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Toys for Boys -- Enhancing Self Satisfaction  

a69male123 53M
8 posts
8/1/2008 8:33 am
Toys for Boys -- Enhancing Self Satisfaction


I’m really looking for feedback from both guys and gals on this one. Just bear with me while I provide a little background...

Every since I discovered that there's no need to waste a good erection (or even a lousy one!), I've turned masturbation into a personal art form. I'm not ashamed to admit it and neither should anyone else. I find it erotic that individuals can own up to personal satisfaction. As someone who does have sex often enough on a regular basis, I can say that, although it CAN be a substitute, it's more than just an alternate that is relegated to those times when you “just can’t get any.” It's a wholly enjoyable experience in itself, offering you the opportunity to explore things you can't or otherwise wouldn't necessarily express with a partner. And let’s face it - it’s no-pressure and pure greedy pleasure, too!

That said, over my years of mastering the self-stimulation arts, I have been a patron of old faithful, sometimes referred to as “Rosy Palm and Her Five Younger Sisters.” Yes, for the slow, I'm referring to the hand. I'm a lefty myself, at least when it comes to self-satisfaction, finding "switch hitting" a bit awkward. But I digress...

After years of experience with Rosy and the girls, I’ve began experimenting with supplements beyond the hand. I first tried lube. Duh, you say? Yes, but I’m downright conservative by practice so introducing lube took me over a decade. Hand cream came first, spit in a pinch, then later some exotic oils. It certainly hits the spot, but it still leaves me with just Rosy and the girls.

I tried wearing a condom next. It served as a lubricant, but also enhanced things giving a feeling of being inside something more than your hand. Ribs were particularly exciting. It’s now a favorite when something more exotic is not available.

After a number of years of variations on the “lube and tube” scene, I began to develop a darker interest in my partner. I must admit, I’m an “ass guy” who enjoys hips and cheeks to the point of<b> infatuation. </font></b>Breasts are beautiful, but without a healthy bottom, well, I’m just not particularly interested. The interest led me to explore behind my partner for a little light rimming during intercourse. On an occasion or two, it led her to a giant orgasm, but the pursuit was generally denied. So, I stopped trying to avoid ruining otherwise pleasurable experiences.

That led me to wonder what things were like on the receiving end. Don’t misunderstand me: I consider myself strait-8 with a touch of fantasy/curiosity with crossing the line. But, after all, I’m a fair guy and don’t ask a partner to accept anything that I would not. So, my mind wandered for a while.

On a business trip two years ago, locked in a hotel room, I lubed myself well and began seducing Rosy on the left while Righty explored otherwise. I rimmed for a while and found it quite stimulating. (More lube....ohhh.....this feels good!) I shifted position a bit, spread-eagle like I would want a partner to do. After relaxing for a while, I finally penetrated which made my cock leap and drip uncontrollably. I began stroking both locations, sometimes behind alone, leaving my cock dribbling with excitement. When I final came, I must have set a new height record as I erupted. I had discovered the most exciting thing since my first stroke years ago!

After that, my guard was down. I began regularly using a vibrator in various positions. I found that on some occasions, particularly in a doggy-style position, I could make myself ejaculate from the penetration alone!

Recently, I’ve been looking for new tricks to try. On a more recent trip, I had some free time so I bought myself a string of progressive anal beads. They were small at the tip, but progressed to over an inch at the base and were on a relatively ridged “string” so you could pump them in/out like a dildo. With the beads I also purchase some fancy warming lube. To top it all off, I also bought a rubbery “jelly tube” with a hole through the middle. One end had soft molded “lips” and a looser canal for your member while the other end had a smaller, tighter opening. The outside was ribbed so you can hang on and maintain motion.

I lubed up and tried the beads first...holy cow! They were much better than the standard-issue dildo, giving the sensation of multiple penetrations back and forth...my cock was dancing and dripping! Next I lubed up the “jelly tube” and penetrated the lips into the loose canal. I nearly lost it and had to concentrate to get my money’s worth. I was shooting lube at both toys and experimenting with various positions: on my back, standing, sitting on the beads, on all fours. My favorite was face down pumping from behind and humping the jelly tube. My strongest orgasm came when I was lying on my back ‒ the tight end of the jelly role concentrates pressure and semen shot from it like a pistol and landed on my belly. For the first time in years, I had FIVE orgasms in one night. I looked like hell in my meeting the next day from lack of sleep, but I had more fun with myself than I’ve had in years.

I have had plenty of fun lately experimenting and crossing my own boundaries and plan to do more of it soon. Have any ideas? I would like to know about other folks forays into experimental masturbation techniques so I can get ideas of things to try next time. Based on the “jelly role” experience, I’d like to try that or something similar again. The beads were fun, too, and I’d like to see what else might be out there. The challenge there is that the sensation for me comes from the penetration, and penetrating while stroking is a challenge. I’d love to try something I can ride for that sensation, perhaps something larger, leaving my hands free for top-side exploration.

Any ideas ‒ or just stories of your own experiences ‒ are very much appreciated. Everybody have fun!!!!

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