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Mars versus Venus
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Mars versus Venus Upon reviewing several members blogs and a few topics from some varying groups, I have come up with a few interesting observations. Basically, women and men seem to view relationships and sex in a manner, which while having some commonalities, is rudimentally different. Now, believe me, I don't feel that I am the first to discover this, but it is so obvious, I felt that I would blog about it to see if others felt as I do. The majority of groups that have sex of some type as a focal point are mostly comprised of men. Simply take a look at the members of that group. Not that I don't believe that women don't lurk and read items they are interested in. For I definitely believe that women enjoy sex just as much as we do. They are just not as primitive about how they look at sex, at least most of them, and most the time. Also, in todays world, more than ever, women have a need for safety and self preservation. Posting to a blog or group only opens them up to advances from male sexual predators. One simple post by a female can lead to 25 or more propositions from<b> men looking </font></b>for a quick score. Most of these men would say anything in order to get a chance to meet their female counter parts, but I find that the majority of what they say has little thought put into it, and really says nothing more than, "let's get together and fuck". And the men that choose their words carefully, many times, are simply just a bit more skilled at saying, "let's get together and fuck", thereby maybe having only a slightly better rate of success. I would love to know the percentages of success that men actively seeking to be laid by being on this site actually attain. While there are certainly a minority of men that will get laid here, I believe that the overwhelming majority will have a very difficult time ever hooking up with a female from Adult Dating zone. This percentage, I am guessing, might mirror what you would find if you examined success that men have in singles bars or any other chance meeting places. For a female in search of a specific physical attribute (i.e. a large cock, beautiful muscular body with six pack abs, or a chocolate lover), the selection of a partner is more black and white and requires less thought. Because of that, men who fit those descriptions will not have to try nearly as hard to hook up with a female. But what about a female in search of a long term relationship with a trusted lover? Is it like finding a needle in a haystack? How do they sort through numerous emails or winks and pick the right man to respond to? Are they willing to accept a man that has little intellect or is just a player trying to score another sexual notch in his belt? And what email, wink or other type of communication does a man have to do to set himself apart from the herd and make himself be noticed? My guess is that so much has to do with background history, position in life, personal interests, chemistry and personal likes and dislikes. Because people are so complex and have similar qualities as snowflakes, it would seem to be a fluke if anyone ever hooked up with a perfect mate for them. While that may indeed occur, I believe that it is more common to find someone that is perfect in every way except....... That except factor is why we break up with one another or look elsewhere in order to satisfy something that is missing. Some time ago, I was told that there was a person that had written their ideas about what the basic differences were between man and woman when looking for a partner. In short, men have the need to spread their seed to procreate and are constantly looking for many young vibrant women to have lots of sex with so they can spread their seed as much as possible. Women, on the other hand, are in search of the single best man (usually young, physically fit, and intelligent) to impregnate them so as to produce the best offspring. This theory is what leads men to stray in their relationships when they are younger, and women to stray when they are older. I would agree with the basic premise of this theory. I would love to read some women's opinions on what turns them on in a man with regards to what they look for beyond basic physical attraction. Also, when a man responds to them via email or a blog post, what types of responses they enjoy most, and what they dislike. For men, I would love to know your personal opinions about what you think makes you or any other man successful in actually meeting a woman from Adult Dating zone or any other dating venue. |
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