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My date critic!
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My date critic! Mini me is very critical of the men I have dated. Not all, only the ones that she has met. Which the only ones she has met are the ones that I have actually gotten into a relationship with (for the most part). So driving home the other day she started discussing my choice in men. And she was critical. Told me which ones that she liked and which ones she didn't....and why! There are two men that she really liked. And would love to see me with. The jock...who I have to say will always hold a spot in my heart. He never wanted a relationship...I was always his FWB. He recently decided he wanted a relationship...just not with me. The other was my last relationship...she really liked him. Me too. He broke it off because he had some personal issues going on in his life...and now he is going to be a father in a couple of months. Others she wasn't so fond of. They were pushy, stalkers, creepers, gave her that yucky feeling etc. Some of them gave me that feeling as well. That is probably why I didn't get into a relationship or it didn't last long. She wants me happy. But she doesn't want to see me get hurt. She has been there for me. She knows that when I go into something I go in full force...all or nothing...give it my all...my heart. Recently, last week, mini & I had spent the afternoon with friends then had dinner with them as well. After dinner we were standing outside talking, my friend knew I had been "seeing" someone lately. No, not in a relationship.. a friendship with added benefits I guess you could call it. Anyway, we were close by his place, and when he came up in the conversation mini kinda giggled. My friend asked why I didn't stop by and say hi...she would keep mini for a bit. I passed, not because I didn't want to, but because I don't want to give mini the wrong impression. Mini wants to see me happy. And I have to say I have been happier. Maybe because my sexual tension hasn't been so high strung.  But my friend asked mini if she wanted me happy..."Of course...I just don't want her hurt!"When it comes to love, I am unlucky. I know what I want. And guys seem to only want the physical with me...not the emotional, love, etc. But for now I am happy smiling, enjoying the moment, and just being me. Where life takes me is in God's hands.   |
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No it not. Even god allows you to make your own decision's.  I have held hands with a girl it public. I was proud of her. This is not meant to offend any one in any way.     
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No it not. Even god allows you to make your own decision's. I have held hands with a girl it public. I was proud of her. 
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You don't need a man to be happy. Think back to EVERY relationship you have ever had with any male of the human species. How many were blissfully happy? Learn from the answer. Not trying to be a killjoy, just realistic.
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You don't need a man to be happy. Think back to EVERY relationship you have ever had with any male of the human species. How many were blissfully happy? Learn from the answer. Not trying to be a killjoy, just realistic.
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4/1/2012 11:44 am |
Fatalism has never been a successful strategy.
 It's never the same thing twice... [post 2477869] [post 2800527] Current series: [post 2910971]  
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Chicks rule!!!!
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Fatalism has never been a successful strategy.
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Fate seems to deal us all a less than perfect hand from time to time. I've found it best to just deal with the bad ones as best I can, and appreciate the better ones. Royal flushes come around very seldom! Buster The Master Second star to the right and then straight ahead until morning...
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Fate seems to deal us all a less than perfect hand from time to time. I've found it best to just deal with the bad ones as best I can, and appreciate the better ones. Royal flushes come around very seldom!
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