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Too many thoughts...  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
4/28/2012 7:27 am
Too many thoughts...

Is it just me? Does anyone else just "suddenly" get overwhelmed with thoughts?

Last night was the night for me. I mean it seemed like my head would explode from the amount of thoughts running through it!

For instance, sleepovers. No, I am not talking the kind of sleepover where you have a dozen little running around until 4 am hyped up on sugar!

I am talking about where you sleepover at a lovers.

Do you do sleepovers? If so, when? First date? Second? When you get "into" a relationship? No sleepovers? How do YOU decide?

For me...I can honestly count (and name) the men who have slept in my bed overnight. And I can count (and once more name) the men who's bed I have slept in. And it isn't a high number!

For me, it is something...I don't want to say "special", but in a way maybe it is. I don't just do it on a whim. There has to be a "chemistry". A relationship of sorts if you must. Does that mean I am "in love"? No, not necessarily. But there are feelings or I wouldn't be there in the first place!

Like I said...too many thoughts on my mind.

So please give me your thoughts on the matter. When do you have a sleepover? What is your "criteria"? Speak your mind...tell the baby....




80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/29/2012 8:51 am

    Quoting  :

I think at times our mind needs a "flush" button. That way at the end of each day...you flush away all the crap!

So happy to hear that you found your love...


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
4/29/2012 8:53 am

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Yes, but what if there isn't a "spark"? Would you really want to have that "Coyote Ugly" moment....?

You know...the moment where you wake up in the morning and think HOLY CRAPADOODLES...I am going to have to chew my arm off like a coyote to get outta here?


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/1/2012 4:25 pm

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LOL! I like the way you think....


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