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Really? I don't think so.  

kiss_pookie 38F
27 posts
11/21/2011 1:16 pm
Really? I don't think so.


You know what I love love love about chatting with people from this site? [/sarcasm] When they demand I give them a face pic. DEMAND.

Case in point.
I've been chatting with this guy for approx a week now (not even, as we don't chat on a regular basis. heck, we don't even chat for more than like 20mins at a time. although apparently he counts full days) and he keeps pestering me about sending him a pic. From the very first conversation that we've had, I told him straight out I dont send face pics. If anything, I will show my face on cam but only if the other person does as well and goes first. And that's really only if I have any interest in meeting you.

I think that's plenty fair. Realistically, I think that's really the only way to go about it.

He goes "oh, I had one, but my sister broke it." okay. so then I won't go on cam for you. pretty simple. Then he bitches and complains that it's not his fault and how I should show him anyways? Yeah. I don't think so.

"So how can I trust that you're actually a girl if you don't send me a pic?"

...

Really?

REALLY?!

I really don't understand how guys' brains work, cos this is not the first (and probably won't be the last) time I have gotten that. Um. Hello?
If I weren't a chick, then I wouldn't have the cam only rule.
If I weren't a chick, I'd happily send you pics of the girl I was pretending to be.
If I weren't a chick, I probably wouldn't emphasize how much I'm not looking to just hook up.
WHY ARE YOU SO DUMB???

the best part is when they get all angry and go "I think you're not showing because you're wretched looking". really? like insulting me will REALLY inspire me to want to show you what I look like. I'm not as stupid as you look - I will not fall for that.

and it goes on and on and on from there.. and it's not just this guy, it's like 90% of them lol

I choose not to post a face picture. There are people I know in real life on this site (they don't know about me tho lol) and I really don't see any reason why I should show my face to the hundreds upon hundreds of guys who view my profile (not to be boastful, but to show that a lot of guys do look), 99% of whom I will never meet. It just doesn't make sense to me.

Every guy on here thinks they're hot shit. So sure, you think it's my loss that you're no longer interested in talking to me because I refuse to give into your childish demands, but what you fail to realize is that there really are plenty more where you came from. This site is a sausage fest, and everyone knows that. What's the ratio like now anyways? 100 guys per every female member? lol So really, it's your loss, not mine. I have no interest in little boys who bitch and<b> whine </font></b>(and more often than not get mean) when they don't get what they want.

And besides, if you give up that easily, it shows what your true intentions are, which are not the same as mine. I'm looking to make friends who could potentially become a fwb with special emphasis on the friends aspect, not to get STDs from a wham bam.

Oh, and to not diss every guy on here (I can't help but feel sometimes the things I say imply that, but I mean.. blame the asshats who have ruined it for you lol) there are the occasional gentlemen who are actually cool and don't<b> whine. </font></b>The ones that go "I don't have a webcam, but I can still send you pics of me even though I fully understand why I won't get any of yours and that's totally cool with me". There should be more of you out there. Well.. not necessarily being without a cam, but the whole mature, gentlemanly aspect. You nice guys are awesome. I mean, sure, it's a sex site, but come on, can't we have a little respect for each other?

So please, don't ask me for a face picture. You're not going to get one. I won't ask you for one either. If you choose to send one to me, you've made that choice. I am not obligated to send you one because you willingly sent me one first.

/end rant

xxx

kp

naughtytounge4 43M
5 posts
11/21/2011 2:10 pm

can i have a face pic... lol


4urkiss 52M

11/22/2011 3:31 am

just show him


kiss_pookie 38F
7 posts
11/22/2011 12:45 pm

47bats, thanks i will

essentrick, i understand what you guys 'have to put up with', but what about all the bullshit the females have to put up with? there are guys pretending to be other guys, guys pretending to be women who try to befriend us so that they could hook us up with their "friend", and just sleazy, douchebaggy, creepy actual guys who have no respect for women here as well. so i mean, complain all you want, but it's not as if we have it any easier than you.
and besides. i know i'm a chick. there are a select few that have met me and can vouch that i'm a chick. so i mean, really, if a guy won't believe i'm a chick i really don't care lol


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