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Rejection  

80sbaby71 52F
7339 posts
4/22/2012 8:25 am
Rejection


Rejection hurts.

To all those I have rejected I am sorry. To those who are yet to come...I apologise now.

It hurts to feel rejected.

To know that YOU are not good enough.

You are not pretty enough.

You are too fat/skinny.

Wrong ethnicity/race.

Not sexy enough.....

Or to know that you are just not enough.



80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/22/2012 2:05 pm

    Quoting  :

Very good point. I've been on both ends. I try not to be judgemental when I reject a guy. But sometimes it is what it is....


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
4/22/2012 9:18 pm

AtomicTwatCpl brought up a great point.

It all hurts but I can accept being rejected for valid reasons. With time.
Being rejected with lies ticks me off! I hate liars.
Being rejected for incorrect info upsets me because I want to set the record straight.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/23/2012 5:39 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    AtomicTwatCpl brought up a great point.

    It all hurts but I can accept being rejected for valid reasons. With time.
    Being rejected with lies ticks me off! I hate liars.
    Being rejected for incorrect info upsets me because I want to set the record straight.
Agreed! And like you I can take the rejection for a valid reason....but sometimes it just sticks with you!

But it is what it is....

And the proof just popped up....


mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
4/23/2012 10:17 am

Rejection hurts. But I never rejected a woman because of her race.

They are all great.

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/23/2012 4:39 pm

    Quoting mflater1:
    Rejection hurts. But I never rejected a woman because of her race.

    They are all great.
I reject guys for lots of reasons. Age, they way they talk to me, distance, little things. But I always try to do it with tact and sensitivity.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/25/2012 4:21 am

    Quoting  :

No matter what reason it is, when you are rejected....it hurts.


JustHere2Cam 56M
14229 posts
4/26/2012 6:30 am

Rejection in any form hurts. It's that fear of rejection that makes it hard for some men to even ask a woman out. Sometimes, you have to try anyway, and if you get rejected, you have to pick yourself up and try again.


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80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/26/2012 6:56 pm

    Quoting JustHere2Cam:
    Rejection in any form hurts. It's that fear of rejection that makes it hard for some men to even ask a woman out. Sometimes, you have to try anyway, and if you get rejected, you have to pick yourself up and try again.
I get rejected by guys. I also put my heart out there, time and time and time again....


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