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I Believe....  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10163 posts
10/25/2018 12:35 am
I Believe....

When you are diagnosed with a life-threatening illness or are in a traumatic accident, you are confronted with your own mortality. It forces you to step back and think about what is really important to you and to confirm what you believe in. When you recover, your life is changed forever and you see things from a different perspective.

Here's what I know, I Believe in...

I Believe...God doesn’t give us more than we can handle.

I Believe...There are no coincidences, everything happens for a reason.

I Believe...No one has the right to judge me, except me and my God.

I Believe...In the Golden Rule: do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

I Believe...Everyone should have the right to live their true, authentic selves.

I Believe...Every baby born can learn what’s wrong and right.

I Believe...In strong women

I Believe...In respect for elders.

I Believe...In Love

I Believe...In the importance of education.

I Believe...In being strong, even when everything seems to be going wrong.

I Believe...If you do what you love, you will love what you do.

I Believe...Happiness is something we can create.

I Believe...In sunshine

I Believe...You should live each day to the fullest, as you don't know what tomorrow will bring

I Believe...That each life is measured by the footprints left behind.

I Believe...The greatest gift I can conceive of having from anyone is to be seen by them, heard by them, to be understood and to be touched by them.

I Believe...In You

I Believe...I will wake up in the morning to face another day.

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What Do You Believe In?



sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 12:40 am

Have you confronted your own mortality?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 12:48 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you for sharing your perspective and best wishes.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
10/25/2018 1:36 am

There are no answers.

Life is precious and at a personal level, the only thing in it that truly matters is the love of a spouse, children, family and friends.

Tragedy stalks each of us all of the time and you never know when fate will take somebody incredibly precious from you. I doubt that there is a why. All you can do is continue as a mark of love to the one who has gone and a continuing act of love to those left behind that they also so loved.


JimmyB7474 59M

10/25/2018 4:35 am

Personally I thought I would live forever up until I decided one day to cut out a dead limb in the top of an ancient maple tree on my property. I was 30 years old at the time. While cutting the limb it snapped off unexpectedly and knocked me loose from my perch. I grabbed the limb that was falling (probably saving my life) and wound up rolling down the outside of the tree all the way to the ground. All that happened was a bunch of scratches and the breath knocked out of me for a minute. It was a 50 foot drop. I don't climb into trees anymore. Jim.

My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/25/2018 4:49 am

It sounds like you went through a lot. I believe that if I AM measured by the footprint that I leave - I better hustle my butt and work harder on trying to leave a larger footprint... Right now, it looks rather understated... in my opinion. Hmmm 🤔


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 5:27 am

    Quoting RavenGB:
    There are no answers.

    Life is precious and at a personal level, the only thing in it that truly matters is the love of a spouse, children, family and friends.

    Tragedy stalks each of us all of the time and you never know when fate will take somebody incredibly precious from you. I doubt that there is a why. All you can do is continue as a mark of love to the one who has gone and a continuing act of love to those left behind that they also so loved.
Yes, often there are no answers.
Thank you for sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 5:30 am

    Quoting  :

Agreed. It’s a great summary.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 5:32 am

    Quoting  :

Agreed. And something we should never take for granted.
Thank you for stopping by and sharing your perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 5:34 am

    Quoting JimmyB7474:
    Personally I thought I would live forever up until I decided one day to cut out a dead limb in the top of an ancient maple tree on my property. I was 30 years old at the time. While cutting the limb it snapped off unexpectedly and knocked me loose from my perch. I grabbed the limb that was falling (probably saving my life) and wound up rolling down the outside of the tree all the way to the ground. All that happened was a bunch of scratches and the breath knocked out of me for a minute. It was a 50 foot drop. I don't climb into trees anymore. Jim.
Amazing the risks we take durung our youth that we hopefully learn from.
Thanks for sharing your story.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 5:37 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    It sounds like you went through a lot. I believe that if I AM measured by the footprint that I leave - I better hustle my butt and work harder on trying to leave a larger footprint... Right now, it looks rather understated... in my opinion. Hmmm 🤔
We all have to decide what we want our legacy to be which goes far beyond the Adult Dating zone fantasyland.
Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 6:18 am

    Quoting  :

