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candaulism [source  nly-apartments/mia] Cheating can raise a thousand questions, and often leaves you feeling deceived, used, inferior and hurt. However, there are some folks out there just burning with desire to see their partner having sex with other people, a practice sometimes referred to as candaulism. Unlike simple voyeurism, the thrill derives from seeing someone you are intimate with engaging in sex acts with another person as a favor to you. Voyeurism normally implies that the watcher is uninvolved. With candaulism, the watcher is a key player in the situation, and often impulse the action to derive a vicarious thrill from watching their partner with another person. They may direct the action, or choose the other partner. Exhibitionism, submission and domination are driving factors in the game of candaulism. Once the three protagonists get together, a thousand and one stories can unfold. The paradigm of candaulism hinges on a husband who coerces his wife into sexual activity with another man, all the while he lays back and watches. In this way, he can see another side of her sexuality as it is expressed with another person. Candaulism is different from a ménage a trois in that one participant is not actively participating, just watching. He may be seated in a chair, on the edge of the bed, in a closet, or roaming about the room and about to prepare pasta to be consumed afterwards. Or perhaps the woman is the one observing. In any case, this setup can be a way of testing your intimacy and trust as a couple. |
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7/12/2011 1:36 pm |
have you written this or "cut n paste"?? very well written. illuminating!!
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I did copy/paste.I have mentioned the source where I took it from and the author on the top,incase you want to read more 
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Hi Bull So you are essentially saying that I have been involved in candaulism without knowing it. Anoop
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Hi Bull So you are essentially saying that I have been involved in candaulism without knowing it. Anoop  There is only thin line of separation between cuckolding and candaulism. If you ask me, from husband's perspective,if he has submissive mentality and want the wife to take charge over him and make courtship with her lover,discriminating him and make him feel inadequate and less of a man.In the other case,Its about husband being dominant and showing off his precious (may be submissive)wife(may be his slave) and sharing her with others so that he feels proud of his worthy conquest! from wife's perspective,in cuckolding,she is dominating and she gets her way because she is above the husband and the cuckoldress.In latter,she does it as a favor to her husband and feeds to his fantasy. from bull's perspective,Its just about differentiating between a dominant master vs submissive husband and a dominating lover vs co-operating wife. so we three know where you stand anoop
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Hi Bull So you are essentially saying that I have been involved in candaulism without knowing it. Anoop 
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