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A (An) email/reply/response is always exciting!  

rm_Sweatyarse 41M
57 posts
9/8/2008 8:25 pm
A (An) email/reply/response is always exciting!


Okay...I've been here for sometime already... half a year, i guess...

Maybe I'll write what i think about here..

It's about waiting for a attention & response... It's almost what it is all about..

It's pretty much like any dating game.. and all dating games are the same. Maybe you will think I'm a loser trying to write all these, maybe...

Let me ask you, how many people have you picked up, or have picked you up here??

For me, it's still a zero... nothing to be proud of, but I've got better luck trying elsewhere. (i will write later... not a good experience though).

Picking up is not so important to me... yet

I've got more attention putting up the 'cans on my head' picture. Hahahahaha!
When i just joined as a silver member, i really had a lot of enthusiasm. Checking back every now and then, every lunch break, going online into chat rooms..

I check out every profile, and winked so much that if i did it in real life, my eye would have been permanently smaller on one side! I edited my profile often... changing pictures and like some of the members, i put pics of my KKJ in hope to entice... (but i guess it just turns people off! hahahaha!)

Then, i noticed the "invite to join my network" button... it took me sometime to think about it before i tried it because i don't expect this site to work like friendster...

Blogs weren't so interesting to me. At that time, i used to think if you like to read blogs, Blogspot had better posts to read... Now, it's the blogs and posts here that keeps me interested. Some of them are really inspiring or really keeps up your perspective, while some are just plain rantings like mine. there are so many good post to name... and most of them are usually active, so it's easy to find!

But whatever you do, be it changing your picture, posting a blog, a poll, a magazine article, an advice or videos... what are you expecting for?

A reply or a response nonetheless! (views are not the same.. someone viewing your profile does not mean the person is keen on fucking you... it could be just that you look like his/her boss/relatives/friend/spouse or your pic looks hideous.. well, there are other positive reasons too...but that's obviously what you are hoping for isn't it?)

Now, that zeroes it to being the same like any other dating websites, isn't it? Well... this is just like any other social networking site, except you do not want to add in your classmates (hmmmm....), siblings, relatives or co-workers (hmmmmmmmmmm...) You want to find for a life partner (pardon me.. but i think it's a little hilarious you would want a life partner that visits or joins a swinger website.. maybe i'm kinda conservative) or a RONS, or fuck buddy,<b> sugar daddy </font></b>& mommies... swinger couple, gangbangers

In most of the profiles i've read, the pick-ups must be done in a reasonable gentlemanly fashion...Sweep them off the feet, look like Brad Pitt, six packs, 20" dicks (lol! exaggerating!) treated like a princess, pampered, fed with chocolates...fast cars, single, have $$$$$.. intelligent...Caucasians only...

Reminds me of a joke i've read:

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The Husband Store

A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands. When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance:

"You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are 6 floors and the value of the products increase as you ascend the flights. You may choose any item from a particular floor or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you CANNOT go back down except to exit the building!"

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband.

The 1st floor sign reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs.

The 2nd floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love .

The 3rd floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love and are extremely good looking.

"Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.

She goes to the 4th floor and The sign reads: Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love , are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help with Housework.

"Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!" Still, she goes to the 5th floor and The sign reads: Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love , are Drop-dead Gorgeous, help with Housework and Have A Strong Romantic Streak.

She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the 6th floor and the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.

To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opens a New Wives store just across the street.

The 1st floor has wives who love sex.

The 2nd floor has wives who love sex and have money.

The 3rd through 6th floors have never been visited.

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HAHAHAHAHA! - seems like men are easier to please

Jokes aside... I'm not saying that you shouldn't be picky... but then again, such high expectations should be left for someone whom you will spend the rest of your lives with, isn't it?? Well, maybe i can't afford, (and i really mean "afford $$$") to be picky

But being picky means you scare people off... unless you don't want any response. I've seen profiles pictures that are inviting, until you read the profiles and blogs...

I did get some response from some of the people whom I admire here... and for that, I'm happy

Even so, as much as i talk about "response", what did i ask for that i want a response?

I don't ask for anything anymore... really! I'm more than happy reading blogs and posting jokes.. occasionally ranting about life...

I'm pretty much resigned to my fate.

Okay... had enough ranting. Have fun searching, people, be it what you are looking or waiting for.... may you get a response or better still, a fulfillment to your search!

Time for me to earn more money to buy a penis pump! LOL!

Yeah.. and I need to do some flab reductions too...

InnocentNymph 58F
2234 posts
9/9/2008 12:23 am

I believe in the law of averages... write enough and sooner or later someone will reply U write well... soon expand some of your flair in Frenz... hugz and good luck!!!

Come, say hello to my Frenz



Silence is the difference between dignity and uncouthness


InnocentNymph 58F
2234 posts
9/9/2008 12:24 am

should and not soon... sorry.. typo...

I have concluded.. my fingers are faster than my brain

Come, say hello to my Frenz



Silence is the difference between dignity and uncouthness


rm_Sweatyarse 41M
180 posts
9/9/2008 12:50 am

    Quoting InnocentNymph:
    I believe in the law of averages... write enough and sooner or later someone will reply U write well... soon expand some of your flair in Frenz... hugz and good luck!!!
Sandie (Am i right?)... i've just gotten the type of response i needed from you!

Well, i should and i soon will post something in Frenz when i can think of it!

Thanks for dropping by!

P/S: I like your group!


InnocentNymph 58F
2234 posts
9/9/2008 3:22 am

Yup, u can call me Sandie...

Well u should like yourself very much too as u are part of Frenz now... looking forward to more of u

Come, say hello to my Frenz



Silence is the difference between dignity and uncouthness


Honeydewy 47F  
3230 posts
9/13/2008 1:13 am

Well,.. you kinda got yourself 'picked up' by Sandie,.. !

Dig me and comment on my blog to get noticed @ Honeydewy ! Mod of SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P , Phone Sex & what else? & Oldie Passionz =) Worldwide!.


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