We often are surprised.
Thanks for sharing your perspective.


mc_justmc 64M

10/25/2018 6:26 am

I believe I'm not afraid to die. The last time I was laying on a gurney, not knowing which way things were gonna go, I asked myself if I ready. I really feel as if I have done everything I wanted to do in my life, and then I felt so calm and prepared for whatever the outcome. Turns out, I lived, in case you were wondering.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 6:38 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I believe I'm not afraid to die. The last time I was laying on a gurney, not knowing which way things were gonna go, I asked myself if I ready. I really feel as if I have done everything I wanted to do in my life, and then I felt so calm and prepared for whatever the outcome. Turns out, I lived, in case you were wondering.
Yes you did live.
Inner peace can be difficult to achieve.
Thank you for sharing your experience.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/25/2018 7:00 am

I have been to the well several times. Each time the sip was deeper. I will swim upstream once again and maybe more than once more. There is sunshine in my window

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Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/25/2018 7:12 am

There's a old Buddhist saying , that to paraphrase says...

Don't believe anything because your elders and priests tell you to. Believe it because, in your heart you know it to be true.

I believe everyone should believe in something.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 7:30 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    I have been to the well several times. Each time the sip was deeper. I will swim upstream once again and maybe more than once more. There is sunshine in my window
A beautiful sentiment.
Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 7:32 am

    Quoting Platosgames:
    There's a old Buddhist saying , that to paraphrase says...

    Don't believe anything because your elders and priests tell you to. Believe it because, in your heart you know it to be true.

    I believe everyone should believe in something.
Agreed. If we don't believe in 'something', why do we exist?
Thanks for stopping by and sharing your perspective.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/25/2018 9:35 am

Good morning hun and what great beliefs indeed as these are many that I believe in too. I hope you enjoy a terrific day today..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 9:51 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Good morning hun and what great beliefs indeed as these are many that I believe in too. I hope you enjoy a terrific day today..
I think 🤔 others would identify with many of them also. Some are perhaps taken for granted.
Thanks for stopping by. Enjoy the rest of your day.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
10/25/2018 1:30 pm

I agree with ALL but #1 & #3. Yes, I have and am confronting my own mortality right now. I have those around me that want me to fight so they can keep me in their lives, I have others that wish me dead. Should I agree with the former, and stay alive just to be in pain & suffer for more years, to please THEM? Or shall I help the latter get what they WANT so badly by not fighting and just giving up? A hard & complicated choice indeed!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 1:43 pm

    Quoting LakeRidgeBBWSeek:
    I agree with ALL but #1 & #3. Yes, I have and am confronting my own mortality right now. I have those around me that want me to fight so they can keep me in their lives, I have others that wish me dead. Should I agree with the former, and stay alive just to be in pain & suffer for more years, to please THEM? Or shall I help the latter get what they WANT so badly by not fighting and just giving up? A hard & complicated choice indeed!
Choosing to fight back or concede is never easy. Ultimately, you have to decide what's right for you and nobody else.
Thanks for stopping by and sharing your perspective and best wishes.


wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
10/25/2018 3:25 pm

At 65 the end is not that far away..over half way there already. Eh,,no way to avoid that .


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/25/2018 8:09 pm

    Quoting wantaplay8:
    At 65 the end is not that far away..over half way there already. Eh,,no way to avoid that .
True we never know when our end is going happen.
Thanks for stopping by.


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
10/30/2018 4:39 pm

What a beautiful post. Thank you.

I can't think of anything you haven't covered, other than "I believe every experience in life is meant to teach Me a lesson. It is up to me whether I recognize the Lesson.

If every one believed in the things you have listed - there would be a lot more people leading a Happier Life.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/30/2018 8:49 pm

    Quoting FMAOPLS:
    What a beautiful post. Thank you.

    I can't think of anything you haven't covered, other than "I believe every experience in life is meant to teach Me a lesson. It is up to me whether I recognize the Lesson.

    If every one believed in the things you have listed - there would be a lot more people leading a Happier Life.
Thank you for your kind words of support.
This is one of the most personal entries I have posted. I was somewhat reluctant to put myself 'out there'. However, I decided to go ahead, to get people thinking. Seems it was successful.


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