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Profiles I was looking at the "on-line matches" section - and I was thinking about how many men say that there are all fakes on here, or that they don't want endless emails, but it is no wonder based on the profiles they have. First of all, if they have prefer not to say for everything - I am not even going to bother - why should I when they haven't bothered to tell me anything. There are a couple of things that are deal breakers for me (smoking for example) so I won't waste either of our time if I know that up front. Also if they have one or two lines in the description - again not telling me much, there are a lot of men on this site, and if you have nothing in your profile that interests me, I tend to just move on. Oh, and if those one or two lines have a bunch of misspelled words or typos - no chance - that just shows someone doesn't care at all. Then the ones that lie about their status - they put single in their status, but in the profile or first email say they are married. Really don't understand that. If it is because some women filter out married men - it is for a reason - your charming personality is not going to change that - so be honest up front - it makes things so much easier and more fun. The other thing is that men seem to think being on here gives them a guarantee that they will<b> get sex. </font></b>It doesn't. Just because a woman is on here does not mean she has no standards at all - lol Married or attached men, if you were not married or attached, could you get laid? If not - being on here isn't going to help. NSA or FWB are fine, but you still have to be attracted to each other. If I was out at a bar or a club (when I was younger and did that kind of thing) if I hooked up with someone, it wasn't the guy sitting in a corner all night, it was the guy that talked, joked, and laughed with me, and that I had a spark with. It is the same on here - I am looking for that potential spark in the emails or chats - yes there is a lot of suggestive talk, and talk about sex - but if someone is intelligent and can make me laugh in addition to that - there ia a much better chance that I will be attracted to them. Too needy, or too cocky - I don't even respond - and really if you just send me an email saying, want to play, or something along those lines, you better be gorgeous and perfect - lol - because someone that can't bother to form at least a couple of sentences probably can't bother to do a lot of other things well - lol I am not at all into endless emails or chats - if we talk - exchange pictures and think we want to meet - then lets meet - figure it out - or move on. If you are only available in days - and I tell you I work full time - just move on - don't try and figures something else out - it isn't going to work - and it takes away from the fun - and really isn't that why we are all here? |
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It is the nature of the beast. Guys want the woman to show him everything about her but yet he shows nothing. And those guys who send pictures of their dicks in an email or post 4 or 5 of the same pics on profile, and nothing else, I tend to believe that if that's all he has going for himself then he has absolutely nothing to offer me. I really don't think a man can think with his brain when all the blood has rushed to his dick. Most men think that just because this site is geared around people looking for, needing, wanting, or simply desiring sex, that we all should be having sex with them, even if they look like they have just stepped out of the twilight zone with horns. LOL I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"  
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Nice posting Horny
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6/6/2011 3:35 pm |
Well said!  Too many people (mainly guys) confuse fantasy with reality. Clicking your mouse will not turn your fantasies to a reality, no matter how many clicks you make!
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Horny Kitty Cumm ride me this weekend
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Lot of good points, HK. I think if someone really wants to meet, they'll find a way to get out. Whatta ya mean "guys think being on here guarantees they'll get laid"? The membership ad say it so it must be true...lol. I think a lot of guys on here have a fantasy of who is one here. Maybe they think they'll meet an Angelina Jolie type and she'll want only him. Are women the same way? Do they think Brad or George Clooney is on here?
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6/11/2011 8:31 pm |
you peeked my interest. I'll keep peeking.
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wait you mean Brad & George are not on here - I am so dissapointed - lol I don't know about other women, but I am not expecting to meet anyone with movie star looks - although I have actually met a few guys that were pretty hot. I just think the odds are better for women, and there are some really good looking guys that don't want a relationship, or any drama - lol Or guys that are married or attached, that don't have the same opportunities to meet women as single ones do.
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6/20/2011 9:06 pm |
Nicely written, and valid points too. Good luck in your search, you're a long ways away from me, but who knows?
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I'm new to reading your blog and have enjoyed it. Looking forward to reading more. -Sam471364 on y
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Looking forward to reading more
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IM me let's chat
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Hi Hot Horny Sexy Kitty email me on here luscious lady>>!
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Hi Very sexy lady
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9/23/2011 11:05 am |
I just caught your profile comment about being attached to someone. I am in the same situation with no one to talk to. I listed my profile as "for communication only" and that I am in love. Boy, did the contacts plummet! I want to be able to talk to anyone about what I'm going through, but it seems that men don't want to talk about love or commitment and women don't want to be talking to someone who's taken, when it bites into their time searching for their own fun. I have expressed this with my love and she wishes for me to have an outlet as well. She has a friend that she shares with and it's a great outlet. I would have no reservations about putting you two in touch to share as well.
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a person can't lay everything on the table right away ... shouldn't there be a little mystery ... then get to know the one you want to get to know ?  ...
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1 post 10/4/2012 2:44 pm |
This is really good advice, especially the idea of just being honest and upfront. I think that will produce better results than just leaving things ambiguous or lying, to get laid. Thanks for the blog post, I learned a few things.
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