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THE WOMAN - MY MIRROR  

rm_gothicscene 58F
4 posts
3/15/2007 3:53 am
THE WOMAN - MY MIRROR


I wrote this text because often people ask me how comes that women are able to enjoy sexual pleasure with men as well as with women. Is that only a matter in the head, is that passion…
I want to squeeze out explicit, that anything I write, is a personal finding, based on proper stud’s about History, Religion, Culture and proper experiences.
Consequently, I do not speak in general, nor for another. I am convinced that each individual has an own vision in this matter, and that each point of view is equally in value as information source for all others.
I do also only speak about the sexual circuit between two women who are sexual attracted by men as well by women, the nowadays “bi” or “bi-curious”.
I don’t lay any relation, even if they exist, with the sexual circuit man-man nor the further developed woman-woman called “Lesbian”, neither any other sexual circuits like Transsexual and many others, and this only because I don’t have myself the experience or enough knowledge about, and I am of the opinion that in that case, I better shut up to don’t strew false information or to don’t create new taboo’s.
It would be very interesting for all sexual active person, to learn about the different kinds of sexual preferences, but explained by the experienced person, to better understanding.
For the more correct knowledge, the more respect, the more joy!
Maybe a hint to all writers on this site.
And last but, sure, not least, I want to squeeze explicit, that in my text I am talking about Religion, Social- and Cultural background, but it’s none of my intensions to fix, discriminate nor to harm anyone. I speak mere, neutral informative. My respect for the human being is general and my “friend’s” selection is based on individual personality. Neither religion or background plays hereby a role.
In case of questions, don’t hesitate to contact me, this mind is open, I can guaranty you always a honest answer.

THE WOMAN ‒ MY MIRROR

Sex is a (Gods) gift, which any of us, men as well as women, is blessed with by birth. It’s an art to fully develop this gift during our course of life. And this development varies to each men, on an individual rhythm (btw, such as each gift), to attain a personal grade level.
We all know that brain of men and women, functions in different way. The operative way of the brain, combined with the sex-gift and in addition with cultural and social background, -whereby a lot of taboo’s, prejudice and ignorance plays a large role-, provides the final result of the individual sex-gift grade level.
The less taboo’s are about the sexual relation between men and women, because this one was the archetype, and accepted in first place due to the propagation of the human race.
But when we take a dive, back into the History, very early we find back traces which are proving that men already then, discovered that there is a lot more to do within sex, then only guaranty the propagation. Think of the Egyptians, the Romans, the Greeks, ….
Finally it was the inquisition that gave the death-blow for a very long time, to eliminate sexual pleasure out of the propagation-law.
Nevertheless, the joy around sex never stopped. It was hidden and subsisted only in particular society. Explanation here for can be that the higher popular classes, were more intellectual developed. The poverty -which was the stop for any intellectual development- on the one side, and the pressure of Religion on the other hand, were the largest reasons for the “lower” popular class, to create a negative reflection about sex that was not only meant for propagation.
Seeing, studying, analysing of the individual with the same sex, was totally taboo, let alone, discovering and accepting the beauty of it, or worse, cherish it, was totally devilish.

Today the day, we are, in some options and very fortunately, back a little bit closer to the ancient cultures such the Egyptians, Romans and Greeks.
The religions (with all my respect for all of them), have lost a lot of them power over men, which now develop himself more easy then for example in the Middle-Ages. This intellect is no more consider as evil but ratter as a virtue. Men re-found the mind-freedom. There is “think”-freedom and “do”-freedom.
And men looks back around, men discover again.
First only men, but now, fortunately, also women.
And some of this women have looked “good” at the other women, and they discovered that this creatures had a lot of virtue in there body’s, next to there well know, traditional duty’s.
These women are not extreme feminists, like too often and very wrongly is thought.
These women just see other women through eyes of men. They feel through the senses of men and they think through an under part of men’s brain.
Themselves, these women love men, respect men, and need men.
But they can share everything with men as well as with women.
And in view of, these women broke through the taboo’s surrounding sex, they can enjoy sex with other women in the same, equivalent way as men do.
These women see, just like men do, the beauty of other women. Cause, to be honest, the anatomy of women is in general, more fine and beautiful then men’s (sorry men, of course I know there are sumptuous specimen between you!).
These women also see the sensuality in other women and are therefore able to catch up the sexual rays of other women, and more, to process and send back the ray to the sender-woman, whereby the sexual to and fro-circuit originate, just like between men and women.
These women are able to touch other women, feel them bodylines, and to get stimulate by it, while in meantime they can give other women sexual pleasure.
Cause these women, like I already said, think, see, feel like men, but due to they are themselves women, they have the advantage to know the women body that good, so they are able to treat other women the right way, where for the sexual pleasure becomes even worthy to that of a men-women sexual joy.

And for me?? Yes, it is pure matter of passion for me to touch and have sex with women as well as with men.

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