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The Art of Handling Rejection
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The Art of Handling Rejection I find it necessary to revisit the topic of accepting rejection. I realize that its a difficult thing to do with grace (having a higher rejection rate than most I speak from experience.) However, is it too much to ask that you be an adult about it. About a month ago I met up with someone who wasn't my usual type. However, he piqued my interest. So I invited him over and while he was a great looking guy and charming, I realized that we didn't have any chemistry. I told him how I felt and he graciously accepted my feelings. If only this tale ended there you'd be doing something better with your time. However, a few days passed and I started receiving IM's from him. They were the I-know-what-you-said-but-I'm-gonna-needle-you-until-you-change-your-mind messages. I again stated more plainly that I wasn't interested then ignored them all together. I hoped his interest would fade away. That brings me to this morning.Beep went my IM on my cell. And I shall now impart this conversation verbatim. Before I do I should mention what I do for a living. I drive people to medical/dental appointments. I say that so you understand the full scope of the what this bastard has going in his crazy head. HIM: Goodmorning, hope that u are doing well. Take care- Jj ME: No reply at this time HIM: Can u get together 2day ME: Sure just not with you HIM: Wow! Where did that come from, I've been nothing but nice with u ME: I told you i'm not interested but here you are again HIM: I hope u get into a terrible car wreck-ur cursed. Although I don't believe in curses isn't it just a bit over the top to wish harm on someone just because he/she is not interested in having sex with you. Maybe I'm wrong...you be the judge. Bottom line a simple "ok I understand." (even if you don't) is better than acting the fool over something so trivial. |
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8/23/2007 9:36 pm |
Good grief... What a nut! I seriously hope he doesn't know what you drive. If he does, I'd say its time to pack some heat, or at least one of those extendable steel batons. I CANNOT stand people who are mannerless oafs, but this is so far beyond that, it verges into the realm of psychotic. And really, really weird... Cursed? Really? As in a fuckin voodoo doll? The evil eye? I dunno. That last little tidbit really puts a different spin on the conversation. I can at least understand fuckin mean... but voodoo? Now, if you'll excuse me I've gotta go stick some pins in a doll that looks like my wife...
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1 post 4/30/2008 9:56 pm |
get him girl. tear his ass up...lol dont worry about him, he just wants to see if your week. we already know that your not.kick his ass to the curb. have a good one.
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