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Crashing Crescendos, Yo?  

wildnwanton 61F
2108 posts
11/8/2013 10:52 am
Crashing Crescendos, Yo?



I am listening to music. The Caliph of Bagdad Overture as preformed by New Philharmonia Orchestra. Good Stuff.

I love music. It soothes me, it inspires me, it educates me, it rouses a passion in me; sometimes all at once. Well, almost all of it.
Some of the shit Lil'Wayne has put out that blew up... omg, REALLY? And whoever that girl is who sings about cake cake cake...wtf ever. Exactly why do I need a bunch of snot nosed trying to convey sexuality to me, when all they understand about it is the act itself without ever considering the intricacies of the human emotions that are involved? is starting to lose its appeal now that I am no longer going out dancing until 3 am every weekend.
But I still like to listen to it, a lot of these guys are actually spitting some real truths about life in the eyes of our . It is a sociological statement about the times in which we live. Some of it restores my faith in humanity, some of it makes me wonder if we are going to last as a species for another decade.
Country music and popular music....some of it is good, a lot of it is just hokey, some of it is scary when you think about what they are saying in the lyrics, but I listen to it on a whim once in a while. Mostly I like to turn it on when I am cleaning the house. It usually has a peppy beat and I can actually get into a bizarre rhythm with it and it speeds up a rather boring bit of day to day life.
Old school rock, with emphasis on the late 70's to early 80's is nostalgia music for me. When I want to head trip back to the days of my wild and largely misspent youth, I dig on old southern rock like Bob Seger and Lynnard Skynnard (pre-plane crash),and Foghat, Molly Hatchet, AC/DC...sometimes when I am here alone and the house is quiet with the family gone and the Bits home with Mama...I like to go watch those old videos and reminisce about those little bits of childhood that I found happiness in...friends, moments that had an impact or evolved my thinking...yeah. It is a nice way to enjoy the peace and quiet, reconnecting with my inner and looking at where that has gone in her life and reconciling her with the woman she has become.

The Blues, Zydeco, old school Jazz. that is music for just kicking it. Sitting back, watching the world go by and hanging with friends. And I like to listen to it when I am driving. Zydeco makes me drive too fast, I get lost in that beat and go with it and then I am doing 90 on the freeway. I have found that between the hours of 2am and 4am, listening to Zydeco will put a lot of miles behind you on long drives.

Classical. I am not a lover of details, so I can only name composers I like and a few pieces that I want to buy or listen to online. I don't know dates, movements, numbers, chords or even which orchestra does a better rendition. My head would explode if I tried to stuff all that data in it. I am not at all a person for details when it comes to what only serves as entertainment in my life. Nor am I particularly good conversationalist for those who do have all those details and tiny bits if information that make no difference whatsoever to me when compared to the overall experience of actually hearing the piece performed and having it move your heart to a passionate response. I have been moved to tears by Chopin's nocturnes. Classical is the music that is always playing in my head. I hear certain of these movements of music playing in my head like the soundtrack of my life. I like to listen to classical music when I write. It comes with the added bonus of adding almost an hour of napping for Weebit. It lulls her to sleep in nothing flat. In my objective studies of her sleeping habits, I have found if I play classical music instead of watching something mind<b> numbing </font></b>on tv, she will on the average sleep at least an hour longer.
But, it seems that my hour is up for the day. Wee is waking up and she will be needing my attention.

Oh and one more thing...any or all of the above mentioned styles of music, plus the eleventy two other genres not mentioned, are the greatest sex aid on the planet for me. Music has ALWAYS made sex better for me. What about you?

And...what is your life's soundtrack?

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


shyviolette 63F
9347 posts
11/17/2013 2:08 pm

booze always made sex better for me.

remember that show "Ally McBeal"? there was an episode where her shrink Tracy (Ullman) said Ally needed a theme song...something she can play in her head to make her feel better. i picked one too...Blood Sweat and Tears "And When I Die". actually, i had it before that show. even though i like most kinds of music, that song has stuck in my brain all these years. and yesterday, i heard a song on Pandora...a classical song that i've heard many times and really like a lot but never knew the title of. "Clair de Lune"...moonlight. something about that song that speaks to me...and calms my brain.

