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The married virgin...  

LustfulLady64 60F  
1258 posts
1/5/2014 11:37 am
The married virgin...

Now that doesn't mean how it reads...
It means a married person who is taking their virgin ride outside the marriage...

I spotted a hottie on my matches on my home page. Most of you know I rarely initiate contact with anyone on this site. But he just caught my eye and my nips hard.

I sent him a simple email. All I said was, "yummy" Haha I know corny right but hey it did the job. We started to chat via email and set up a meeting.

We met yesterday at one of my favorite public places to meet and talked for a bit. I learned that he had just opened his account with a sister site and I was the first person he was in contact with. "OH shit!" I'm thinking, but I continued to talk with him. He wasn't the first guy that I was his first. LOL

We hit it off and knowing he was shy I chose to let the conversation linger a bit before discussing getting a room... He was very responsive and excited. We decided to go back to my place since my were in Colorado visiting.

When we got back to my place I asked the critical question... Have you ever stepped outside of your marriage... "No." was his response. "SHIT SHIT SHIT!" I think.

There are so many ways a situation can go when someone is a married virgin. They can get an attack of the guilts, before, during, or after.
None of them are good times to have someone feeling like that! Then there is also the scenario where they freak out thinking OMG is this single woman gonna bug me and rat me out to my wife?

NOOOOO, I won't do any of that lol! Baby is sex! And ummm if was hot sex too! For a ripped hottie he was not compensating for a small package! He was shy and nervous of course but as he relaxed he seemed to enjoy himself. Now the thing I don't like about condoms is they guy almost can never tell if the girl has cum... I said almost, ha! He had me so wet he was soaked and thought the condom broke. I assured him it didn't.

Once we were done and he showered, he said, " I'm feeling a little guilty"
Fuck! Here were go!
I told him, "Its ok to feel that way and I understand if you don't want to do it again."

He kissed me and left.

Later that night I was bored and viewed his profile. He added new pics, yum! And changed his profile. I liked the changes and decided to email him and tell him so. Yes I was worried he would think I was being a stalker chick but wouldn't contact him again after that.

To my surprise, I got a text this morning from him! He had to go into work to do something. Asked if I was free. "HELL YES!"
I guess he got over his guilt because he was back in my bed this morning having more fun. He did mention that the is not used to this type of situation and I assured him I would understand either way. Also told him I know on your profile you mentioned a companion. I am ok with hanging out outside of the bedroom if that is what he wants. As long as I<b> get sex </font></b>later. Yes I am a horny bitch! Deal with it!

Now that the holidays are almost over, I will be going back to work full swing, and my will be home. We will have to get a room, and will not be able to see each other as easily. But he did say he wants to see me again. Yay me!
We agreed to keep in touch via text. And I advised him not to look for much communication from me unless he contacts me first. That's my rule, I rarely will contact someone. Just old fashioned that way. If you are interested contact me, I will not be texting or emailing you unless I hear from you first.

Have any of you had a married virgin? How did it turn out? Was it a train wreck? Did it turn out to be a long term fuck fest? Something else?

Before you post a comment about me being a cheater or a home wrecker... Keep in mind, if a spouse is stepping out on their significant other its not because of me and if they are not with me they will be with someone else! Its just sex! I am not looking for nor do I expect anyone to leave their spouse for me. As a matter of fact that would be grounds for me to NOT see them again...



1letsstart2 65M

1/5/2014 1:14 pm

I have done that, she got guilty, it was a one time thing for her. I've had some varying length of fuck fest's. It depends a lot on a person's mindset, I'm independent in thought, so as to stepping out or not, well as you say it's sex, that's different than a long term commitment.

A lot of people seem bound by conventional relationships. In reality there can be many. Life is finite, and I will have fun as I can. It would be easier if there were more people who were more open minded. Not long ago I asked an almost lover of years ago if she'd like to have a cup of coffee, she reminded me I was married, she missed the fact there are perhaps 50 shades of gray, and the same can be said of relationships.

Limited to 50 times all the colors of the spectrum, can be all the relationship's and therefore experiences. Conventional thought, slows things down, cheater, home wrecker, just regurgitated terms generated by others in our society.

The best sex does not come from the guilt ridden insecure demure though horny female, too many scruples. Best sex comes from the independent thinking, smart, sarcastic, horny, and lacking concern of societies orders bitch. I've done both and there is little comparison.


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