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And you want a 2nd date?  

80sbaby71 52F
7339 posts
4/7/2012 6:53 pm
And you want a 2nd date?


This wasn't the best date. Lol.... I mean seriously! Men (some not all) can be total turds.

I had a date today. Casual, no biggie. This man and I have been talking on a vanilla site for a little while. Texts...and he finally asked me to a movie. So we made plans to meet at a local movie theatre. He said casual...good. So I put on a pair of denim capris, a decent shirt and my little ballet slippers. Pulled the hair up and put some make-up on. He said he'd be wearing jeans and a tee shirt.

Meet at the theatre...had already decided earlier in the day what movie. Get inside, he buys the tickets (I was planning on buying my own) then stops to get a soda. We settle into the theatre and make chit chat while waiting.

About a third/fourth of the way into the movie his arm goes from the arm rest to the back of the seat and onto my shoulders. No biggie. Then he starts blowing into my ear....ok, a little annoying. Then he kisses me. Ok.....

Well then he starts to cop a feel or two.... Even goes as far as trying to open my legs!

I told him politely that he needed to rein it in.... He kept trying to kiss me. And his hand kept trying to brush low on my shoulder.

After the movie he was like "Think I can get a second date?" Uh? Really? I mean he was a nice guy. But now I understand what he meant by he was a little out of practice in the dating game with only two dates last year! He had also mentioned that he hasn't had sex in 5 years! Ok...

So, we said our good-byes in the parking lot. Like I said nice guy...but DAMN!

So, sitting at home tonight. Little lonely. I guess I have gotten spoiled in the last few months....snuggle partner. Maybe I should just stick with what I have. Cuz obviously when I go out on dates it is never a good thing.

And for that fact...I don't need someone to take me out on a date. Hell fix me dinner, snuggle in with a movie. Just talk to me. I really enjoy sex....but I enjoy talking to someone as well. I think I recently proved that. I was in the presence of a male friend... and I had a hot hard cock in my presence...and I kept my clothes on! He didn't...but I did. And you know what? It isn't all about sex with me...I enjoyed giving him pleasure.

Ok...well good evening to all and to all a pleasant one! Love, hugs and big wet kisses from me...the Baby!



gottaring 52F
15850 posts
4/7/2012 7:35 pm

I don't need someone to take me out on a date. Hell fix me dinner, snuggle in with a movie. Just talk to me. I really enjoy sex....but I enjoy talking to someone as well.

This is exactly what I'm looking for. I Love sex (God knows I NEED sex- ain't had it with Hubby since November or thereabouts), but I want the intimacy more.

When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
4/7/2012 7:38 pm

Oh my gosh ... I had a flashback to high school!! How old was this guy? I think I dated him many years ago, LOL.


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
4/7/2012 7:39 pm

Oh yuk. There are few things as ookey as grown men whose seduction technique is about as good as a 15 year old boy's. If he were any smoother he'd be a gravel driveway.


toliveagain 61M
47 posts
4/8/2012 6:26 am

Since I wasn't that smooth when I was a 15 year old, not sure that my technique has improved in the intervening years. But out of curiosity, wonder if you thought the guy had the potential of getting where he obviously wanted to end up had he taken the time to carry the conversation farther than just chit chat.


mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
4/8/2012 8:27 am

I tell you the farthest I ever got on a first date was hugs on the first date.

I just love being around them. I even love their voice and how it sounds

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/8/2012 6:19 pm

    Quoting gottaring:
    I don't need someone to take me out on a date. Hell fix me dinner, snuggle in with a movie. Just talk to me. I really enjoy sex....but I enjoy talking to someone as well.

    This is exactly what I'm looking for. I Love sex (God knows I NEED sex- ain't had it with Hubby since November or thereabouts), but I want the intimacy more.
It is the little things that impress me....what can I say.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/8/2012 6:20 pm

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Oh my gosh ... I had a flashback to high school!! How old was this guy? I think I dated him many years ago, LOL.
He will be 43 this year....

I mean, REALLY?


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/8/2012 6:21 pm

    Quoting BrownEyedBBW:
    Oh yuk. There are few things as ookey as grown men whose seduction technique is about as good as a 15 year old boy's. If he were any smoother he'd be a gravel driveway.
Yeah...exactly!

What can I say....I attract some weird peeps!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/8/2012 6:22 pm

    Quoting toliveagain:
    Since I wasn't that smooth when I was a 15 year old, not sure that my technique has improved in the intervening years. But out of curiosity, wonder if you thought the guy had the potential of getting where he obviously wanted to end up had he taken the time to carry the conversation farther than just chit chat.
We have been talking for a little while now. This was past the chit chat Hi, how are ya stage...lol

Like I said...first date. lol


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/8/2012 6:23 pm

    Quoting mflater1:
    I tell you the farthest I ever got on a first date was hugs on the first date.

    I just love being around them. I even love their voice and how it sounds
Well I mean this was at a movie theatre...on a Saturday afternoon...HELLO!

Most of my "first" dates have ended with a simple hug or a kiss on the cheek.


mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
4/8/2012 7:02 pm

    Quoting 80sbaby71:
    Well I mean this was at a movie theatre...on a Saturday afternoon...HELLO!

    Most of my "first" dates have ended with a simple hug or a kiss on the cheek.
I am so glad I did not not cut a hole in the popcorn bucket put in it my lap and stick my cock in it.

Like my stupid idiotic friends told me too do.

We ended up best friends. Can you image how she would have freaked out??

I would have never ever got a date too a Saturday after noon movie again.

You see it was a small town and news traveled fast.

Once word got around town. Not with any one.

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/9/2012 3:24 pm

    Quoting mflater1:
    I am so glad I did not not cut a hole in the popcorn bucket put in it my lap and stick my cock in it.

    Like my stupid idiotic friends told me too do.

    We ended up best friends. Can you image how she would have freaked out??

    I would have never ever got a date too a Saturday after noon movie again.

    You see it was a small town and news traveled fast.

    Once word got around town. Not with any one.
Oh that would have done you end! lol....I can see it now


BusterTheMaster 71M
4709 posts
4/11/2012 8:32 pm

I do hope I'm smoother than that now! After my wife died, I'm glad I had the good sense to just play dumb around the women I dated then. It's been awhile now and, you know, you are not alone. Conversation can take one a long way. Maybe not to that place, but the trip will be interesting wherever it goes!

Buster The Master
Second star to the right and then straight ahead until morning...


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/12/2012 4:29 am

    Quoting BusterTheMaster:
    I do hope I'm smoother than that now! After my wife died, I'm glad I had the good sense to just play dumb around the women I dated then. It's been awhile now and, you know, you are not alone. Conversation can take one a long way. Maybe not to that place, but the trip will be interesting wherever it goes!
Yes, conversation is a good thing.....most of the time!


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