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Advanced Sexual Technique and Activities
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Advanced Sexual Technique and Activities Warning, please consult a physician before attempting ANY of these techniques.. (Only kidding!) Seriously, these ARE advanced techniques and activities and I do recommend you taking it easy, practicing and going slowly at first... ----------------------------------------------------------------- Deepthroating Yep, I've put deepthroating in here because it IS an advanced sexual activity best left to those who have mastered the techniques involved.. Almost all of us human beings come equipped with what's known as a gag reflex, which nature/evolution saw fit to give us in order to help save us from choking on things and dying. Having something crammed down your throat is NOT, I repeat NOT, a natural act but once mastered, you will find that it is a VERY satisfying activity for both you AND your partner. Most of us who suck cocks will have very little trouble accommodating an average 5-6" cock but for the majority of us, an average sized cock does NOT reach far enough down the throat to really challenge our deepthroating abilities. That's not a bad thing mind you and lord knows I love sucking on just about ANY cock but the truth of the matter is this, you need to have a partner with at LEAST a 7"+ dick to truly experience deepthroating at it's fullest. (The length will vary from person to person so I'm talking from my own experience) I literally spent years practicing on realistic dildos in order to suppress and finally do away with my own gag reflex entirely. I can slide just about any length of dick down my throat without choking or worse, throwing up. Practice makes perfect here folks so get to work! Oh and btw, a long AND THICK cock is even tougher to deepthroat fully. There is something about the feeling of a nice, long, hard, throbbing cock sliding down my throat that is SOOOO erotic and just SUCH a turn on and of course, the guys I know just LOVE IT! The feeling of having your throat actually fucked is, well heaven on earth. One thing to keep in mind here, breathing IS important so don't forget to take a breath every once and a while! LOL Double Penetration They make it look SO easy in those porn videos don't they? It's NOT! First off let me define what I'm talking about here. DP or double penetration is where a girl takes a cock in both her pussy and her ass simultaneously. That's the 'classic' form. There are of course variations such as having two cocks in her pussy at once but for now, lets just stick to the classic ok? The logistics of actually getting a cock into both a womens pussy and her ass at the same time are much more difficult than they look in those vids mainly because all of us guys are NOT sporting 8-10" long dicks  If you're like me, average sized, and the other guy is around the same, you have a challenge in front of you.I've found that the best way to go about doing this is to have one guy lay on his back and have the girl mount him with his cock in her pussy, cowgirl style. Then it's fairly easy for the second guy to move up from behind and slide his cock into her ass. Once that is achieved, the hardest part is keeping both cocks in synch so to speak and avoiding the constant tendency of one or the other cock to 'pop' out in the middle of everything. Once mastered and given that you have the 'right' girl, DP'ing is a MAJOR erotic/sexual activity my friends. You can in fact feel the other guys cock, regardless of where you might be and lord knows, ever single women I've ever had the privilege of doing this to, had orgasm after orgasm after orgasm. Once again, it does in fact take the 'right' girl do to this with. Its NOT easy for a women to be 'pounded' from both sides and you MUST be on your best behavior here and be considerate of BOTH the girl and the poor guy on the bottom (been there done that and gotten good and smashed!)Fisting Once again, this is a very advanced activity best left to those who have mastered it fully. It also takes the right kind of girl so guys, please, don't go trying to cram your fist of your babies pussy just for the heck of it. YIKES! Ok, we got that out of the way: In my own personal experience, girls who like to be fisted, REALLY like to be fisted. I mean they crave it and love it. This doesn't mean they want it all the time, it also doesn't mean that they have some enormous pussy that requires it, it just means that over time they have 'trained' themselves to accommodate a fist and truly enjoy the feeling of being 'filled up' if you will. Now guys (and some girls) please, do not just clench your fist and try to slide inside your partners pussy. It does NOT work like that, even with women who routinely enjoy being fisted. You MUST take your time and work up to it. Play with her pussy, her clit, get her good and wet and relaxed then slowly work in a finger then two then more, allowing her to expand and accommodate your hand. You can even slide your cock in there and fuck for a while or use a toy, anything to help relax her pussy and get it ready for the main show so to speak. Please, make sure your nails are trimmed also. There's nothing that hurts worse than raking her insides with an uncut or sharp finger nail. YIKES. Once you have worked all your fingers inside of her you'll probably find your thumb is left out. Use it! Play with her clit with it until you can finally work it inside also. Now you're ready to have some fun! Remember, be gentle! Follow HER lead... You can work it in and out slowly but be careful, her pussy has expanded and a lot of times, at this point, its REAL easy for you to 'bounce' your fingers/fist off her cervix! From my own experience, your fist and fingers should be hitting her g-spot JUST right and believe me, the ensuing orgasms will be HUMONGOUS in nature!! I'd advise that you 'pack' a rain coat or some plastic sheeting... Have fun, be gentle, follow HER lead and don't forget to kiss her, tell her how much you love her and while you're at it, make sure to take a good, long look at what you're doing! It's definitely one of the most erotic sights in all sexual-dom!! Footjobs I add this in here because a) its not something everyone does all the time and b) it can be VERY erotic when done correctly. First off, feet tend to be a LOT rougher than hands and definitely more so than lips/mouths and pussies so make sure to lube up your 'rod' before and during or else suffer the consequences. (Example: A hole worn in the side of your dick!) Footjobs are something that you're partner will do FOR you. Remember this, she is NOT going to get much if any sexual pleasure from this