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How Rough is TOO Rough?
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How Rough is TOO Rough? Well now people of blogland, this morning I have been thinking about sex...yes I'm horny as hell but c'mon I haven't had any in about 3 months now! So I like sex all kinds of ways, slow and gentle lovemaking and hard and fast fucking. There is a time, place and partner for everything. I do prefer<b> rough sex </font></b>with a partner I can trust with my safety though...but what do u define as too rough? In real life I'm all about the mind fuck really, I like the threat of violence and knowing if I dont do something or if I dont do something right I will be punished for it...name calling, being held in place and taught to obedient! It rarely lasts long though I'm such a brat  For me too rough in real life is leaving me with lots of visible marks on my body. Whereas in fantasyland anything goes for me: beat me, whip me, bleed me, whatever I dont mind. I have been very lucky to find such a brilliant group in which all these things can happen at any moment. Forced & Rough Sex Fantasy is amazing, if u like all the things I've described and can create and contribute to a scene well then u are most definitely welcome! To all guys/girlies from the room who are reading this hey there!  So to sum up my post of the day, what would u define as too rough for u? Thanks as always, Darla   |
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Well I guess that is a matter of opinion but I feel possibly death and severe beatings are too rough for all! Darla
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8/12/2008 4:17 am |
I would have to agree, visible marks about the body would indeed constitute too rough in my humble opinion.
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Well as for online play you know I don't believe in "too rough" but in reality i think lines should be drawn before play, agree on what is too rough, but yes I have to say leaving marks is not something I would go for.....I can't hit a woman in real life....tie her up....hold a knife to her....threaten, okay sure....but do actual physical harm....never.
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Not having been the recipient of such experience, I can't comment, but I can certainly ask an Adult Dating zone colleague who has, and get back to you... It's like that song from the Divinyls says, there's a fine line between pleasure and pain, and it's not the same line for everyone I suppose. Marks and mild bruises may not necessarily indicate that the recipient hated it, TF32 has mentioned.
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Well as for online play you know I don't believe in "too rough" but in reality i think lines should be drawn before play, agree on what is too rough, but yes I have to say leaving marks is not something I would go for.....I can't hit a woman in real life....tie her up....hold a knife to her....threaten, okay sure....but do actual physical harm....never.  a lot a lot!  And yeah I agree about the setting on ground rules...things like that should always be discussed beforehand!  As I said I'm all about the mind fuck, the threat of violence etc... Darla Do u include spanking as physical harm? Coz I really like that
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Rough isnt for everyone! I just happen to like it. Darla
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I dont do hickeys(lovebites as they're known over here), they're very unattractive... I agree with both ur theories of too rough hun and I've prepared a special pair of heels for the kicking! hehe Why so shy about the rough stuff? Are u an undercover lover of roughness? And yeah u do talk a good game! Darla
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it varys from person to person in roleplay i can get very nasty but generally thats in reaction to the play partner the harder they fight back the meaner i play! im reallife tho spanking yes throwing around yes (as long as i know they have a soft landing basically use my physical strengh advantage to dominate and fuck hard it it leaves a few bruises or scratchs (mmmmm scratchs) then thats fine broken bones huge cuts severe pain nah not for me never hit a woman any harder than she can handle
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it varys from person to person in roleplay i can get very nasty but generally thats in reaction to the play partner the harder they fight back the meaner i play! im reallife tho spanking yes throwing around yes (as long as i know they have a soft landing basically use my physical strengh advantage to dominate and fuck hard it it leaves a few bruises or scratchs (mmmmm scratchs) then thats fine broken bones huge cuts severe pain nah not for me never hit a woman any harder than she can handle  *sharpens my nails* like scratches huh? only kidding!Darla
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8/12/2008 2:39 pm |
I just don't want to look like a bear mauled me! I also can't cover things up with makeup or my hair! I generally think it is only too rough if one of the people is not in the mood for the level of play! I know some love to be slapped, choked, etc. but if you don't, don't go that far! I will do whatever you want but won't do what you don't want. Never want an angry girl with a bruise on her cheek! One time a girl was so into biting me that I ended up with serious abrasions all over my neck and around my mouth. The next week it turned out she bit a friend of mine's cock!!! She was so rough and non rationally rough that I had to kick her out before she go to my banana! Nick 
