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love attention and really good sex  

rm_1welikefun 59F
374 posts
7/21/2008 8:34 am
love attention and really good sex


Well I need to bitch about some thing and what better way to do it. On my blog. And maybe help out some people (guys) out there.
I just went to a party on Sat. night. A house party that I have heard alot about but have never been to. And as usual we went with princess and big dady, my most favorite couple. And a very close couple hung out with us (a so very nice surprise, so proud of you . Anyway there were at least 130 people there plus some. A group of really nice people but not as friendly as I am use to, maybe because it was such a huge turn out, maybe not.
Okay lets get back to my bitch which happened not only at this party but has happened a couple times in my swinger life style before. (But this bothered me the most because it happened more then once at this party). The bitch is this: When you work to get some one to go into a room with you to have sex (all the flirting and teasing and the time) then have sex with that person, I mean it is great to watch all the others having sex but pay alittle attention to the one you are fucking. I felt like I had a cock in me but what was I fucking? I can get more out of my new Hitachi wand and my hand, the guys (again more then one Sat. night) were doing the action but not once touched me (other then his cock inside my mouth or my pussy,)they were not even looking at me at all, and I mean the whole time. And here I was trying to be sexy and trying to turn him on. Now you can ask all my friends, I like to be in the center of it all, getting all the attention I can get. I am a attention slut, not shy about that. And if I am not the center of attention then I am okay with that, but when you are fucking me I am not okay with not getting attention. So remember if I am fucking you and I suddenly get off your cock and walk away you may know why, and if you don't get it then not only do I feel bad for you but me being the blunt person that I am will set your ass straight. There are plenty of guys out there that will enjoy my body and will make me feel sexy, I will never waste my time on a fuck like that again. I hated feeling so insulted. Another example of this is when you are fucking and this rude gentleman starts having a everyday conversation with someone else, now how fucking rude is that? I mean it is not like they are telling others that they are hot or to fuck her harder, it is a conversation about what they are going to be doing tomorrow, come on guys what are you thinking???? Am I that bad of a fuck? I don't think so, I have many coming back for more, so I do think it is all the assholes out there that will never fuck me again (and will tell all my swinger friends about you also). Another good one is when you are giving head and they guy is so bored that he needs to light a cig, okay you are bored then take a fucking break asshole, its okay if you don't like how I am giving you head, everyone is different, so why waste your time? Why waste my time? I would rather be told that you need a break so I can go enjoy giving head to some one else that will like what I am doing.
Now I am sure I am not the only horny girl out there that this has happened to, but girls lets stick together and if we are not getting what we deserve by giving our bodies to them, then lets all make a stand and walk out and leave them assholes to jerk off all by themselves. We are there for ourselves and because we like sex and also giving them pleasure, they are lucky that we are willing to share our bodies with them, if they cannot appreciate what we are giving then fuck them, there are so many others that will and do adore our bodies and are very happy. No more wasting time on them when there are so many gentlemen out there that are sooo good in having sex with us.
Sorry for the bitchiness and the swearing but this is how I feel about the subject. And to all them wonderful gentleman out there thank you for letting me share my body and attention with you. I appreciate it so much. See all you wonderful guys at the next party. You assholes, I will laugh at you and walk right by, eat you heart out, your loss.
Thank you all for letting me share my bitches. Anyone else want to share their good or bad experiences?

QuietPassion69 54M
940 posts
7/21/2008 9:09 am

My goodness, I can't imagine why anyone would not give you 100% of their attention. You are definitely hot and sexy and know it. I agree with you, spend your precious time with those that will appreciate what they have in front of them.

I say this assuming I am not one of the guys you are referring to?..lol. I know you would have told me if I were. I hope I have sufficiently expressed how sexy you are and how much I appreciate your sharing your time and body with me.


rm_1welikefun replies on 7/21/2008 10:55 am:
I don't need 100% of the attention in a open room but jeeze alittle more then nothing. lol. You my friend are one in a million, you listen to what a woman wants/likes and you give it to her plus alot more. Sure as hell not being you that I was talking about. Would never walk by you and say no. Thanks for thinking I am sexy and hot.

