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Is there a difference - what do you think?  

sassygermangirl 57F
131 posts
10/2/2007 3:42 pm
Is there a difference - what do you think?

After having received some mails and reading different blogs about the following topic, I decided to post this and see what you all think:

Sex and Love making - Is there a difference?

There are a lot of people who have sex on a regular basis without any feelings involved for the other person (e.g. one night stands, swingers, etc.)

but on the other hand

there is those people who say that love and sex belong together.

Now here comes the question - which one is the better sex - is there any difference at all?

*...having sex with someone you don't know and don't have any feelings for, basically just to satisfy your needs

or

*..making love to someone you are with and have feelings for

What do you guys think?

needing269u2 56M  
71 posts
10/4/2007 5:37 am

 There's definitely a difference between the two...
When you have an established, emotional relationship you have a chance to work at finding out what each partner can do to please the other. That's a great feeling to have.

Pure sex is also great, whether a one-night stand, swing club, or a friend. There is a basic, lustful experience that everyone needs at some time or another. If there's been some sexy conversation and flirting that leads to the encounter it's even better. If we've discussed ahead of time what some of our turn-ons are....we can explore together. Some people get more adventurous in these situations.


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