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Blogs > rm_ganien > A Strange Bedfellow

Clitoral Stimulation not Allowed?  

rm_ganien 51M
1237 posts
7/25/2009 10:31 am
Clitoral Stimulation not Allowed?
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asoingles2007 60M
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7/25/2009 12:04 pm

 You brought up several issues that I can comment on.

First, I have found that every female prefers sex differently.One of my aprtners could only cum in the cowgirl position. Another wanted anal sex without any foreplay. Another only wanted to do strap-on dildo sex. Ti amiga may like the exact opposite of your previous partner. It can be fun to experiment and find out just what she likes, and to show her what you like.


asoingles2007 60M
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7/25/2009 12:06 pm

 As for clitoral stimulation, maybe you are too rough. Don't do it as if you are painting a fence. Use very gentle strokes with the underside of your tongue. Or what I usually do is to gently nip with my lips and slowly suck. Have fun.


rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
7/26/2009 6:00 am

 Thanks! Part of the problem here is that experimentation is really not welcome, I get shut down every time I leave the beaten track. I've already found she really likes the cowgirl position (and it does make her come much much faster and repeatedly), and we've done the missionary position (more to save my genitals from the pounding), but any other variation I've tried or mentioned gets refused.

Cristina is a forward and assertive person, and I've noticed that she doesn't waste any time at all on things she has no interest in. When I call her up to invite her to a movie or dinner with friends or something, she always turns me down outright. We've known each other almost a year, and 100% of the time, we get together when she decides she wants to see me. So she's pretty plain that oral sex is a waste of time with her, and so is kissing and foreplay.

Some of this is probably her family situation. Her father is manipulative and persistent, he doesn't take no for an answer, and when I met him I was a bit scared he's going to sell me a car or snake oil or something something. When I ate dinner at their house, he more or less dictated what I would enjoy and what food and quantities would go on my plate. His wife and daughters waited on him as if he were a sultan. It was surreal, I felt I was visiting the BDSM family reunion. I am supposing that to grow up with that man, you had to be wickedly assertive to get your own way.
I think I am going to have to get used to that or dispense with the dates altogether. I can't really call it a relationship because it's so much on her terms. It's all take and no give, really.

I've had sex with something like 30 women and though a few of them were one shot deals where, should we say, we were in a hurry, NEVER has a woman ever turned down the opportunity to receive oral sex (certain times of the month notwithstanding).

Thanks for the tips! I'll try the underside of my tongue, I don't think I've tried that except on a down stroke. I definitely don't do it rough, especially at the beginning. I could lick the color off an M&M without moving it. About 90% of the time I'm told to do it harder. I've found that if you nip and suck too early in the game, you will get shut down.


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