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Does Anyone Every Read the Profiles?  

rm_marieallison 60F
31 posts
3/19/2009 1:02 pm
Does Anyone Every Read the Profiles?


I am constantly getting e-mails from<b> men looking </font></b>for one night stands or nsa relationship or "friends with benefits". I reviewed my profile today and I am to the point that I am looking for a romantic relationship.

I am not opposed to a person wanting a roll in the hay or nsa relationship but that is not me.

When I reply to an e-mail I read that person's profile in order to see if we are even in the same book. There have been some men that have contacted more then once when I did not reply and I told them this I wanting more that you are looking for and yet they still insist that we should chat or talk or meet.

The bottomline is that I want romantic relationship.

Now if there is any gentlemen that feel the same way that I do then e-mail me and after a couple of e-mails then we can chat on the phone and see if we click.

rm_HermansBoy 76M
1475 posts
3/20/2009 7:10 am

I always read profiles. There are certain things I'm looking for, just as you are. If they aren't there, then I move on.

In my current situation, for example, a romantic relationship isn't possible. "Friends with benefits" is the best I can offer. So, like you, I get frustrated when women looking for a L-T-R try to contact me.

As a former school teacher I realize a significant number of people really don't read instructions, but it also sometimes seems like all of them are on Adult Dating zone!

Good luck in your search for "Mr. Right!"

HermansBoy


rm_fmrocco1969 73M
27 posts
3/21/2009 1:35 pm

I read your profile and saw we were seeking diffeent goals and didn't contact you. I don't want any points for it but I did read your profile at least.


rm_fmrocco1969 73M
27 posts
3/26/2009 6:03 pm

No problem Hon. But I feel that I must say that given your picture, it's boldness and the fact that you are very attractive, you can't blame a guy for trying. If you'll read my blog, you'll see that I've written to more than 50 women whose profile and goals seem to match mine but have only gotten 3 responses. I think it speaks to a shortage of real women so men are simply casting bread upon the waters, so to speak.


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