activity other than the satisfaction of pleasing YOU! You'll owe her for this my friend so just keep that in mind ok? The 'holy grail' of footjobs occur when you wrap your soft, sweet soles around your mans dick and pump it almost like you would a handjob. The problem here is that this is a totally unnatural act and unless you're a gymnast or yoga instructor, you're legs are going to give out rather quickly. To alleviate this somewhat, the guy can easy hold your feet together and fuck them himself and quite frankly, this is the way to END a good footjob most times. I know it makes ME cum pretty quick.. LOL Another way around this problem is for the girl to lay on her stomach and lift her feet up from there. Your muscles work a LOT better in this position and you'll find that you can 'pump' your man a lot longer this way. Aside from the soles and 'pumping', running your toes along the underside of his cock is just SUCH and incredible feeling. Concentrate on where the dick head meets the shaft. Place one foot under his cock and use the other to rub lightly along his shaft, even running his cock in between your big toe and the next one.. OMG! I think I just came Footjobs aren't for everyone but if you're fella is a foot fetish, I guarantee that he will reciprocate and make SURE to make it worth your while I know I do every time!!!Erotic Photography Last but certainly not least is erotic photography (EP for short) EP is a blast but to really get good pics takes a LOT of practice, work and as always, there's no substitute for taking gobs and gobs of pictures. Digital cameras make this so much easier than it used to be. Aside from being able to take literally THOUSANDS of pics, you don't have to get them developed.. WHEW! Lighting is everything, positioning your subject(s) is key, keeping a warm, friendly and fun atmosphere is conducive and having a 'perverts' eye for the sensuous and erotic is something that you can develop over time. Think outside the box also.. Dick in pussy may be fun but there are OTHER ways of communicating eroticism in photos then being overt. Sometimes less is definitely more! Pulling a train Well I had to throw this in here but only because I'm bisexual.. LOL Pulling a train literally means fucking someone who's fucking someone who's fucking someone. This is mainly a gay/bisexual activity and a lot of what I said in regards to doing a DP holds true here. Getting the synch right is SOOOO important and obviously, lots and lots of lube is needed.. The effect, especially for the 'Monkey in the Middle' is awesome.. Have fun with this one if you're of that 'bent'.. ----------------------------------------------------------------- There ya have it. A short list but a pretty good one I think. Of course I've left out BDSM, Bondage, Dom/Sub etc because really, I see them as a topic all unto themselves. That's for another post... Practice, explore, keep your mind and body open and most of all, HAVE FUN!!! Love, -tm  |
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Well, you know of my interest in DP...hehe. Fisting, too... I have discussed it with partners before...but I guess I have to beg? LOL. -tm
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Well now that you mention it.... LOL Actually keep in mind that yours truly is only into FEMALE feet. (I hate my own btw). So unless I can find TWO foot babes, that ain't gonna happen -tm
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As soon as I read deep throating, I had to laugh. I was with a "smaller-then-average" guy, about 5" and he said nobody had ever deepthroated him the way I did. Sorry, I have a big mouth and it takes at least 6 1/2" to even hit the back of my throat. I couldn't hurt his feelings, but it's good to know that I was his best!!!  Foot jobs I am still practicing with. Last time, I did wear a hole in the poor boy... sorry!!! -tm
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Well, you know of my interest in DP...hehe. Fisting, too... I have discussed it with partners before...but I guess I have to beg? LOL.
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As soon as I read deep throating, I had to laugh. I was with a "smaller-then-average" guy, about 5" and he said nobody had ever deepthroated him the way I did. Sorry, I have a big mouth and it takes at least 6 1/2" to even hit the back of my throat. I couldn't hurt his feelings, but it's good to know that I was his best!!! Foot jobs I am still practicing with. Last time, I did wear a hole in the poor boy... sorry!!!     
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You bet... I'll save ya a seat at the front of the class -tm
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I use to give a former lover a foot job! ~AND!~ It drove him absolutely wild!!..  I would like to try DP some day! ~However!!!~ I believe I need to get my anal cherry deflowered first!..  I agree, definitely do some anal FIRST before you try a DP. Let me know if you need a 'stand in' ok? -tm
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I use to give a former lover a foot job! ~AND!~ It drove him absolutely wild!!.. I would like to try DP some day! ~However!!!~ I believe I need to get my anal cherry deflowered first!.. ....I am Happy..  ...Single..Naked and Free...Care To Join Me?... ...
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Deep throating.. I have mastered this one, and yep ya gotta practice alot before you try it. when I was younger I tried it and ended up puking on him now that is nasty but now I do this and often what an effin turn on !! Double Penetration ... I am working on this one right now we use alot of toys in training me to be able to take it, so if it ever happens I am ready for it  and I must say my training is so much fun ! Fisting.... you gave wonderful and complete instructions, I think its just like anal you gotta trust your lover to be able to do this ! but on occasion can be quite satisfying  Footjobs.. I tried this years ago and it wasn't his thing but then again I have the ugliest feet  Erotic Photography.. now you're talking but I am having huge problems with my camera I cannot get the lighting right !! and I have tried everything. I have two awesome videos but the lighting is so poor I will never upload them and the pics well they just aren't the quality i want either ! but I still have alot of fun trying  Pulling a train.. never done one of these but I am open to the experience. good post and you do seem to have a wide range of knowledge in these kinda areas
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LOL Well thank you sweetheart. Now if I could only type in a German accent eh? LOL -tm
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