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A letter to virgin_male_4sex  

jcrwly 50M
7 posts
5/17/2010 6:26 am
A letter to virgin_male_4sex


I saw this in a post to a local group:

Title: i cant believe how hard it is to just get some

Post: it seems nobody has the balls to sack up and fuck an 18 year old... its not like we yell lol. so is anybody down for some fun... or is this another wasted post


So I wrote the following back:

In fact, it is difficult to get some, especially if you want it to be at least somewhat meaningful. This site is good because you're pretty sure that people are on here looking for sex.

That being the case what have you done to promote yourself?

I see in your username that you are a virgin male. Nothing wrong with that, I was a virgin until I was 23 although I had done just everything but have intercourse at that point. It does imply a lack of experience however. Now if you're looking for someone to teach you the ways of sex that's cool. I doubt you'll find them here as... people on here are looking for mindblowing sex... virgins sometimes make up for lack of experience with other things, or people have a thing for virgins, but either way it doesn't make things easier.

Your profile is generic and uninspiring. If I were a<b> woman looking </font></b>at it I would go right past it. It's great that you bothered to fill in details, a lot of people don't even do that, now fill out your description in a way that makes you look like a real person that is interesting and brings something to the table. Oh, and even chubby people don't like to be called chubby, 'sack up' and be creative, curvy sounds much more pleasant than chubby.

Have some creativity with your picture! Find a friend to take a photo of you someplace interesting. Get a closeup of your face. You don't have to get naked, in fact many of the women I've met on here prefer face shots over naked pictures at least initially.

Like most things in life you get out of them what you put into them. If you really want to make this site work for you you're going to have to put some effort into it!

When you do find someone to have sex with I highly recommend the following... make them come first, at least once, preferably a few times. Learn how to please a partner and it will pay off in a big way. My partners are generally willing to try anything I ask them to (and I have a VERY dirty mind) because they know that their pleasure comes first.

Good luck!


I can't imagine using this site to find one's first sexual experience. Sex and relationships are so difficult already. Getting some the first time through Adult Dating zone could scar someone for life!

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