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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

do you value your lover  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
8/13/2014 12:03 am
do you value your lover

I read a quote I liked on facebook. It went like this: Just because someone desires you, does not mean they may value you.

This can be taken a couple of different ways. I am going with they want sex with you and do not care how they get it.

Some of you may think it does not matter, but it does. The person may say or do things just to<b> get sex. </font></b>The sad thing is, the person that is in the relationship for a different reason may not have a clue and will be the one getting hurt when it is all said and done.

I know this is a sex site, but being up front is the best way to go. Some of you are not and will never be up front. Just have sex with as many people that are willing, and go on your merry way.

Some of us do care about the people we are seeing and yes just fucking. we care if you are married/attached, we care if all you want is a one nighter, we care if you want a relationship and we don't. there are many peramiters here.

I always say, be fair to the person you are seeing or just fucking for the night. Give them the option.

good luck in your search here.........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
lkuwet 78M
288 posts
8/13/2014 12:51 am

 Thank you. Engaging in sex for members of a sex-site is straight-forward - NOT. The ads may generate membership and revenue but they send the wrong message to the members, imo. Beyond the hype is still the caveat, "let the buyer beware" and it still applies. Deception usually does hurt, whether someone else or the one in denial about the true nature of the relationship. I wish that were not the case, in a perfect world it wouldn't be. Each of us has to decide how we will conduct our lives, each has to live with their decisions and it seems remarkably true "what goes around, comes around".


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