NvrSayNo2u 41M

7/21/2008 9:21 am

Hey beautiful, how could the entire room NOT be watching you.... you definetly deserve full and undivided attention.... Well I guess I will have to try to make up for all those other's not paying attention to you It would be my pleasure!

Groups are fun.. but 130+.... I dont know about that many,....


rm_1welikefun replies on 7/21/2008 11:04 am:
Hey there. Well when princess is there in the room I am the second one to be watched and I can accept that cuz I love her so much and I also have my eyes on her, lol. Now she is hot. I will take you up on that offer, never say no to a wonderful boytoy. Next party will be at the end of Aug. (not sure of date yet), hopefully you can stay longer at this one.

PrincessnBigDady 52M/56F

7/21/2008 9:43 am


Very well stated my good friend. Like you, I am definitely someone who likes to be the center of attention, but more than that, I am like every woman in that I want to feel sexy, I want to feel that it's ME turning that person on, that they want ME.
In a pile of bodies, it is different. I like watching and touching the person next to me, getting into the whole thing...then it's all about everyone...but equally, not to the exemption of any one person.
It's when the person seems to be not even there, like you stated previously, talking, smoking, totally into someone else...yeah that bothers me greatly.
I don't pity fuck and I certainly dont' want to be made to feel like a pity fuck. You are so right...stand up, walk out, speak your mind. I had a smiliar experience where I was giving a rather good blowjob I thought and the guy was spending all him time talking to someone else. I sat up and said "can I help you? Is there something else you need? Or are you just not into this?" he looked surprised and said "Oh no, this is great" and I said "so then pay attention to me and act like you like it" LOL!!!
I think the way you handled the situation was great, and I don't think I told you either that when I walked up and saw you riding that guy's cock in your "signature" move, HE WAS totally into you at that moment, oblivious to the 6 people watching..hands on your hips, drving into you...yeah baby, he was into YOU!.
Now, I gotta go blog about how my best friend helped make my fantasy cum true Love you girl!!



rm_1welikefun replies on 7/21/2008 11:21 am:
It is indeed a wonderful thing to feel sexy and alive. And a wonderful thing when they want you. I do like your reply to that man, I think we all should start speaking up like that, hey they are getting a free piece of ass....and we are good at what we do. I sure did enjoy riding his cock with my signature position, lol. Can't wait to read that blog. Love you also my best friend.

funonevt2 65M

7/21/2008 10:33 am

I hesitate to mention this, and it will only work while giving head, but you do have TEETH! That would get his attention.....oh, wait just a sec, I have a call coming in LOL


rm_1welikefun replies on 7/21/2008 11:25 am:
Hey don't take that call, I want all your attention while I reply to your message, lmao. Emmm, never thought about getting their attention with my teeth but you can bet your ass that I will try that next time before I walk away. LOL, thanks for the smile, I was laughing my ass off when I read this. I can't wait to meet you.

PrincessnBigDady 52M/56F

7/21/2008 12:19 pm

    Quoting funonevt2:
    I hesitate to mention this, and it will only work while giving head, but you do have TEETH! That would get his attention.....oh, wait just a sec, I have a call coming in LOL

Now that's funny. And definitely an attention getter!


PrincessnBigDady 52M/56F

7/22/2008 2:25 pm

on my profile I have written that I hate time limits, that I enjoy looking at the body not the time. lol. Thank you for putting your thoughts into my blog. Now I am going to check out yours, see you there.


