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Men vs Women
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Men vs Women I think I've got it all figured out friends! In traveling through the blogs....I see the same theme often. The men are all wondering why the women are ignoring the pictures of their huge cocks, the winks they send, and the "fuck me now" emails. And the women are all waiting on a man to just come in....sweep them off their feet...romance them into bed. That way we will just be "caught up in the moment"......and not bad girls! And thus.....we're not connecting. What do you think? How would you cure this ailment???  |
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9/28/2006 3:25 am |
And the women are all waiting on a man to just come in....sweep them off their feet...romance them into bed. I don't want anyone to romance me into bed. I want someone to romance their way into my soul and visa versa. i know I Know I KNOW, this is a SEX SITE  
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9/28/2006 3:34 am |
I'm shit out of luck either way. I don't have a picture of my huge cock, I have a camera but my cock is not big so I don't bother taking pictures of it. I don't send winks, I think that in more than a year here I have sent fewer than 10 winks. And finally, I don't send fuck-me e-mails. I think that the lid on my e-mail box is rusted shut. Of course, I haven't tried to sweep anyone off their feet in a long time either. The last time I did that I got myself in big trouble. I prefer to just cruise around blogland and look at the sights and take part in a few conversations. Now, I have been seen in the web cams in far less than formal attire.
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9/28/2006 4:09 am |
Well...its a real bloody quandry hey. Like trying to match koalas with kangeroos. Take a bloke's cock away and he isnt much good. Take a lady's emotionals away and you just have a rational human being. Dammit ...too hard for me ....come tell me when you solve this one.
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9/28/2006 4:19 am |
Considering the majority of my winks have been turned down, I'd like to know the same thing. What really irritates me are the women who show interest at first, even wink at ME (not exactly a common occurance), then suddenly stop talking to you. It's as if they discover how much of a loser I am, so they quickly head for the hills before they can get sucked in any further. And to answer Hydra's request, that's exactly what I'm trying to do, but I can't make any headway if they won't let me. "Today may be the first day of the rest of your life, unless you live on the other side of the International Date Line, then yesterday was the first day of the rest of your life."- Larry Andersen
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Women: don't expect the man from the latest romance novel you've read, or the man who has none of the flaws of your previous SO's Men: Get over the whole cock/pussy relationship. Yeah, sex is nice. If she doesn't trust you and like you as a friend it'll never happen.
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9/28/2006 5:01 am |
With men being from Mars and women from Venus and all...having an aptitude for interstellar relations has it's unique advantages. Being bilingual does't hurt either! H.
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My thought: I agree! Too many huge cocks! A turn off! My cure: I will never post such a pic! And the only way to sweep a lady off this site is to bring in the Zamboni! My realization: I'm just here for the BLOG! XO Labio 
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9/28/2006 5:16 am |
If you whine about love or sex, you will concentrate on the negative and that's what you get...If you want to use your blog to attract, then write about things that would attract what you want...Whining about others behavior is a total waste of time in my opinion. People are going to do what they're going to do and that's even more prevalent here because of the anonymity of the site.... So, write about what you passion for....write erotica that would turn you on in real life....write about what you like to do when not being passionate and just living....read those who write posts that make you smile....respond to their posts in a thoughtful manner... Those would probably bring you more joy.... Skier sliding off to find a large hill with lots of fluffy powder.
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9/28/2006 5:42 am |
"Why don't we get drunk and screw I just bought a waterbed filled up for me and you They say you are a snuff queen, Honey, I don't think that's true So, why don't we get drunk and screw." Jimmy Buffet Ther's your answer. 
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9/28/2006 5:42 am |
Even ole Bill G and that Brunei feller don't have enough money combined to solve that problem. Then you have the problems of distance and age differences/preferences. These three have to be addressed as being the biggest obsticles to most of the other "gripes" on all of the sites. Not too much can be done about the "stupidity" of those that do not have the sense to use common manners in their approaches to others. Most of the e-mails that are talked about are just that too. Stupid, Stupid, Stupid. Then the Ladies also seem to be waiting for that "Special Knight" to ride in on a white charger and save the day too. In this ole world, I am afraid the "ME FIRST AND TO H*** WITH THE ROMANCE" MENTALITY HAS BECOME THE NORM FOR MOST EVERYONE. That has been the problem for so long on site that most folks have just about given up on finding anyone that CAN BE that SPECIAL ONE for them. We have to fix our own "Screwed Up" personalities and accept that primal fact first before we can be Be "The One" for another.
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"Sweep me, off my feet"...Thats IT!! You nailed it.....but for some reason. I always end up swepted under the rug! I have NO ideas on this one!!
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9/28/2006 7:45 am |
As you recently stated -"Why can't we all just get a bong!"  Let's all gather at my place tonight - and PLEASE! - no cloths - OK?
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Men are trying to impress women with "frat" house mentality. They use what would work on them, thinking it would work on women. On the other hand, I think there are so many false people out here...that no matter how nice of an e-mail you send, you get crickets in return. I don't have a photo of my penis. Oddly, I've never had an urge to snap a shot of it.  How to fix it? Create a forum or group called "real people" and start a dialog? (And gentlemen, the dialog should not start with "who wants to fuck me?" )
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Angel...my husband and I have made a point very similar to this for a very long time. If a man or a woman has a picture of their cocks or breasts are you truly going to walk up to them in a coffee shop when you first meet them and go drop your pants or pull up your shirt and say OH yeah now I recognize you...Your Angel Most of the time No and if you do well I wouldn't be surprised if you ended up in jail atleast for the night Why do people on the internet think it is any different here? Honestly though what you bring up is something that I have known for years but have yet to figure a way around it ~It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved! Be Good to those around you! Blade
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9/28/2006 8:54 am |
Cure? For the people who are like that? First,they're the ones who have to believe a cure is required. They have to ask themselves ... "is this working? If it isn't, maybe I've got the wrong strategy." They can also remember that, whenever they phrase a generalization starting with "Men ..." or "Women ..." they might want to stop, substitute the word 'some' for the implied 'all', and then examine what it is in their own experience that has built up to that 'some'. Then they might want to consider that, if even some people are different from them (and ... happier? ... have what they want? ... more successful?) the fact of that difference implies alternatives. So they can start thinking about whether they might to choose a different way of living their life from the existing alternatives. It's up to them.
