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I knew I should not have responded.
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I knew I should not have responded. Yesterday I talked to the most amazing guy. At first, I ignored his message simply because of the distance. I thought he was very handsome, had an articulate and amusing profile, and I liked the message he wrote to me, but decided it was best not to reply because he lives in Maryland. What are the chances we would ever meet? When I didn't reply to him, he sent me another message the next day that included a gif of him smiling with no shirt on. lol It may sound creepy but I was very turned on and finally responded. We exchanged messages throughout the day and I asked him if he would like to talk to me sometime, so he added me and we video chatted that night. I was disappointed with the connection and the screen keep on freezing but I loved seeing him and listening to his British accent. Urg, this guy is perfect. How is he single? He's 6'2," has a perfect face and body. He speaks four languages. He lived in Germany. He has a degree in chemistry and he's in PA school. He is into BDSM and said he used to teach classes on it. I loved how he was talking to me. He's an atheist. I like his personality and the way he looks at things. I go crazy thinking of his voice. Wow, I must sound so shallow, describing how infatuated I am with him. I just finger myself thinking of him, wishing he would touch me. Toward the end of our conversation the quality really started to drop and we were disconnected. Then I sent him a message on okcupid saying, good night and I enjoyed talking to him. I feel like he probably read it and ignored me. lol He probably won't talk to me again. But what does it matter? We would eventually stop talking anyway and never meet. So that is why I did not want to respond to him. I knew I would like him and feel bad because he is so far away. Honestly, if I was rich, lived off an inheritance, and didn't work, I would just buy a ticket to go see him. But that is not the way things are. I am stuck with my stupid boring life here in Texas. The worst thing is no guy like this would never be interested in me if he were local. I can't imagine ever dating a guy like this, not to say this is the standard I look for. That is asking for too much. lol Even if I'm never going to date a guy like this, I certainly couldn't imagine ever dating someone I actually like, period. |
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 just wait a minute, give him the chance to think. and you take your time, look at how you felt and your heart slipped a beat. he may be some one that is interested, don't rush and don't think negative,
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When I first started talking to my wife she lived in Las Vegas and I live in VA on the coast. We chatted for several months before I went and visited her. We dated for about a year before I convinced her to move in with me in Va. Don't let distance stop you from seeing if something might work. You never know
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If he enjoyed you like you enjoyed him, then give him a chance, you never know what may happen but take your time,
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"I certainly couldn't imagine ever dating someone I actually like period." You should only date people you actually like. There are lots of good guys out there looking for the right women. There you go That's all and none of it tragic.
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You don't know how much I agree with you......because I have been single my whole life. I never found the right person. LOL You are a young, pretty and can express yourself so I see no reason you won;t find the right guy. There you go That's all and none of it tragic.
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