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Experiment gone right, or wrong??  

Howdy3328 62F  
768 posts
11/15/2014 11:13 am
Experiment gone right, or wrong??

A few weeks ago, a gal pal and I conducted a little experiment here on A F F.

We went into different chat rooms, at same time,and soon had people talking with us. Great. !

We would go privately chat with a few that caught our attention and mention that we were wanting a 3some. Were they available,.

We would switch up the scenarios, as MFM, FMF.....whatever.
We would say we had the hotel room, and were ready to party.

All the men that were SO eager in public chat room, suddenly had different excuses.
Can't tonight, too far, need more time...whatever

SO, if this a failure??

Do they REALLY want to play...or just brave talk behind a keyboard?

SwallowsStraight 47M
26 posts
11/15/2014 11:26 am

 Online anonymity makes many people far more brave than they truly are in real life. Plus, fantasizing is easy, quick, and about as safe as it gets.

Flaking is rampant for these and many more reasons in my experience.


moses4862 66M
333 posts
11/15/2014 11:26 am

 I wouldn't chicken out, I would come play !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


HazzardMadWolf01 44M
Ask me for a photo
40 posts
11/15/2014 11:28 am

 These are typical results in any online forum. At least that's the experience my wife and I have had.
Sometimes you have to turn right to go left!

HazzardMadWolf01


vanillanmocha 43M/40F
28 posts
11/15/2014 12:04 pm

 It's easy to talk the talk when you are on the other side of a computer screen. From our experience this is a normal occurance. When we first started we had quite a few interested to meet. Yet when we put forward a day and time they vanished

Some of them may actually be telling the truth. Not everyone can drop what they are doing and rush out to a hotel to meet up ( got to get a baby sitetr for the kids, can't play too late etc etc) But I am willing to wager at least 65% of the ones you chatted with were just kicking the tires


Howdy3328 replies on 11/15/2014 1:20 pm:
we even said be in town for 2 weeks......no follow up...

jaqmes57 66M
186 posts
11/15/2014 12:04 pm

 While a lot of peeps on here are just players ..I'm sure there are just as many to which these excuses are real..distance ...time...previous plans for later that evening...


Howdy3328 replies on 11/15/2014 1:20 pm:
we even said we were in town for 2 weeks,...no follow ups

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/19/2014 5:24 pm

 But you DID have a hotel room, right?
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Howdy3328 replies on 11/20/2014 1:29 pm:
hubby and I did, yes

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