
Anne Rice, Dean Koontz, Tom Clancy, Clive Barker, Stephen King......order another round

What types of activities interest you?
Surfing the internet, stained glass art, target shooting

What do you like to do in your free time?
Her--
Other than sex? Read, surf the net, watch a good movie, take pictures, spend time with the .
Him--
Reading, writing, surfing the web, the grill is MY domain (lol), sporting clays, bein a grease monkey, helping the with homework.


What types of sports and activities are you active in?
Equestrian, Fishing, Hunting, Camping, Hiking, Mountain biking, Traveling, Walking

What are your favorite sports/teams?
Her--
San Francisco and whoever is playing Dallas (grin), whatever football team our oldest is on, whatever softball team our oldest is on.
Him--
San Francisco 49ers and Indianapolis Colts (Go Indy!)
OSU and TU football
Anything UFC


Work and living Environment:
What best describes the pace of your life?
Go with the flow

How much time does your job take up in your life?
We work full-time

Describe what you do for a living.
He works in Logistics for a major company, she works as a QA Lab Analyst for a food production facility.

How often are you online?
We're usually on for an hour or two a day

What kind of place do you live in?
House

What do you like about where you live?
It's peaceful, hard to find... and ours!

What is your current dating situation?
I'm married, but we swing

What types of relationships have you had in the past? Share your story with us!
Order another round...

What is your family life like?
Laid back... after the work is done.

How can Adult Dating zone help you change your life?
Connect us with like minded people.


cowboywanted2day 52F

1/31/2007 12:42 pm

Sorry you are having trouble, but hang in there - things will work out!

Rope'Em!
cowboywanted2day

Lets Save A Horse and Ride Each Other,
cowboywanted2day


rm_RK7068 replies on 1/31/2007 6:12 pm:
Yea, lol. I think we're a bit over 8 secs. lol

rm_stellaonfire 55M/41F

1/31/2007 12:54 pm

You too..lol
Now I dont feel so alone!?!?!?


rm_RK7068 replies on 1/31/2007 6:09 pm:
Yea, lol. Thanks for stopping by!

bad_assed_witch 109F
33758 posts
1/31/2007 8:51 pm

you both ROCK!!!

~ The New & Improved Cocksucker ~


rm_RK7068 replies on 2/1/2007 3:32 am:

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