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Interesting story. Thething about high testosterone levels is true. About 10 years ago mine was very out of wack meaning really high. So my Dr put me on meds to bring my levels down. I have always had a fairly high sex drive and taking the meds killed my sex drive for a time. But, the meds also had a great effect on other areas. For instance, I would sleep only 8 hours and wake up very refreshed and ready to start the day. My body didn't ache all over like it always had. And my mood was awesome...I felt as if I was high on life and unbeatable. It was amazing. I wish I knew what that medication was...I could use some again, not for the sex drive, which is pretty normal I think, but because I felt so great. I am glad you got to experience something new. Sorry the friendship part never quite works out for you. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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This guy is a fully transitioned FTM transexual, he just elected not to have his vagina turned inside out into a constructed penis. You lose sensitivity and don't get a fully satisfying tool. Some people are waiting for technology to catch up, others don't want to risk being disappointed. I don't blame him, he has a nice vagina there. I think that you are the gender you identify with, whether you're on hormones or pre-op, or post-op. If you introduce yourself to me as Bill Smith, you're that guy in my book. I give total acceptance to anyone who meets me. I'm rather open-minded. The way of God is unconditional, understanding love. Sign me up!
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I can completely understand your curiosity. I recently became friends with a FTM transsexual who is still transitioning and I've been asking him every question I can think of and then some. I thought I was making a nuisance of myself but he said he found it refreshing since most people avoided the subject all together. I'm still trying to decide if I'm going to seduce him to satisfy my curiosity or if I can just to see his genitals. I laughed when I read that you have a lot of gay friends because my friends always joke that I'm a gay man stuck in a female's body. I wasn't surprised by the fact that you are uncomfortable with public displays of affection with men. That's why even though I have guy tendencies for most things I'm glad I'm a female. It's considered ok for me to touch anyone affectionately or even casually. My guy are notorious for using me as a buffer between other guys. They seem to think it's less weird for me to brush up against other guys rather than them; if the guy is cute I'm really not going to complain. Plus not only do I get to touch guys, I can also touch girls. I grew up with a very touchy-feely family so the idea of personal space is a little fuzzy for me. It's hard for me to understand how the touch of a friend is uncomfortable for some people when for me it's a sign of dislike for me not to touch you in some way. Another thing is when you first told me this story I totally didn't realize the implication of the internal cock/clitoris for all women. This blog had me look up pictures of female anatomy just so I could get my head around it. I should look up some pictures myself, I'm anecdotally basing my conclusions on a few nice sexual interactions. But I think it's the scientific method followed to the letter. I need to replicate other people's findings before I believe them.
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Interesting story. Thething about high testosterone levels is true. About 10 years ago mine was very out of wack meaning really high. So my Dr put me on meds to bring my levels down. I have always had a fairly high sex drive and taking the meds killed my sex drive for a time. But, the meds also had a great effect on other areas. For instance, I would sleep only 8 hours and wake up very refreshed and ready to start the day. My body didn't ache all over like it always had. And my mood was awesome...I felt as if I was high on life and unbeatable. It was amazing. I wish I knew what that medication was...I could use some again, not for the sex drive, which is pretty normal I think, but because I felt so great. I am glad you got to experience something new. Sorry the friendship part never quite works out for you. I sleep 8 hours most of the time and don't feel refreshed at all. I think I need about 12. And the body aches, I chalk up to creeping up on 40. Testosterone is definitely a mood altering substance. Approach it with caution!
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Oh and yes, the friendship thing is just not in my cards I fear.
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I'm trying to imagine myself in that situation, asking a lot of questions and just can't. Good, bad or indifferent...my folks taught me not to question. Now I'm the girl who always has a million questions but I tend to ask open-ended, rather vague questions and let the recipient take the conversation where they will. It works rather well with people who want to talk (i.e. spill their guts) but it's less successful with people who need to led towards conversation. I'm sorry about your friend...that had to be hard. Very interesting about this man...not something that I have thought a lot about but would be interested to experience. You are such a brilliant writer - I always feel like I am right there with you. That's a gift! xoxoxoxo Always tell the truth Use kind words Keep your promises Giggle and laugh Be positive Love one another Always be grateful Forgiveness is mandatory Try new things Say please and thank you Say your prayers Smile ~Author unknown
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I'm trying to imagine myself in that situation, asking a lot of questions and just can't. Good, bad or indifferent...my folks taught me not to question. Now I'm the girl who always has a million questions but I tend to ask open-ended, rather vague questions and let the recipient take the conversation where they will. It works rather well with people who want to talk (i.e. spill their guts) but it's less successful with people who need to led towards conversation. I'm sorry about your friend...that had to be hard. Very interesting about this man...not something that I have thought a lot about but would be interested to experience. You are such a brilliant writer - I always feel like I am right there with you. That's a gift! xoxoxoxo Thanks for picking the point about my friend out of such a huge narrative. It was in fact very hard. And thanks for complimenting my writing. I'm a horrible self-editor, so my posts are incredibly long and rambling and full of stupid insignificant details. But somehow the details are all part of my observation, and I can't just leave them out. Good to know they paint a scene for you!
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