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I Am NOT The Cougar You're Seeking...I'm NOT A Cougar!!!
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I Am NOT The Cougar You're Seeking...I'm NOT A Cougar!!! I've had 9 e-mails from men, young men, under the age of 35-years-old this week. All of these e-mails have been pretty funny and down right ridiculous: "hey girl, you're the girl for me," "Hit me up, mama, I'm wanting an 'older' woman to show me the way," "You sound nice, I love your pics, let's get together," "I'm looking for a cougar to teach me new things." You get the idea... I try to send replies to all my e-mails, even if it is a "quick response of "Thanks, but I'm NOT interested." I receive angry responses from most of the replies I send...those are just as funny and ridiculous: "Hey bitch, I was desperate!" "Your (yep, totally incorrect use of your, should have been 'you are' but why bother to point out the obvious?) to (another grammatical error) dried up for me!" "You should be thrilled I sent you a note," Again, you get the idea... So, why are they so angry when I've taken the time to even respond/reply? Manners, boys, manners!!! Then, I go to the Tulsa area group that I moderator and one of the 21-year-old men that just joined the group goes and makes 2 personal ad posts wanting a "cougar" or "older woman" to play with...amazing how many folks don't bother to read the rules of the group, I deleted his posts and will be waiting to see if he makes another post which will get him banned from the group...I give a guy 2 violations and then ban him on the 3rd violation... Maybe if I was a Cougar, I would be flattered and yes, interested. But, there is no interest there for me. I always go and read the guy's profile, usually there is nothing there to pique my interest. Since I have no desire or interest in younger men, I simply can't see any of these posts or e-mails as serious considerations...simply eludes me. I had a friend, a guy who is younger than I am, tell me that I am a cougar of sorts...okay, what does that mean? While I have men that are friends that are younger than I am, I have no sexual attraction to these young men. These younger men are what I consider a friend without sexual benefits. They are merely friends...period, nothing else. Perhaps in group sex I would consider playing with a younger guy...I have played with younger guys in group sex piles...but other than a group grope, I have no desire to "get together" one-on-one, in a sexual context with ANY of these guys. I have been with a couple of younger men, but there wasn't an attraction or need to be with that young man other than the immediate purpose it served...in other words, if the young man seeks my company in the capacity of my "hobby" I'll see him,<b> fuck </font></b>him...nothing more than the interest provided by his wallet. I certainly don't seek out these younger men, they seek me. I simply accommodate as the situation merits. Here are a few definitions of a "cougar" that I found in the Urban Dictionary: A Cougar is a female, usually between thirty and fifty years-old, who enjoys the sexual company of younger men. Cougars are only usually interested in men under the age of twenty-five. Also, Cougars are non-committal, choosing to move from mate to mate without ever settling down. It is not uncommon for the same Cougar to attack (sleep with) many different men in the same group of friends. An older woman who frequents clubs in order to score with a much younger man. The cougar can be anyone from an overly surgically altered wind tunnel victim, to an absolute sad and bloated old horn-meister, to a real hottie or milf. Cougars are gaining in popularity -- particularly the true hotties -- as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her shit together. By these definitions/explanations, I'm NOT a cougar. I don't frequent bars or nightclubs, I rarely go out. If I do go out, it is with a group a friends that are all my own age or older. If I do seek the company of a man, you can be sure he is my same age or older, as well as able to afford me financially. I simply don't see the correlation of the definition of a cougar and myself!! I've put on my profile that I'm NOT interested in younger men, men under the age of 45-years-old need not bother...it doesn't do any good, 99% of the men here on Adult Dating zone don't read the profiles of the women. I feel I am being polite by sending a quick response of "Thanks, but I'm not interested" to those that send me a stupid note wanting me to be his cougar...I'm getting to the point where I simply respond and ban the young guy from any form or fashion of contact...the list is growing ever long. So, my young dears, I am NOT the Cougar that you're so desperate to experience. I have seen profiles of gals in Oklahoma that are self-proclaimed/professed Cougars...they do exist, how real they are? I have no idea. If I say I'm NOT interested, I mean it, I'm NOT interested!!!  Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure... - Lord Byron, Don Juan |
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Cougars are in vogue right now. It is a concept I totally support (older woman / younger guy) mostly because I myself benefited greatly from exactly such a relationship years ago. But I suppose they was one key difference from what you are describing ‒ the lady and I totally enjoyed and respected each other, including for a multitude of non-sexual reasons. They CD Fun Crab Rangoon Private Cleavage 1 My Private Blog ‒ Tell me your secrets
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