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Strange....my FBs Not from This Site  

rm_SoftLips169 51F
715 posts
7/13/2009 5:32 am
Strange....my FBs Not from This Site


Thinking back,so far,my current FBs are my exbfs and someone
I met while<b> clubbing. </font></b>The only person from here,whom I have
been chatting with since almost two years back and I m glad
that we are still in touch.

So,it seems that it is not easy to substain long term friendship
or watever relation you could from the people here? Maybe, I
could be so wrong or it is just that I have not met?

One pretty obvious fact is that MEN here generally wont wana to
chat more once they know that 'THEY ARE NOT GOING TO GET IT'!
Yes,I m talking about SEX. Once they know that,very soon....or
gradually the interest just subside...It's kind of SAD because
there are people whom I find them interesting but just not
exciting enough to 'venture' further. 'Friendship' dunt seems to
be in their agenda ...and I certainly dunt wana 'HINDER' them
further...Yup, this is a SEX SITE...wake up!

I wish I could tune myself to just 'SEX' and lesser communications.....Honestly,I did try but I Failed!..the mental linking and chemistry are just as important.I need time to
link and discover the other parties before I am keen to play
games!

Yes,there are many who wrote and they seem so 'INTERESTING'.
However, at this moment,I have no 'strength ' to reply as I know,
not many have patience with me.

Yes,it certainly takes more than TIME....and with this fast
moving pace, no doubts, just keep moving On....

HAPPY SEARCHING.....

wind_stalker_71 53M
307 posts
7/14/2009 8:50 am

I tink it really depends on your luck...

I do have a few gal frens tat are from here..we become chat buddy.. lunch buddy...we meet but din hv sex even though we hv know each other for a few years..


rm_SoftLips169 51F
678 posts
7/14/2009 8:34 pm

lattesq - tks...

Lonelymakeseekin - hmm, i m nobody's Darling...and i DUNT do things
out of CONVENIENCE. plus...I aint WORRIED at all.

wind stalker 71 - tats nice...to have chatmate,lunchmate...and not
necessary playmate unless....


rm_DevilCharmZ 47M
3366 posts
7/14/2009 11:18 pm

My bad.

It's not really 'Only Sex' that I'm after in this site here... It's just that I've always find it difficult to keep up with the maintainence of friendship due to my personal schedule... And you're not the only one I'm having such issues with. Many times I just wish I have more time for friends.. But usually it just ended up quite differently...


mindz0ne 48M

7/15/2009 8:48 am

makes u wonder just why the hell we pay/join this site huh? i met many folks from here over the years and NONE have been play buddies. however, I must say i do treasure their friendships. w/o this site we prob won't have ever met. Oh well....


wind_stalker_71 53M
307 posts
7/15/2009 10:05 am

    Quoting rm_SoftLips169:
    lattesq - tks...

    Lonelymakeseekin - hmm, i m nobody's Darling...and i DUNT do things
    out of CONVENIENCE. plus...I aint WORRIED at all.

    wind stalker 71 - tats nice...to have chatmate,lunchmate...and not
    necessary playmate unless....
unless wat?

to be honest there are times where i really enjoy their friendship.. cos there are certain things tat I cant probably tell my frens or family..and there are times when they seem to understand my problem more...

and i also agreed tat mental link and chemistry are important. Having too many FBs but without the above mentioned...may make you feel "something is missing" after some time...well...at least tat apply to me....


Xstarz36 40M

7/17/2009 4:05 am

SL been sometimes since i last posted here Well FBs can be from anywhere just that maybe u need real life interaction to decide on a real FB instead of just talking over a screen ya see you around


Honeydewy 47F  
3230 posts
7/20/2009 10:32 pm

the guys that are impatient,.. are dumb.

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rm_SoftLips169 51F
678 posts
7/21/2009 2:40 am

    Quoting Honeydewy:
    the guys that are impatient,.. are dumb.
U ARE SO RIGHT!! those with patience are often generously
rewarded!!


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