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Married guys really looking??  

Howdy3328 62F  
768 posts
10/16/2014 9:22 am
Married guys really looking??

Are married men really looking for an encounter?? something new, different, strange??

or just the fantasy.
the idea that another woman is possibly interested??

How can a married one get time away for an encounter??

I am just curious...

comments please, enlighten me

Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
10/16/2014 10:13 am

 our experience suggests that its much more easier to get on this site and stoke the fantasy than carry it out...of those we have communicated with (many more than we met with) most never really gave any thought to how they would facilitate meeting anyone...on the downlow its stressful, they cant go near their old haunts, fear running into a neighbor, coworker, inlaw, etc....most want meets on their schedule - not much fun when you are led in by a great profile only to have the guy suggest nooners or on way to and from work....seriously? whose that gonna work for.

now as we seek bi males, this adds another dimension to why married males seek outside interests, but the typical arc is that they are in an otherwise wonderful marriage (read - the divorce will kill me) but the wife is no longer interested in sex (read - i married in my youth and want something more exciting) and or I have permission (read - she has no idea) or she is not interested in swinging (read - I never asked her cuz she wld freak out and/or I dont really want to share her) on the other hand many have not likely thought out the consequences, guilt, getting caught, catching a disease, etc.

of course not all guys fit into above, there are many very personal reasons why both sexes cheat - sometimes its denial that they are really still happy in their marriage, sometimes they just want a little piece of life for themselves after work and family get their share, sometimes it seems so harmless.


Howdy3328 replies on 10/16/2014 12:27 pm:
You get it....exactly on point. lol.
Lot of times when they don't say on profile (if they even both to fill one out) says a lot.

A friend of mine always starts out with "Can you host?". Not to judge, she doesn't want to get into a sticky situation, nor do I,

and I would think most wives know their hubby's schedules/habits.

Unless your tryst is 2 blocks away and doesn't mind a quick drive-by.. on your timeline..can one really be found??
Is that enough?? worth it??

hughjarce 68M
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595 posts
10/16/2014 5:29 pm

 Married women also make time to satisfy their unfulfilled needs - and I know that from experience. Where there's a 'Willy' there;s a way.


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