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I just don't want to look like a bear mauled me! I also can't cover things up with makeup or my hair! I generally think it is only too rough if one of the people is not in the mood for the level of play! I know some love to be slapped, choked, etc. but if you don't, don't go that far! I will do whatever you want but won't do what you don't want. Never want an angry girl with a bruise on her cheek! One time a girl was so into biting me that I ended up with serious abrasions all over my neck and around my mouth. The next week it turned out she bit a friend of mine's cock!!! She was so rough and non rationally rough that I had to kick her out before she go to my banana! Nick I really cant share partners with my friends...I feel its dirty! Haha ur banana was in danger I do like biting but not breaking the skin and I'm a scratcher as well...this kitty has claws! Darla
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U know I love the room Minxy No I agree, I wouldnt play as hard as in the room in my real life...I'd proably end up dead! I agree, some elements of force and pain are very good! Oh dont make me blush Minx, I try my best(blogwise)! Darla
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8/12/2008 6:03 pm |
Well, I *was* going to say drawing blood or permanent damage, but, honestly, been there done that, so...I just don't know. Anything that requires surgery to fix I guess LOL
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Well, I *was* going to say drawing blood or permanent damage, but, honestly, been there done that, so...I just don't know. Anything that requires surgery to fix I guess LOL to each their own! Darla
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This is what safewords are for. You would like my scenes, I never take it to the point of leaving marks. Well maybe my fingers on your shoulders will bruise a little from fucking doggie style but that is about all. The whips and stuff dont leave anything more than red marks that disappear after a minute, like a hard spanking will. Still when playing a rough scene, best to use a safe word. As far as forced rough sex fantasies, I have done those scenes. Done right you can get the mind fuck from it make it seem pretty real without compromising safety. All my play is safe. I have quick release clips and other things to end the play instantly if needed. This plus a couple of decades of knowing how to use a whip or other toys, means I can do it right. I am only a stranger the first time...  See my Blog everyone [blog sircernuunos] Or join this group SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P If you are into playing a bit more extreme than vanilla ?*
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This is what safewords are for. You would like my scenes, I never take it to the point of leaving marks. Well maybe my fingers on your shoulders will bruise a little from fucking doggie style but that is about all. The whips and stuff dont leave anything more than red marks that disappear after a minute, like a hard spanking will. Still when playing a rough scene, best to use a safe word. As far as forced rough sex fantasies, I have done those scenes. Done right you can get the mind fuck from it make it seem pretty real without compromising safety. All my play is safe. I have quick release clips and other things to end the play instantly if needed. This plus a couple of decades of knowing how to use a whip or other toys, means I can do it right. Darla
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8/16/2008 1:35 pm |
It all depends on your partner. An ex more than once dropped hints that she wanted to be but I never did. A safe word could be used to exit the scenario in really rough play. Physical violence is something I detest but the threat of it is kosher by me. But as I said it all depends on your partner. Have you seen “Dangerous liaisons” with Uma Thurmann? Do a search on youtube for “ Dangerous liaisons Uma Thurmann seduction”. Now that’s a role play that I could play again and again… Network albums & high quality video clips of my undraped body showing my girth (6.5"/16cm) can be viewed at: Going from hard to soft  (Horny fat cock)
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It all depends on your partner. An ex more than once dropped hints that she wanted to be but I never did. A safe word could be used to exit the scenario in really rough play. Physical violence is something I detest but the threat of it is kosher by me. But as I said it all depends on your partner. Have you seen “Dangerous liaisons” with Uma Thurmann? Do a search on youtube for “ Dangerous liaisons Uma Thurmann seduction”. Now that’s a role play that I could play again and again… Darla
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8/21/2008 8:20 pm |
Im certainly not into the rough stuff but hey whatever turns you on go for it!
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Im certainly not into the rough stuff but hey whatever turns you on go for it! Darla
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