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Sex appeal isn't about dress size  

naughtybbwtori 45F
53 posts
10/4/2009 12:43 am
Sex appeal isn't about dress size


In over nearly 10 years of naughty behaviour (swinging,<b> dogging </font></b>etc) I've spoken to a hell of a lot of people and one thing seems to be prevalent that is a misconception larger women are not sexy. Well plenty of men happily think otherwise.

We are bombarded by the media with images of waif "perfection" who wants to sleep with that? Harsh angles, jutting hipbones it doesn't do it for me.

Speaking with guys they have said more curvy women tend to be more fun, easier to get on with and the majority say they are suckers for confidence and a killer smile which is something us BBW's tend to have in spades. A good appetite for food in general relates to a good appetite in other more interesting areas.......

We don't need pity - we are sexy, wonderful women

Sex appeal isn't about your dress size it's the look you give your partner that has him hot and bothered in 10 seconds flat, it's that secret smile you wear when you think about him.

englishman68 55M
2387 posts
10/4/2009 1:31 am

To right lady the media seem's to think every girl has to be 6 stone and perfect. you ladies never need pity your just damn fine,fun and real. It's whats inside that counts,a happy bubbly personality and a good sense of humour counts the most. looks and size that shouldn't matter to anyone.

Truth,kindness and respect is what i give,and thats all i ask in return

How to treat the ladies There39s a right way and a wrong way


LadyGrayLeopard 63F
26369 posts
10/4/2009 2:07 am

I fully agree!

I'm something like 42-48 in European sizes, UK 14-18, so bigger than average, and normally no complaints... just the opposite.

Sure the guys who prefer skinnier women don't even approach.

Been in parties/gang bangs together with some other women, most of us bigger ones, only 2 skinny ones, and let's say, we had surely more fun

I do have big cleavage but otherwise I try to keep it nice and classy at work and other normal places, fortunately found some nice stuff to wear in other places... closed surroundings where people really don't mind to see more...


Fuddsy2 41M

10/4/2009 2:10 am

I for one am sick of those 'skeletons' you see walking around, (you know the ones they'd fit right in at a fashion show, personally I prefer a women with a medium build maybe a little 'pudgy'. But yeah being able to clearly see a woman ribs and the outline of her pelvis is a turn off for me.


naughtybbwtori 45F
36 posts
10/4/2009 3:00 am

    Quoting LadyGrayLeopard:
    I fully agree!

    I'm something like 42-48 in European sizes, UK 14-18, so bigger than average, and normally no complaints... just the opposite.

    Sure the guys who prefer skinnier women don't even approach.

    Been in parties/gang bangs together with some other women, most of us bigger ones, only 2 skinny ones, and let's say, we had surely more fun

    I do have big cleavage but otherwise I try to keep it nice and classy at work and other normal places, fortunately found some nice stuff to wear in other places... closed surroundings where people really don't mind to see more...
I've been a regular at swingers parties for years and have always noticed that the BBW and SSBBW crowds arenever are short of admirers. They know how to talk to people and that is sexy. I have to be honest being bisexual that I get the wobbles if I'm butt naked next to a slim girl but try not to let it bother me too much. The clothes thing can be a nuisance but it is getting better. Designers are finally realising that big women don't want to dress like frumps. But this hoo ha over fashion week and size 14 models really got me going.


NerdyNewf 51M

10/4/2009 3:32 am

I agree with you. As a man, I am much more attracted to women who with confidence and a sense of humour ... the dress size has nothing to do with it.

Working on my black belt in Kama Sutra....


thighglider 63M

10/4/2009 3:35 am

you go girl! i enjoy a girl with curves, they do know how to give as well as recieve. they seem to be more real, not all about themselves.
give me a choice and i want a lover with something to hold on to.


haversack_smith 47M
6189 posts
10/4/2009 4:24 am

This is sooooooooooooooooooooo true. There's nothing like curves on a woman, and nothing like holding a soft & warm woman close against you...


rm_curvey1982 42F
4 posts
10/4/2009 9:20 am

Its about time the media stopped creating even more teens with eating disorders by portraying ill women with low BMI as role models.

I agree- clothing is getting better, but it is not brilliant. Some stores think a style for a size 8, will still fit correctly with more material added for a larger figure! We are a different shape- we have womanly hips and are not straight up and down. Come on designers/clothes stores- stop giving us badly fitting styles designed on small frames and shapeless tents!

My fella preferes me in my birthday suit anyway, so that is a bonus teehee


naughtybbwtori 45F
36 posts
10/4/2009 1:33 pm

    Quoting rm_curvey1982:
    Its about time the media stopped creating even more teens with eating disorders by portraying ill women with low BMI as role models.

    I agree- clothing is getting better, but it is not brilliant. Some stores think a style for a size 8, will still fit correctly with more material added for a larger figure! We are a different shape- we have womanly hips and are not straight up and down. Come on designers/clothes stores- stop giving us badly fitting styles designed on small frames and shapeless tents!

    My fella preferes me in my birthday suit anyway, so that is a bonus teehee
Too true having lost a very good friend to the evil that is anorexia we urgently need more healthy women modelling. The clothes thing is improving slowly but agree with the fit and cut issue I find that female designers who are plus size themselves such as anna scholtz and beabea are the best for this and the clothes are expensive but divine. But birthday suits are cool - just need a few nice guys to appreciate me in mine.....


bedsnake 66M

10/7/2009 3:27 am

Voluptuous is sexy.


john23758 74M

10/18/2009 5:50 am

I love BBW. I had a friend whom I met as often as we could. She was great in bed.


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