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Insult or just bad timing
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Insult or just bad timing Angie was talking to a couple from another swing site yesterday. She met this couple while out with her boyfriend at a meet and greet one night. They were discussing what to do at the next one. They were commenting that Angie would never meet anyone new if her and her boyfriend didnt learn to socialize more. They commented that they both just sat there. Angie explained that her boyfriend is just really shy in public but that her husband was the out-going one, and if he comes to the next one, he would meet more people. At that point, Angie shared a picture of ME with them, since they had never met me or seen a picture. The very next line was, "have you considered coming alone or bringing a girlfriend instead"?? The rest of the conversation was all about Angie and what they would like to happen with her. I took their comments as saying that they were not happy with what they saw and ONLY want to meet Angie. I am just wondering if it seems i read too much into this, or should i go with my first instincts, since it seems clear to me that i am not what they are looking for. I know this new group is alot more stuck on looks, and that is something i was not blessed with. I just dont know if i should say something to them, or just leave well enough alone and hope i was wrong. Would love suggestions on how you handle a situation that you are not sure about. I dont wanna just come right out and ask if they dont like me, but i wanna know. Or maybe i dont wanna know. I guess i dont know what i want. |
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Hey bro: What I gather from all of this is that this couple in question is VERY shallow. Do NOT beat yourself up over this. I feel very fortunate to know you...if they don't want to make the effort to know you as well, it's THEIR loss.... ^100, yer friend, Royal I can be found wearing  in The Valley Of Royal , Daddy's Girls! (AGE Friendly) , The Sex Palace , JEWELS STRIP CLUB , and Jockey's Riding Club .
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4/4/2008 8:05 pm |
I have to say that i think they were rude as all get out! Its one thing to admit openly that you are ONLY looking to play with the FEMALE half of the pair, but to be so rude as to se a picture of the husband and suggest she come alone? I am sorry, that just shows that some people are complete snobs. I myself would be very happy to spend time with BOTH of you, and would never consider being rude to anyone here, even if i didn't want to play with them. Usually i only feel like i have to apologize to women for OTHER men and they way they act, but this time EVERYONE should apologize for BOTH of those cretins! As for meeting THEIR standards, don't worry, you'll only hurt your neck looking BACK at them! Take care Mike, and lets talk again soon!
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I could not have said it better my self Lylli ...... I hate people that judge other
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4/3/2008 6:21 am |
I agree with Dand J and also Lylli. I think my husband is a very very sexy man.
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try and just be confident and happy in who you are. You don't need people who are going to be rude and hurtful. as above, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and so keep looking for someone who appreciates you! xxx
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Well, my husband and I don't swing but the way you described the moment here is that they are ONLY interested in Angie. I mean, they weren't interested in her boyfriend either. So, maybe they are really just looking for a female. For them to have said what they said was strictly rude, and you shouldn't WANT to be around or with people like that anyways! To judge is wrong, if they pointed their own fingers at themselves they find twice as many "flaws." Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...I have found others that I was not attracted to, and I have been unattractive to others....but never have I received a horrible comment in comparison as Angie got about you nor have I given such a comment to someone I just wasn't attracted to. I was brought up with manners, apparently they weren't! Sluff it off, maybe this new group isn't for ya'll. But, snub them of your list, they are not worth the energy of trying to meet their standards. ~Lylli~
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