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This site is now like playing a slot machine..  

Blee761 62M  
176 posts
2/8/2021 9:50 am
This site is now like playing a slot machine..

You spin and spin the "wheel" and you wind up losing 98 times out of 100.

I am grateful for the friends I have made here, but in my quest for a sexual soulmate I encounter so many fakes and scammers that it has become little more than a game to when I get bored...


Blee761 62M  
519 posts
2/8/2021 9:53 am

Dealing with trolls at least makes for good comic relief during a Minnesota winter.


randy56192 68M

2/8/2021 10:26 am

Amen. This site is drowning in Fakes, Scammers, Spammers and Trolls. It has always been that way. It's too easy to create free profiles here. Most won't wanna hear this but the ONLY way to clean up the site is to make it for Paid memberships only. That will eliminate all the fake spam profiles and time-wasting Standard members who expect others to do the heavy lifting for them.


Blee761 replies on 2/8/2021 10:53 am:
I agree. Nearly all that I have had positive interaction with are Gold members. I can detect most of them by their literary prose and photoshopped "verified" status.

funsnellvillecpl 66M/54F  
3901 posts
2/8/2021 10:50 am

dont forget the hookers on here too


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
2/8/2021 10:52 am

It has gotten bad. However I disagree with randy56192. I think if you report someone as fake or a male hiding behind a female profile Adult Dating zone should contact that person and remove them, like right away. As they have taken away things the amount of fakes have increased. I am starting to believe its Adult Dating zone trying to bait people into joining.


Blee761 replies on 2/8/2021 6:09 pm:
Reporting seems to do no good -- the scammers just create a new account each time they are banned. I am always curious where they harvest all of the pictures from. A picture of a woman that looks too good to be true isn't.

hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
2/8/2021 4:58 pm

I think there are real women here but we are outnumbered by the bots AND by men.

Elevate me...


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