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Gal Frens~~Bonding??  

rm_SoftLips169 51F
715 posts
10/11/2010 8:17 pm
Gal Frens~~Bonding??

had been weeks since i last heard from one of my closest galfren G! Yes,she went missing suddenly and she just not free for
anything. I remembered she always called me when she was upset
about the guys who have been treating her badly.Always,i made time for her.
Well,I treasure 'galfrens' very much tat i always sacrifice my
'exbf' then~ Those things I love to do,organising parties from
birthdays to all seasons~ Those jokes and sharings~~of course~

Past few weeks,when i was having lots of 'downs' from that 'devil'
she never have time for me. I was thinking,she must be really
busy...till i find tat its STRANGE! We chat almost thrice a week
and suddenly it reduced to 'ZERO'.

Hey,if this is a 'HE',i seriously wont be so puzzled bec MEN do
disappear without any reasons~~hahaha, i wont be be so SURPRISE
at all!
But,from a good galfren whom we had promised to be close 'FOREVER'
from laughters to tears~~
I do know people come and go...but honestly,this is really 'EATING'me Up...totaly clueless that i decided to text her~~
Telling her tat I felt her ' DISTANCING' from me~~

But still got 'NO REPLY'.....I got abit worried but think I
respect her wishes and would leave her 'ALONE' till I hear from
her again~~
How i do envy those gals in 'SEX N THE CITY'~ their bondings were
so strong !!!

Yeah...time for me to get up and start new bonding with new galfrens~~ its time to Move On!!!

P/S: Mr F said he MISSED ME ALOT....he asked me...DID I?
I didnt reply~~ bec..i m abit afraid to say...I DO..
But,I do miss that 'devil' ~~but i have to STAY AWAY from
the FIRE...bec..currently i am 90% Burnt!!!
tat little 10% is wat i am Left with~~





poison_syrup 50F
8531 posts
10/12/2010 6:00 am

 This post of yours reminded me of a girlfriend I used to have... She only contacts me when she's feeling down... And I will always be there for her - whenever she needs a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on or she has landed herself into trouble... But when its my turn to need someone to talk to, she was never there for me because of some reasons/excuses...

After several encounter, I distanced myself from her and eventually axed her out of my life... It's a relieve to me though... I believe that friendship is not only for sharing bad moments, but sharing of joy as well... I wish you have better luck than me... Hope she will get in touch with you soon...

Angel Of Sins


bulehyatt 65M  
1717 posts
10/13/2010 12:15 am

 I do know people come and go...but honestly,this is really 'EATING'me Up...totaly clueless that i decided to text her~~
Telling her tat I felt her ' DISTANCING' from me~~

Give her benefit of the doubt, Softlips. Maybe she truly is a "fair weather only" type friend. But maybe there is something else going on in her life that has distracted her from being there for you.

After school-leaving age, most people do not find new friends easily. So when you have such a good friend as G, it costs you little to give her a second chance. If she doesn't deserve because her unexplained absences form a pattern, then you will know soon enough. But give her benefit of doubt first - treat her as the friend you wish she actually was . . . and perhaps you will help her to become that friend.

You can do that AND be open to finding new galfriends, Lips McLicious. No need to choose either/or, ya ?


rm_mysticallass 54F
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8 posts
10/14/2010 5:48 am

 One thing for sure......she is not a friend. There is ways to touch base with friend (email,FB, msn...........etc and my favourite good old telephone).

Changes in lives that sometime friends cannnot hang out together but can still communicate once in a while................like fortnightly.

I am open to make new gal friends.........as long as they are sincerely wants to be friend

MAKE NEW FRIENDS
KEEP THE OLD
ONE IS SILVER
THE OTHER IS GOLD


ami4you23 51M
396 posts
10/17/2010 7:11 am

 It not really the gender if you see in the bigger picture, all gender have different 'species' haha i mean different type of character...some good, some bad...some selfish etc

You did the RIGHT thing as a friend, good deed...no fault on you, give her a 'little chance' she might be real busy so you can balance yourself not to get so piss off, right?? you're a smart woman...
O.k ...AMi4you23


rm_aladin1978 46M
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3762 posts
10/17/2010 9:47 am

 sometimes you just have to say good bye


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