Yeah, no time limits, except at parties!!!! LMAO!!


bionegetone 54M/47F

7/23/2008 10:14 am

130 people is too many. It's easy to get over-stimulated in a place like that and lose sight of what's important....like the person you're with for instance. Even smaller meet and greets can be a little overwhelming when you're not used to what's going on or you're relatively new to swinging. I don't pretend to be an expert but I think some people assume because the sexual attitudes are more liberated that etiquette isn't involved. The opposite is true. When you have multiple people involved, there are more opportunites to hurt feelings and potential for friction unless people are a little sensitive to each other. Just my .02.


rm_1welikefun replies on 7/23/2008 4:14 pm:
I know with 130 people I was a bit over whelmed. I am use to parties but not that many people. I will go back for sure but do believe I would do things alittle differently. (always learning some thing in this life stlye, should make a swingers book for dummies, lol). I agree with you about peoples thinkings about etiquette, especially when there is some one new and not knowing the "rules" of swinging. But my blog was about guys who have been in the life stlye for a while, and should have shown alittle more class. With newbies I think they get so excited, and can always be forgiven unless they are total jerks and don't use any common sense of course. It is nice to hear everyones .02. I would also like to say that we would love to get together with you guys again. We are having another party so keep looking for the exact date on our blog......

wacka18 55M/55F

7/23/2008 6:54 pm

How could ANYONE not pay any attention to you HOT ASS!!!! You are one of the nicest, SEXIEST, HOTTEST women I have ever met! I would give my left nut to have a GREAT girl like you paying attention to me.I know I have really enjoyed our times together and am looking forward to MANY MANY MANY more times in the future. Iguess the way I see it is if they don't want to pay attention then there will be more of you for the rest of us guys that really want to make you feel good. See ya real soon sexy!!!!

XOXOXO
Powershot


rm_1welikefun replies on 7/24/2008 5:01 am:
Oh my, now you really have me blushing. Hehehehee. Thank you so much for saying all them wonderful things. I know I sure do like the attention that you have given me. Emmmm, your left nut, I will remember next time to kiss, lick and suck that left nut for you. We will be seeing each other soon. You guys are great.

wacka18 55M/55F

7/24/2008 6:21 pm

Now you are making me blush!!!


sugardaddy481 72M
5 posts
7/27/2008 3:55 pm

well I cant stop looking at you and going back and looking and then seeing you in my mind..how they didn't or weren't looking is beyond be,my eyes would be glued on you and from what i see of your cute face my eyes would be there too,and your ass. and my tongue would be pleasing you while my eyes watch to make sure I'm doing right.They should concider them selves lucky !! wow to meet somone like you or these other people in your group would be a dream come true.


rm_1welikefun replies on 7/27/2008 4:22 pm:
We full fill many dreams and fantasies. My friends and I are very good at that. Thanks for the compliements.

ClassicFriction 62M
956 posts
10/1/2008 5:32 pm

Wow, I didn't know there were guys out there that are that stupid. If I had you doggy style and had that awesome ass staring me in the face, I guarantee you that wild horses couldn't drag my eyes away from that delicious ass. And if you were on top riding my cock, a grizzly bear couldn't pry my eyes away from your tits and the sight of my cock going in and out of your pussy.

These guys were just plain dumb. Save your body and talents for those that will appreciate you. There are tons of men out there who would love to touch you and feel your touch in return. The rest of them can go back to their blow-up dolls.


rm_1welikefun replies on 10/7/2008 4:08 am:
Thank you classicFriction. So when are we going to get together so I can ride your cock???????

sextoybox 49M
45 posts
8/23/2009 8:44 am

I've never been to a swinger party, but after reading how people are being treated there, it definitely is making me not want to attend one. I'm not so sure I could handle 130 people partaking in a group orgy, nor could I take a room full of people having casual conversations while attempting to have intimate relations. Perhaps my fantasies will never be realized.

-KC


rm_1welikefun replies on 8/24/2009 1:42 pm:
If all party's were like this sweetie then I would never go nor have my own. They are not. That just happened once and I needed to let it out, lol.
A swinger party has several private rooms also. So you can pay attention to just each others body and have fun.
The open room is alot of fun, been in one many times and some times it does get crowded but some, like me enjoy that. Love watching others having fun and love listening to the moans of great sex.
Please don't let this blog ruining any thing for you, swinger party's are the best. You should think about coming to my last summer fuckfest of the year..... All fantasies should become a reality at least twice.

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