When the tides of life are against you

And the current upsets your boat

Don't think of things that might have been

Just lay on your back and float

Ed Norton / The Honeymooners 1954


wildnwanton replies on 11/18/2013 4:13 am:
Booze makes everything better...till the next day lol. I'm gonna have to googly the BS&T song, I know I have likely heard it, but for the life of me I can't remember it. Clair de Lune is beautiful! I like to listen to Classical when I am in need of calming. I can sit down and listen to Chopin and I find that it soothes my anger better than anything.

lomileage5 68M
10248 posts
11/9/2013 5:00 am

I also get nostalgic and really rock to pre-crash skynyrd,southern rock,blues,country,especially old country(a testimony to my age?),but I can also enjoy jazz,zydeco. I don't know about musics influence on sex since that seems to elude me lol.music does calm my soul like nothing else can


wildnwanton replies on 11/9/2013 2:00 pm:
Music will make me smile when nothing else can.

Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
11/8/2013 4:37 pm

Finally: I missed out on a lot of Classic Rock concerts over the years, so you can't believe the joy I get when I go to the library and discover a DVD of a group that I love.

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wildnwanton replies on 11/8/2013 5:15 pm:
It is a rare event here since I started taking care of the Bits. So when I have this kind of free time I relish in it. Right now I am sitting here in my jammies with my favorite rerun running in the background and browsing the blogs. Without fear that someone much too young to see this site or even know about its existence is gonna be looking over my shoulder. This is beautiful!

Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
11/8/2013 4:34 pm

Oh, one of the popular Country singers tried to add something to Country rhythm and, if I understand correctly, there was a minor uproar over the fact that he was 'corrupting' Country music.

I guess some of these folks don't believe in evolution; it's the same problem that Reggae music has.


wildnwanton replies on 11/8/2013 5:12 pm:
Every genre of music has their purists. Seem to me that if a singer or a group decides they want to take things in a different direction then they should go ahead and do so and fuck what anyone else has to say.

Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
11/8/2013 4:31 pm

QUOTING: "...when all they understand about it is the act itself..."

I think I have to disagree with this; I think they do it because, in their mind, it's daring (and then they find out it feels good), but understand? That's giving them too much credit.

Most of these girls don't even realize that they are to get something out of it also; they don't realize that maybe they can cultivate an orgasm (if any of them read this they're going to think I'm trying to say "organism"), and some of these guys don't even know that they should be trying to give the woman one.

And I'm not even talking about the teens; I'm talking young adults.


wildnwanton replies on 11/8/2013 5:10 pm:
Oh they understand the mechanics of it. Insert tab a into slot b, move back and forth. They see that all over the place. But no, they don't understand orgasms, they don't understand that there are hormones which rise and fall and feed emotions. They don't realize that they are running the risk of becoming parents before they even know who they really are. They don't understand that there are diseases that are like bad luggage, you will keep it forever.
But with their music they seek to praise their total lack of understanding. And it literally makes my hair stand on end to listen to it.

rm_19harley86 74M
45446 posts
11/8/2013 1:03 pm

country/western,oldie goldies and bluegrass

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wildnwanton replies on 11/8/2013 1:36 pm:
Ah, Dennis I figured as much!

LadyLuck2 67F  
9091 posts
11/8/2013 12:35 pm

I am also a music lover. I like everything but , heavy metal and blue grass. Sarah Brightman's voice makes a great backdrop for love making.

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


wildnwanton replies on 11/8/2013 1:46 pm:
She does have a beautiful voice and quite the range.

CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
11/8/2013 12:30 pm

I’m pretty much a smooth jazz guy. Quite hard to find around here, though there is an HD station here now.

Toss it a bit or Motown every once in awhile.

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wildnwanton replies on 11/8/2013 1:51 pm:
Who's your favorite Jazz band or singer? Duke Ellington, Miles Davis...Billy Holiday...oh baby!

lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
11/8/2013 11:43 am

I am a country listener at heart. I also love 1950's rock & roll. I have also been to a few "tenor" concerts. I will also listen to Irish music and the Scottish bagpipes!


wildnwanton replies on 11/8/2013 1:57 pm:
Celtic music is great for meditation for me and we have a neighbor who plays his pipes outside once in a while in the neighborhood. I love to sit outside and listen.

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