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Freud  

rm_MisTakn 55F
152 posts
11/2/2010 9:21 am
Freud

Freud’s writing can make our lives’ delicacies
in their disillusionments more sexually awakened.
The Freudian writer enables us to enjoy our fantasies
without shame or self-reproach forsakened.

That portion of the libido that is described
according to its drive aim is sexual arousal tones.
The most prominent parts of the body enscribed
from which the libido comes are the erogenous zones.

The sexual urge gradually develops from surge
To successive contributions from partial drives.
Human sexual life consists of the urge
to bring our own genitals into contact trives

with those of someone of the opposite sex.
Kissing, looking and touching appear in the process
as concomitant and introductory acts vex.
Sexual life encompasses function regress

of obtaining pleasure from zones of the body towards
a function later put into service of reproduction.
The first organ that appears from birth onwards
as erogenous zone is the mouth’s elocution.

A need for gratification manifests early on thought
in sucking during oral phase.
In sadistic anal phase gratification is sought
in aggression and destructive urge base.

In phallic phase the phallus plays a role
rather that the genitals of both sexes face.
Now the path taken be the sexes diverges as whole.
The boy enters the Oedipal phase

and begins to manipulate his penis whilst fantasizing.
Period of early sexual blossoming which latency period
puts end to biological changes in sexual life comprising
occurs such as loss of periodicity of sexual arousal lurid

and transformation in relationship creeds
between female menstruation and male excitation.
The first erotic object is the maternal breast that feeds,
love arises on pattern of gratified need for nourished elation.

The mother is significant as first and strongest love object arrive,
the paradigm for all later love relationships for both sexes.
The boy renounces satisfaction of the drive
and creates substitute in fetish perplexes.

The primal pleasure ego wants to introduce
everything good and expel everything bad.
The ego has repressed tendencies and blocked their use
from motor discharge to satisfaction had.

But the accomplishment of repression aroses
may be easily defeated by the sexual drives’ reformations.
The two transference neuroses hysteria and compulsive neuroses
contributes to phobias, inhibitions, character deformations,

sexual perversions and difficulties with erotic life to go.
Their symptoms arose out of the fact
that sexual drive impulses had been repressed by the ego
and had created an expression tact

along detours through subconscious hives.
One was able to cope with this
by opposing self preservation drives to sexual drives
in accordance with business of the world abyss

kept going through hunger and love blithe.
The libido was the expression of the force of love contraction,
just as hunger was the expression of the self preservation drive.
In sublimation the originally sexual drive finds satisfaction

in accomplishment that is no longer sexual determined,
but socially or ethically more highly valued above.
The libido of self preservation drives was termed
the narcissistic libido and a high level of such self love

was acknowledged as the primal and normal phase consistence.
The social drives have not abandoned directly sexual goals,
but are kept from accomplishing by internal resistance
and content themselves with coming close to satisfaction wholes

in various ways and produce firm splendidness
and lasting bonds between people in kinship,
for example relations of tenderness
which are sexual in origin and emotions of friendship

which arise from sexual affection.
The libidinous sexual drives best summarized as Eros
preserve continuation of life and guide its detection
towards higher developmental ethos.

As sexual exploration circumscribed table
by physical development cannot be brought thinking
to gratifying conclusion lament results of not being able
to accomplish anything and succeed in anything.

The bond of intimacy is killed off by disappointment done,
by vain wait for gratification,
by jealousy by event that demonstrates infidelity of loved one.
Ever diminishing affection,

ever increasing demands and reprimands
and occasional rejection ultimately sways
reveals full measure of rejection suffered demands.
There is a recurring range of ways

in which love typically is brought to an end.
The compulsion to repeat and direct duality
and pleasurable gratification of drives mend
seem to interconnect with each other in intimate mutuality.

While violence of trauma unleashes a quantum
of sexual excitation which in the absence of apprehensiveness
if potentially traumatic in effect stratum,
simultaneous physical injury annexes the excessive excitedness

by making use of a narcissistic hypercathexis of the affected organ.
Object love shows polarity of love and hate strife.
A sadistic component in the sexual drive can turn jargon
into a perversion that dominates a person’s entire sexual life.

It also occurs as a dominant partial drive loss
in organization of sexual life termed pre-genital age.
The sadistic drive which aims to harm its object derives from Eros,
preserver of life in ancillary of sexual function in oral stage

taking possession of love object scoff
and destroying the object conterminously;
later the sadistic drive separates off
and ultimately in the phase of genial primacy ominously

serves purpose of reproduction by subjugating sexual objectification
to extent necessary for fulfillment of the sexual act.
Where the primal sadism element does not undergo mitigation
the outcome is an erotic life in fact

marked by familiar ambivalence between love and hate.
Fear in what may be a sexually excited state deception
follows the mechanisms of a phobia of late
to secure itself against a revival of the repressed perception.

Some such behavior is not recognized retraction
as having the characteristic of a declaration of love.
There is more than one kind of sexual satisfaction
such as application of organs other dove

than the genitals for sexual intercourse,
representing a situation of sexual gratification.
As such the cure is said to be of course
more respectable than the conversation.

One must be convinced of unavoidable occurrences
of touching on sexual themes nurture
or else be prepared to be convinced by experiences.
As such vehement condemnation of perverse nature

of fantasies is not appropriate fornication.
Transgressions of sexual function exterior
must be regarded without indignation.
Sensual love was not only tolerated by culturally superior,

but even endowed with important social functions endorses.
Suppression of application to higher bereavements,
asexual goals in sublimation is destined to supply forces
behind larger number of cultural achievements.

Such antecedents can explain attitudes towards demands
made by erotic life with either unresisting abandoned stillness
to sexuality bordering on perversion or rejection & reprimands
of sexuality accompanied by neurotic illness.

There is a struggle between temptation to yield to courtship
and complex resistance to temptation ride
assembled from motives of respectability and good sense trip,
hostile impulses resulting from jealousy and wounded pride.

The inability to satisfy the real demands of love audacity
indicates neurosis dominated by intuition of
the opposition between reality and fantasy.
It is not possible to avoid suspicion

that excitements attached to ideas at bay
which are not capable of becoming conscious diffidently
act upon one another in a different way,
run a different course and manifest themselves differently

from those we refer to as normal tressed.
But this does not venture into the open as the prevailing mood
of modesty and respect keeps it repressed.
There are more reasons that determine understood

why repressed thoughts and desires should escape votive
into memories since recollection of things long past all
is in itself facilitated by some pleasurable motive
that perhaps event this one day will be pleasant to recall.

Possibly being the superego speaking ergo
with loving consolation to the intimidated ego.


rm_fun4_you_me 42M
13 posts
11/2/2010 1:46 pm

Interesting but not as much as Freud himself


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