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What???? No Orgasm????
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What???? No Orgasm???? I was reading and commenting on a blog today about faking orgasms. Yes...I have been guilty of that in the past! I'm not proud of it...but it was in my younger days....and my man just wasn't going to let himself cum unless I did. I don't know if I was any good at faking it or not...but I DO know that I don't need to fake it anymore. I almost always orgasm.....several times. And this past year found me letting go enough that I squirted! Yes....it's for real!!!! While I was writing that comment...I started to feel a kind of panicky feeling. What if I can't orgasm the same way when I'm allowed to start having sex again? What if the surgery has changed that? What if no uterine contractions mean the orgasm isn't as intense? What if the lack of ovaries and therefore hormones make a difference???? What if I can't squirt? WHAT IF I NEVER CUM AGAIN?????????  |
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6/2/2006 6:36 am |
~ blink blink ~ That would be bad... I think i would crawl into a whole & stay there.
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6/2/2006 6:45 am |
A very frightening thought Angel BUT, there have been many aspects of your surgery that you feared and then overcame with flying colors. Let's hope this is another one of those fears. Didn't you blog once that you had asked your doctor that very question before the operation? What did he say then? You have said that your husband is reasonably adept in his bedroom skills. Let's just hope that he is sensitive enough to help you find just the right buttons to push to make your eyeballs roll back in your head. That wasn't original, I heard it on a rerun of an old TV show the other night. If, you discover that your eyeballs are still looking straight forward after you have your first sexual encounter after surgery, let me know, I don't live far away and I would like to try my hand at assisting in your complete recovery.
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CALL ME!!!!!!
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6/2/2006 7:39 am |
well you gotta wait and see dont jump the gun angel I'm sure you'll be just fine roaming the cyber streets of blogland  
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6/2/2006 8:01 am |
I guess in 3 weeks there is only one way to find out. Keeping you in my thoughts that when the time comes for you to have sex that your orgasm is explosive.
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6/2/2006 8:04 am |
Could it be Possilbe ? I can only imagine - horrendous !
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6/2/2006 8:08 am |
A know Shrink suggested this difficulty in achieving orgasm might have evolved because it helped females select males who were the most powerful and thoughtful, who would be the most likely to hang around as a long-term partner and be a better bet for bringing up offspring. In this theory, women who orgasm easily may have been satisfied with mates who were less skilled in bed. ~ How about That ! ~
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6/2/2006 8:12 am |
Ever heard of sex reassignment surgery (SRS) includes the surgical procedures by which a person's physical appearance and function of their existing sexual characteristics are changed to that of the other sex. If thats possible i believe anything else is !
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6/2/2006 8:27 am |
Trust me, all will be the same  
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6/2/2006 9:29 am |
did'nt I tell you it would be ok...huh....i had mine 13 years ago and it gets better all the time.....and there's nothing to stop it being a daily occurance.......
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The mind is very powerful. What if's are powerful... Food for thought.  Just a little food for thought............. If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you... {=}
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NOW... WHAT IF................. everything will be better than it ever was before? Huh? {=} Just a little food for thought............. If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you... {=}
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Of course you will  ...and I squirted for the first time a few weeks ago lol...I don't think I have ever faked an orgasm tho...lol
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6/2/2006 10:01 am |
You just hush up and quit thinking that way. Ole Dr Feelgooder N. Gooder has assured me that there is absolutely no reason in, under or over the sun, the moon, or the dark that will change except THAT BIG "O" WILL BE THERE AND BETTER THAN EVER. ACTUALLY EASIER TO REACH, AND IF YOU ARE JUST MILDLY STIMULATED BY TH8INKING YOU WILL BE SCREAMING EVEN LOUDER, "OH, OH, OH, OH, OH, YESSSSSSSSSS, YESSSSSSS, YESSSSS, UMMMMMM, OHHHH OHHHH OHHH OHHHH YESSSSSSSSSSS
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6/2/2006 11:44 am |
lol @ HighPocKets...that cracked me up! One bridge at a time...don't be concerned, fear is in our minds, and that's where REALLY good sex starts! H. btw...I drink coffee too!
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Things will be..."different". Now whether that difference is bad or good will be up to you for the most part. You can't cut up a body and sew it back together without making changes, that's the nature of the beast. But aside from some structural changes (parts that aren't there) your state of mind will determine how it works. After I got out of the hospital I was having sex months before I could walk without a walker. Sex was suppoed to be harder than walking in my case... Opus
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6/2/2006 12:24 pm |
angel, take a deep breath, hon...it's gonna be OK. Most women do see a change in sexual appetite. For some, it's less. For you, with this load of stimulating friends, you might want to consider shopping for restraints! Hugs, Cozy
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6/2/2006 1:50 pm |
Try increasing for play, and have ur partner give you a message, rub you all over, kiss your innter thighs, and have him eat you for 1 to 2 hours with out you keeping track of time. Have rub your clit, and suck hard on your pussy, and lick your ass around in circles... that should make you cum........... Never worry about not cuming, think of how many times you will cum......
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6/2/2006 3:53 pm |
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6/2/2006 4:14 pm |
Wow. That's a scary thought. I doubt you have anything to worry about. But it's still scary.
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6/2/2006 5:09 pm |
Orgasms start in the head and when your mind is stimulated you will be too.Let go, have fun, forget the concerns because the mind is the only thing that will hold you back. Happy Orgasms to you (as he slowly walks away whistling)
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6/2/2006 7:10 pm |
My ex went through exactly what you have, and had the same concern. From first hand experience (pun intended)...no problemo. In fact, things got better, she had more and better orgasms...and she became a squirter at 56. I wish the heck I could have gotten along with her better in other realms. Just give it a little time to adapt...the human body and mind are really incredible creations. remember...for every door that closes, a new one opens.
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Awwww... It's going to be just fine. You are going to cum again and again and squirt again and again! Whisper...
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6/3/2006 4:19 am |
I am sure you will be back in full force!!!! Squirting...something I have only done once or twice...damn...
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6/3/2006 5:55 am |
You had a post once before where you were talking about those things we labeled as emotional orgasms. Somehow dear, I just don't think you have anything to worry about!!!! Orgasms are always there for the horniest and randiest of us and you are one of the horniest and randiest women I know of!!!   -B
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