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9/28/2006 9:36 am |
Good question. I do not do those things other guys do and am very kind and polite in my aproach. I just do not get much in the way of responses. I find the same to be true in public. Nice guys finish last or maybe no finish. lol I keep hearing from one woman friend I am a geek. I must ask her what this means? My clothes are too clean? I where good cologne? I am too polite? There is something I am missing. First to admit it.
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I know this is a sex site, but all cocks basically look the same to me after all (the colors may be different). I think we find it (at least I do) that a stranger wants us, and at the same it is a scary thought. FINE AS WINE IN 2009! SWSunset64
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9/28/2006 10:11 am |
Assign each man a woman as a coach to take care of that side of the problem. It may also take the edge off the other side of the problem. Shining armor went out a long time ago. Now it's dull, camouflage colors that are harder to see, and thus harder to hit. SpaceCadetù
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9/28/2006 10:13 am |
I find this to be an interesting analysis of the situation in which I find myself! I'm basically just a nice guy, looking for friendship to open the door to other things... I'm not trying to sweep anyone off their feet, and I don't send the pictures of my body parts along with lurid, graphic emails... I won't demean myself that way, nor would it occur to me to demean anyone else by insinuating that you are nothing more to me than a piece of meat to be used for personal gratification. Even if you were open to the idea, I don't think I could reconcile myself to the idea. So, falling in to neither catagory, I'm just trying to wait patiently for someone who appreciates that honesty breeds friendship, friendship breeds trust, and trust breeds intimacy. Until then, I'll just keep looking around, hoping to find friends who are willing to take the time and appreciate my approach!
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9/28/2006 10:20 am |
Good question. I do not do those things other guys do and am very kind and polite in my aproach. I just do not get much in the way of responses. I find the same to be true in public. Nice guys finish last or maybe no finish. lol I keep hearing from one woman friend I am a geek. I must ask her what this means? My clothes are too clean? I where good cologne? I am too polite? There is something I am missing. First to admit it. Most people locally who have come to know me know me very well and know me to be a upstanding individual I would hope. You're not going to find ANY common ground on the playing field of Adult Dating zone...sadly there are always going to be higher percentages of men just out there to dust off the nuts (sorry to put it that way), and a higher of percentage of women that want to be loved for who they are. My mother raised me to respect women. I'm like that moreso than most because my father died when I was 5 and my mother never remarried, so the influences were very very different growing up. Perhaps that is why I treat women differently. Sadly, I have been through 2 divorces. The first was a big mistake from the getgo and the second, well that's a long story that can't be explained here. But I always respected and loved them...you had to to get married at some point right?! Heck..I have a dinner date with my 2nd ex on Friday! Lord knows what will happen....but I still respect her as a lady and will treat her as such. irishtongue71
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9/28/2006 11:46 am |
I'm not sure why she asked (because I'm here for email/chat fun only) but I was once asked for a picture of my cock. I obliged by searching Google Images for a rooster picture and emailed that to her. For some reason I think she wanted to see a different type of cock. If a woman wants to see what I'd use to please her perhaps I should send a picture of my fingers that I use to type those emails and chat with
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9/28/2006 12:03 pm |
In my opinion you are absolutely 100% correct! It's interesting cause for the most part we men still have our neanderthal view of women and sexuality. Escapism, fantasy, sensuality is what some may be searching for here. If it was just about the "penis" hell some women have dildos, that scare the hell out of me. Sex involves the senses, touch, taste, smell, sight, sound and sensuality involves those senses being stimulated more than just blood engorging the penis. I truly do appreciate what you have written. We, men need to use or creative side, there is more to us than just a photo of our penis. Show that you can have a diaglog, show that you can think with your other "head as well. Again, great job!
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Well, I've been here over 6 months, and I'm still waiting. I have had exactly one woman reply to my emails, only to tell me she wasn't interested. I took the nude shot off my profile and replaced it with the only digital pic I have with my clothes on, my second favorite companion my bicycle, and me. I had one wink when I first got here, but I had no clue as to what the etiquette was on winks and I think I scared her off. I since have noticed she has removed her profile. All I want is a woman that wants me, close enough that seeing here isn't an all-day affair, or longer, which means I'm limited to within 30 miles North and East of me. That gives me 4 hours total travel time (60 miles round trip), with a few hours of "play" in the middle. I don't get much on my Cupid search like that. Opus
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ANGEL ~ As you know, I've never been here searching for anyone or anything, but I've been incredibly blessed. My best advice, for what it's worth, is DON'T LOOK! Sounds simple doesn't it? The best things happen when you're not looking ... and then when you let the natural, harmonic flow of the situation develop instead of your "positive" outcome (aka, what YOU want to happen) it's a beautiful thing ... come what may. So ... de-emphasize time, go with the flow, and oh yes ~ HAVE FUN!!! / {=} This is my blog - [blog _Safira]. There are many like it, but this one is mine. RECOMMENDED READING: A F F The Only Site For Me
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Darn it Angel...and here I was going to start posting "c*ck " photos on my profile and see if things balance out some...*giggles*
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