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How Much To Explain ????  

Howdy3328 62F  
768 posts
5/24/2016 1:54 pm
How Much To Explain ????

You meet someone new
and new to the Adult Dating zone experience.

How much do you explain, or let them learn on their own?

DO MEN come onto the site thinking it is a sexual buffet?

DO WOMEN come onto the site looking for love?

Your thoughts?

Great_eight 58M
1561 posts
5/24/2016 2:18 pm

 Just be clear what you are looking for. Everyone is looking for something different and finding people with similar needs/wants is the key to success around here.

As far as explaining or providing advice it is best to figure it out on their own.


powercaps716 67M  
83116 posts
5/24/2016 2:20 pm

 that a combination of both, say enough to get by and then you: can say more later.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/24/2016 2:26 pm

 How Much To Explain ???? .... About what? As much as you want to, or not at all.

How much do you explain, or let them learn on their own? .... Depends on the question. They have the responsibility to learn [on their own] about the site they fully consciously joined.

DO MEN come onto the site thinking it is a sexual buffet? ... Yes, because a "Sexual buffet" is exactly what this place is.

DO WOMEN come onto the site looking for love? ... Some are stupid enough to do that.


Icould 65M
3988 posts
5/24/2016 2:38 pm

 Maybe you can explain the place to me?
I have never really been able to figure it out.
There you go
That's all and none of it tragic.


big54al 69M
2259 posts
5/24/2016 2:44 pm

 I've chatted with women that treated Adult Dating zone as just another dating site


lookin4funinBC9 63M
1386 posts
5/24/2016 2:53 pm

 I have been here 15 plus years. When I got on I figured I would find a friend with in a week! LOL. LOL. LOL!!!!!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/25/2016 4:07 pm
    Quoting  :
. It's still a challenge to find people who won't lie just to get you into bed.

Whether they lie or not, doesn't really make any difference. Most women would agree with that because she knows she isn't going to bed with a man she is not physically attracted to sexually, anyway.

If she does go to bed with a liar, it's because she really wanted him to fuck her cross-eyed.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/26/2016 3:48 pm
    Quoting  :
[Whether or not the man lies...]- It doesn't make a difference to YOU, but that doesn't mean it doesn't make a difference to ME. .. The point is, he already lied, and the woman accepted. She would not have accepted if the liar was sexually repulsive to her. So the lie doesn't make any difference. She wanted him.

Personally, I'm not inclined to want to have sex with someone who lied about what they want, ... Unfortunately, you would, if the lie was clever enough, compounded on him projecting the doable amount of imprinted variables, that would increase your chances of having sex with him

Good for you that you're okay being treated that way, but I'm not. ... Didn't say that I would be okay with it in the past tense. It happens. The subject is men seeking sex, women seeking love. Either sex will find themselves in situations where they are lied to , in order for someone to get what then want from him or her.

Women will lie to men to get him to impregnate her. Women will lie to men to have him protect her. Women will lie to men keep him around to help support her child, biologically not necessarily his.


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