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I'm not Crazy
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I'm not Crazy So this will be my fourth blog discussing the same guy. I know it appears that I am psychotically obsessing over him and we only went on one date, but I just like to keep record of things. I often think of publishing a book about all my dating failures if I am still single by the time I’m 30. Read one of my blogs: He’s so Weird, Sex on the First Date, and No Second Date, if you want a better idea of things. I guess I feel this way because I have never had a boyfriend before and this was the first time I had a date with a guy I was very attracted to and interested in. I have never felt at ease or had chemistry with a guy like that before. It was such a positive experience but afterwards I became very disappointed. When I was with him, I did think things were too good to be true and it is too soon to say anything where things are going. The way this guy acted and the texts he sent me before we met were just INCREDIBLE. He was the sweetest, cutest guy I ever met. I couldn’t picture him being a player because he didn’t have that arrogant douche personality. Then later I realized that because he is handsome and charming, he could still be a player. But I wouldn’t call him a player, it’s just that I’m sure he is casually dating a few people at the moment, which is not my business. There is nothing wrong with it and I don’t know him that well. I was really taken by him. He was polite and seemed very caring and genuine. He mentioned twice that wanted to see me again, even suggesting things to do. After our date on Friday, he texts me on Saturday. So things seem promising and he probably wants to date me. But that is not what happens. After he acted this way, he just ignores me and doesn’t make any plans so that is what I mean when I describe him as incredible. I don’t think a guy would act that way just to be nice or make the best out of the date. I found that he came on very strong and he did it just to lead me on. He even called me babe and baby at the end of the date. Of course, I came on strong as well. I guess I was mirroring him. Last week I asked him if he wanted to get together sometime. He was enthusiastic and told me yes. I told him we could meet on a Wednesday or Thursday. Then he just completely ignores me in the middle of the conversation and he didn’t text me later to make plans. I was expecting him to do that, so he really doesn’t like me. I wonder why he just doesn’t admit something like, “Well, I had a nice time with you but I don’t think we are right for each other.” There are some things I noticed about this guy’s online activity and our texting. Some of it makes me think he really doesn’t like me, rather than he is too busy dating other women. First thing is that he is on Okcupid a lot but he doesn’t know I am viewing his profile because I clear my browsing history and then click on his profile. He changes his pictures every week. He did mention that it was the only social media he uses and he likes to change his location a lot because he travels a lot and likes to make friends in different cities. Another thing is that he would respond to my texts right away, and it seemed that he was always at home, not really doing anything. Once he was doing his laundry and another time on a Friday night, he said he was at home bored and doing nothing. The funniest thing he told me is that he is off work until mid April. Interesting, with all that time off and he didn’t want to make any plans to be with me. |
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 so after all you've said, what does that tell you about him? he's not interested and not going to be. i know it hurts some but get over him and say , next. that's what life is all about ..so good relations and some bad ones. just move on and live your life 
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Sounds like you hooked up with a Player Mariam! The lesson to be learned is that sometimes the apparent perfect object of your affection is nothing more snake in disguise! It sucks but sometimes life is like that! I do wish you well & hope that in the future you run into a better quality of individual but remember that sometimes people are not what they seem! You deserve much Better!!
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Fuck him. He is the one missing out. Simple. Move on.
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I already said what I thought in your situation. Time to move on, go forward and let it be water under the bridge.
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