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Stalker, again
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Stalker, again I have ranted, worried....etc in the past about guys who "stalk" me. Either in person, online.....etc. Seems to me that I have another one.  I have a man that I have gone on 2 "dates" with....I occasionally talk to him on y.i.m. Well the other night I get online...and he had left me a HI message. Well of course I replied.... He started off innocently. Hi, how are you...etc, etc, etc. Well next thing I know he is telling me that he has a question for me. Ok...ask away. "Would you and your like to move in with me?" WTH? HOLY CRAPADOODLES! Yeah...I about fell off my chair! He declared his love for me. How he fell in love with me on the first "date" when I allowed him to kiss me on the cheek...then a quick peck on the lips. I have NEVER done anything sexual with him at all.....The kiss was it! So what is it about this almost 40 y.o. single mom....that is average looking....has a few pounds she could shed...and it seems is always under stress....that makes guys fall "in love" with her?  So like I don't already have enough stress in my life....enough to worry about....another stalker, guys falling in love with me...car issues, job issues....love life issues.... Ok, ok, enuff of the pity party....hugs and a big wet kiss from me....the baby!  |
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7/12/2011 5:06 pm |
Sounds like you're just scared. Sure it may be sudden...and soon, but so far the story you've told is one where a man falls in love with you at first kiss. Is that such a bad thing? No. There must be something missing. There's either a part of the story you haven't told - probably to protect yourself - or there's a part of the story you haven't told, because you don't know it. My guess is you're just scared. Something about him tipped you off that he's a creep, but you haven't told us what it was. Not yet, at least. My other guess is he's already living in your closet and wearing your clothes while you're not there. But that's just a guess.
 It's never the same thing twice... [post 2477869] [post 2800527] Current series: [post 2910971]  
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I know the feeling on that. Guys are creepy bastards.
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Sounds like you're just scared. Sure it may be sudden...and soon, but so far the story you've told is one where a man falls in love with you at first kiss. Is that such a bad thing? No. There must be something missing. There's either a part of the story you haven't told - probably to protect yourself - or there's a part of the story you haven't told, because you don't know it. My guess is you're just scared. Something about him tipped you off that he's a creep, but you haven't told us what it was. Not yet, at least. My other guess is he's already living in your closet and wearing your clothes while you're not there. But that's just a guess.
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Like I said...I went out twice....the last time was probably a year ago. We will talk on messenger maybe once or twice a month. I haven't seen him, or anything. Not encouraging him AT ALL!!!!!!
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No Shite! Lol
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I am sorry to hear that you are going through that crap. if there is anything I can do please just ask.
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You never said how you felt about him...after that date..was he someone you wanted to see again?...
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I am sorry to hear that you are going through that crap. if there is anything I can do please just ask.
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Oh, I understand....just saying i'm not encouraging him in the least. I've told him that we are friends...but I have no "interest" in him.
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You never said how you felt about him...after that date..was he someone you wanted to see again?...
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7/13/2011 6:41 am |
The only thing I left off is that he gives me the creeps. Not anything in particular...just gives off odd vibes! And holy crapadoodles...I hope he isn't in my closet!!!! "Gives me the creeps" is just code for "I don't know why I got scared, but I think I will blame him." He may well be a creep. I'm not defending him. It's just that the story you told doesn't tell us about his creepiness, but it does tell us more about your kissing prowess. Have you had this effect on other men before? Just sayin, it could be a trend.
It's never the same thing twice... [post 2477869] [post 2800527] Current series: [post 2910971]
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Why can't the story just be that you're such a good kisser...you've driven him to madness? "Gives me the creeps" is just code for "I don't know why I got scared, but I think I will blame him." He may well be a creep. I'm not defending him. It's just that the story you told doesn't tell us about his creepiness, but it does tell us more about your kissing prowess. Have you had this effect on other men before? Just sayin, it could be a trend.  
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7/13/2011 3:10 pm |
Don't know about how hot my kisses are....wanna find out!? Just one kiss and I'll be helpless? I could end up a deranged stalker...You seem to be collecting them. It would give me something to do with my free time... But it could be much worse, I really lose control and get married! But what if I am not enough for you? My kisses may be a force of nature, but they're certainly not magical! I swore after my last divorce, I'd never do that again. "Till death do us part" is getting enforced next time... So, one kiss, and now I am a two time loser, smitten by the woman I just shot in the heart...I am helpless again, and can't do anything about it. I can see myself sitting by the side of the road already, pistol to my head, telling myself, "She warned me..." No, this ends tragically...LOL...I am afraid I might like it.  What? It's either that or we feed the lawyers... If the kisses are that dangerous, I am afraid to ask what happens if I give you more options. LOL.
It's never the same thing twice... [post 2477869] [post 2800527] Current series: [post 2910971]
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Don't know about how hot my kisses are....wanna find out!?
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Scary thought! Just one kiss and I'll be helpless? I could end up a deranged stalker...You seem to be collecting them. It would give me something to do with my free time... But it could be much worse, I really lose control and get married! But what if I am not enough for you? My kisses may be a force of nature, but they're certainly not magical! I swore after my last divorce, I'd never do that again. "Till death do us part" is getting enforced next time... So, one kiss, and now I am a two time loser, smitten by the woman I just shot in the heart...I am helpless again, and can't do anything about it. I can see myself sitting by the side of the road already, pistol to my head, telling myself, "She warned me..." No, this ends tragically...LOL...I am afraid I might like it. What? It's either that or we feed the lawyers... If the kisses are that dangerous, I am afraid to ask what happens if I give you more options. LOL.
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raising my hand.........I DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!! lol
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7/13/2011 4:25 pm |
Well it seems like my work here is done. (Smiles. Tips hat. Rides off into sunset. Fade to black. Roll credits.)
It's never the same thing twice... [post 2477869] [post 2800527] Current series: [post 2910971]
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7/13/2011 4:27 pm |
Thank you ever so much for making my day! I am so glad you stopped by my little piece of the earth to make me smile!!!!
It's never the same thing twice... [post 2477869] [post 2800527] Current series: [post 2910971]
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Well it seems like my work here is done. (Smiles. Tips hat. Rides off into sunset. Fade to black. Roll credits.)
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Darlin, that's just what I do.
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