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'We All Get By With A Little Help From Our Friends'
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'We All Get By With A Little Help From Our Friends' First off I would like to say thank you to everyone who has been so helpful and understanding of my condition and lack of participation on here. I never realized how much some of you truly cared!  As a form of thank you, I'd like to try and help some of you who have confided in me and other areas of the site, that you're having some trouble getting responses to emails and meeting people on here. No- I'm not going to play 'match maker' but I'm going to try and give you the gift of incite into what women like, want, and how to capture their attention via the internet, so that you can make your own matches! What women like to hear in an email: Weather it's a<b> woman looking </font></b>for love, or a<b> woman looking </font></b>for lust, we all have one thing in common. We want some one to be interested in US. Not just relationships and sex in general- BUT US AS INDIVIDUALS! I know it can be hard to break the ice in a first email to someone, but sometimes that's all your gonna get- one chance to catch her eye. So make sure you get it right the first time. A first email is not a just saying 'hi' & 'I like your profile' it's the very first encounter you have with her and it when she will decide weather your just another guy or someone who is really interesting TO HER! Remember, just because you're interested doesn't mean that she will be- you need to spark that interest in your 1st correspondence. Here's how- You like her profile- right? Why? What is it that caught YOUR ATTENTION? What made HER stand out in the crowd of on line possibilities? Was it something she said? The way she looks? What dose she have that's so special? Figure that out first and tell her about it in your opening line of your first email. *ie.** "Hi I'm 'John' and your profile pic really caught my attention. I love your eyes, they're so intense!" or "Hi I'm 'John' I was reading your profile and I really like what you had to say. I love a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it!" Both great eye catching opening lines, Something I myself like to see in an email. Now that you've captured her attention, tell her what you're about & what she could expect from a date with you. If it's a relation hip type of girl you wanna snag, may want to say something you like to do recreationaly, ask her if she enjoys the same thing, and finish off by adding how you'd like to do it with her sometime. **ie.** "I really enjoy snow boarding, the weather's great for it right now. Do you bord? If not I'd more than willing to break your fall if wanna try it sometime? lol If not snowboarding, we could always do something else 'cause I'm up for anything. What kinda stuff do you like to do on a first date?" Short, sweet, simple & fun. And that should be all you need to open the door to bigger and better things. You've complimented her, told her a bit about you, let her make the final decision of what she'd like to do and closed with an open ended question. All you'll need to do is close with a salutation to finish the job... If you're looking for a hook up for sex though, your email may be quite different. But it should be light, open, honest and inviting to the woman of interest. **ie.** "I see you're not looking for a relationship just some casual fun, I totally understand not wanting to be tied down, I'm kinda at the point my self right now. It's great to meet new people and try new things, don't you think? So tell me, what can I do to make sure we both get the best out of an encounter together? Can I take you out for dinner or would you just like to skip directly to dessert? lol" Again, an honest, no pressure invitation to more conversation and possibility of meeting. You've let her know that you're looking for the same thing on line- just fun, no relationships and stuff, which for a girl looking for fun- is load off of her mind- believe me! End with your salutation and you've done it! When ending your correspondence on a first email NEVER give out your IM or direct contact information- this only makes you seem desperate! You can send that information after she asked for it or offer it after AT LEAST 3 emails, when you know there's some what of a connection. So to end your first email all you need to do is say something like this: "I'm sure really busy with life and offers on here, but I'd love to hear back from you and tell me what you think about chatting, or maybe even hooking up some time if your interested? Take care sweetie and have a great day- 'John' from Timbuktu Wherever" Right here you have let he know that you want to hear back from her, but understand that life is busy and it may not be right away. You've left it on her hands to decide if she wants to chat or meet, and wished her well. By signing with your name and where you're from, she can tell right away if it's too far away, or if you're close enough that she should take a peek at your profile before she loses you in the flood of in coming mail. If the woman is interested, you should expect to hear from her soon, if not she may take the time out to tell you, or maybe not respond at all- her choice. NOTE: If you need to 'touch base' with her a few days or a week or so later, feel free to do so cautiously and with out sounding desperate or hurt by not getting a response. Sometimes we women DO get flooded with emails and some of the great ones can mixed up in the rest and genuinely lost. So a follow up message is not unheard of and sometimes welcomed gratefully by the women who remembers your message and wants to hook up. A simple "Hi this is John' I sent you out a message a few days ago, and didn't hear back, I hope all is well? I'm still very interested in getting to know you and hope from you soon. Take care and have a great day- you're beautiful when you smile! john form Timbuktu Wherever" There you've re applied and left it open ended and positive, closing with a compliment and stating your name and area. You should at least get a sorry I was busy or something better from that effort- if not chalk it up to not interested and move on!!! Things to Remember: -An email is NOT a job application, So DON'T FILL IT OUT LIKE ONE! You're objective is connect with the woman on a personal level, not apply for a position at her side. 'John' need not say he is 6'4" 187lbs, with brown hair and blue eyes, all that stuff should be on his profile. -There is such thing as too much information! DO NOT discuss your recent break-ups & heart aches, what you do for a living, what you drive, how much you have/ don't have or anything else ostentatious. The first email is about her- NOT YOU! Anything she wants to know, she will ask in time. -Stay positive. The on line thing can be tricky, and it takes time to find what works for you and the type of person you're trying to attract. DO NOT let previous frustrations or failures filter in to correspondences with new prospects. Each new person is a fresh start, to try, try again. -Be realistic. Some people are just not suited to be together. If you're looking for a perfect 10, hard bodied, blond goddess, take an honest look in the mirror and go from there. A woman like that probably looks for someone who is in the same kinda physical shape, with the same goals and priorities. The same can be said for business women and other things. People who have certain ambitions and passions admire those things in others as well. Not that you're 'not worthy' you just may be barking up the wrong tree. Stop being bent up on what you wish you could have, and focus on 'real women' who are attractive and attainable. -Many women have their email filters on to keep out people who do not match their cupid settings. The email you may think is being ignored, may not even be reaching the women you're trying to attract. So again, stay positive and optimistic. I hope this will help some who have had a difficult time on here And I will be back with more soon on 'what women want' & 'how to capture their attention' soon.... {=}  fukcdoll, definition  - a woman who enjoys being used to fulfill fantasies & ones ultimate pleasures. - who's kink is to tantalize, arouse and satisfy the lust and desires for as many people as she can. - a cum guzzling who wants to be yours! **Alot A Little FUKCDOLLS**  Fukcdolls Video *Fan Club*          |
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1/26/2009 7:12 am |
*Rant mode on* For the third time there has been complications, or we've been stood up. Me being the sometimes calloused and to quote others "bastard" this merely irritates me.... and almost makes me want to say fuck it. My sweet Mrs. Mischievous on the other hand takes things much more to heart... she never has had sometime like this happen to her before. So she's a bit lost and hurt. I myself cannot fathom this... if you make a commitment, you've given your word. I'm nowhere close to being called old fashioned... but being in a military family, your word is your bond, your honour... *rant mode off* Anyways, we have four special couples that we are looking to meet, all in our network... and we hope we have as much as a good time with them in person as we have chatting with them.... you all know who you lovely ones are... and you all see to be the ones keeping our faith.... and wishing us luck. Thanks really.
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1/17/2009 11:26 am |
really good points you made! now let's see if it helps, lol
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1/16/2009 2:17 am |
Thanks for some really helpful stuff, great stuff you write some really helpful information, cheers
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Doll hun you know how much you are loved and cared for here. You have shown others ( especially me ) how much you care for other people. Remember I'm here for you anytime you need to talk. Get better soon!!!
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