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Blogs > rm_ganien > A Strange Bedfellow

A Kindred Spirit  

rm_ganien 51M
1237 posts
2/12/2011 3:05 pm
A Kindred Spirit
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playful64more 60F
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1425 posts
2/12/2011 6:44 pm

 I love reading about your sexual escapades....and although try as you might things almost never turn out as you want them to or plan to. Sounds as if you had a much better experience then just watching her at a glory hole.

What happens when you marry Katie...will you both become monogamous? Have you discussed it?
I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)


rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
2/12/2011 11:17 pm
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You should do it. There is a certain honesty to the transaction in a bookstore. You can touch and inspect what's on offer, and the guys are polite and they really do get rejected a lot, so they take it in stride. Not everyone is your cup of tea, and they get that. You take care of an urge, and they get satisfied by the human contact even if you just stroke them or go window shopping.

Some places, I'd find a trustworthy confederate to go along, and he'll get off on watching you play.

I learned something interesting from this woman, that she asked people on craigslist to write her with advice on what to do, and they told her the best and worst places, and what to expect, and I think it helped her make the leap. As I said, she's very smart.


rm_ganien 51M
1052 posts
2/12/2011 11:30 pm
    Quoting playful64more:
    I love reading about your sexual escapades....and although try as you might things almost never turn out as you want them to or plan to. Sounds as if you had a much better experience then just watching her at a glory hole.

    What happens when you marry Katie...will you both become monogamous? Have you discussed it?
Funny you should ask, I just spent an hour writing about marriage in the newest blog entry.

I think there is some negotiating to do. We've discussed it, with differing conclusions sometimes.

I think as long as we are married and committed to love each other for the rest of our lives, any extramarital sex is just frosting on the cake.

She doesn't quite agree, she feels like marriage has a strong slant of monogamy to it. Her current feeling is that we should be monogamous, and any desired additional partners should join both of us in bed. That's why we're experimenting with bringing in guys, straight and bi, to play with us and try it out. Though she resists the idea of having a woman there, which doesn't seem too fair as it means she's the last and only woman I'll ever sleep with, and I really don't want to live my life being troubled and conflicted about my attraction to women. But if we only do MFM bi and straight threesomes, it's a nice compromise that lets us have supervised extramarital play. Then it's a matter of seeing if she will learn to tolerate a female partner or couple in our bed, or a partner swap. But I can see that's asking for a lot.


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