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Out of the Blue Balls
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Out of the Blue Balls Why is it that men come back after months even years of not contacting me? Is it I have the amazing pink taco, or do they think I am sitting home waiting to hear from them? Sorry guys I have a boy-toy who if I could lock in my closet I would be off this site and even he learned the hard way I wait for no one! It blows me away when someone from the past contacts me out of the blue. Sometimes its entertaining to play with them like a cat toying with a mouse,others I get that "old flame sentimentality" about, and some I am down right bitchy! For the most part it depends on how we ended things. Case in point: I met a guy who travels for work. He was in Colorado for a day, we went to lunch, had AMAZING sex! Kissed him goodbye and off he went. I didn't have any intention of hearing from him but lo and behold, he text me the other day! He is trying to make it back to Colorado and wants to see me. We met 4yrs ago! He said I have been on his mind and whenever someone mentions my state he thinks about me. Ok, he is the sentimental flame lol!!! No romance just the great sex!  Scenario 2: You meet someone hit it off, you lose touch. This happens to me at times I think because I am very busy and so is my partner. Also, because I was raised Old School and have wayyyyy too many male friends! (Not sex partners.) They would often forget I am a woman(I know hard to believe, think it was the breast binding and the mustache that did it,(not really) and start talking guy talk about women and the things they do that annoys them or the bullshit they would pull to get rid of someone. So I will NOT call,text, or email a guy in most cases without invitation or provocation. This has worked in and out of my favor, I feel if a guy is interested he will contact me, and I have had guys say the door works both ways... Oh well, if a guy from this scenario contacts me, I am nice until I find out the reason we lost touch. Then comes... Scenario 3: I meet a guy go out for drinks,have sex, he asks if he can see me again. Great sex was good I'm down to see him again.We make plans, he blows me off. No worries I have back up plans shit head your deleted. This was almost a year ago. He contacts me here on Adult Dating zone, Hi how are you, how's it going...Blah, Blah,Blah. My reaction..."who the fuck are you?" Of course I ask him politely, "have we chatted before?" His response yes we did went out for drinks,had sex." Bell goes of in my head... You asshole! I remember you! I ask, "What happened, we were supposed to meet again?" He says, "LOL yeah I started seeing someone." He seemed to think it was ok to leave me hanging and I should be ok with it. I so wanted to say, "Don't you think the courteous thing to do would have to been to at least email me and say, 'Hey I met someone...' But I didn't, I'm still deciding my plan of attack! The HEARTLESS WENCH has been emerging the past few weeks he may be the first victim of her wrath. LOL So when is it ok to act like an ASS and then try to hook up with me? Where does it state its ok to blow someone off and have the balls to try and fuck them again? Guys how would you feel if a girl did this to you? Be honest would you do this to a woman? Would you expect her to give you the time of day afterward? Would you try and contact a woman after not seeing her for a few months, years? Have you? How did it turn out? What would make you try and hook up with someone after not communicating for a month,year,5 yrs? Is it the amazing pink taco, my sparkling personality, stupidity, loneliness, or fear of blue balls?  |
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9/22/2012 1:04 pm |
I've lost touch with people over time, and then years later get back in touch with them. Sometimes we just bump into each other, others I've made a conscious decision to contact them. There was no blowing off or burning bridges, just life. I can't think of a time, but I'm sure its happened that a person's nose was out of joint (unbeknown to me) about how we parted. In that instance I will apologize for the unintended slight. I'm sure if I ever intentionally blew someone off, I would not be contacting them, unless I realized I was an ass and needed to apologize. I hate being a hypocrite. I won't be one. That would make me have to contact them and apologize, but I wouldn't expect the apology to be accepted. As far as it being the "amazing pink taco", or the "sparkling personality", I haven't had the pleasure yet so can't honestly address those. For the stupidity, loneliness, or fear of blue balls, well.....you can't fix stupid, nice try, move the f@#$ on.
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LOL I have yet to block someone.I think my acid tongue wounds them enough to stay away lol! Like I said I do live up to my tat.
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9/23/2012 10:25 pm |
just gotta know exactly what you want
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