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WARNING: Cums without a Label
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WARNING: Cums without a Label Here’s a quick recap to keep you up to speed. My boyfriend has come out of the bi closet to me and now we are in search for the perfect boy. Ok….now we can move on. It seems during almost all my Adult Dating zone chats in our search for a boy, the same topics continue to be at the forefront. I find myself on a sex site doling out some advice and my perspective on sexuality. I fully recognize how odd this is but it really has got me thinking. At what point do we stop labeling ourselves and others. We have the adamant straight that are completely turned off by any interest in the same sex. We have the gays that like the straights know exactly what they are looking for. And lastly, the label that gives the most wiggle room is the non-committal bi-sexual. We want the best of both worlds. Let’s take this topic by topic. First, how did I feel when my boyfriend said he wanted to be with a man. (please see previous blog, Adult Dating zone has turned me into a for an indepth answer). My boyfriend has been straight his entire life but now has decided he wants to explore the possibilities with boy sex. I find nothing wrong with this. We have a double standard in our society. The thought of some<b> girl on girl </font></b>action has been the hot topic since…well forever. Just recount the times in your life when this conversation has come up. Guys love to talk about lesbian porn or the thought of their significant other with another chick, all while sporting a huge boner in their pants. Ladies, let’s not be hypocrites. We have all at one time or another had the lesbian thoughts. What would it be like to go down and eat some pussy or just make-out with a chick. Ok so I’m even a little wet talking about it now. Here’s the thing, not once can I ever remember a guy saying, I wonder what it’s like to suck cock? Why is that? In general, I think men think women are offended by the thought and would dump them in a heartbeat. In all fairness, we would. Society has conditioned us to think girl/girl is hot and acceptable while boy/boy is taboo. I have thrown down my gauntlet and decided to speak out and say boy/boy action is not only a huge turn on but seriously makes me wanna fuck 24/7. Topic #2 is the married man that seeks out some penis. Our ad has been a magnet for married men, like my man, willing to explore the taboo side. What is hotter than two married guys getting it on? I’m pretty sure, nothing…except the thought of me being part of it. It is apparent that more guys than not have these thoughts but have been unable to fulfill their fantasy or haven’t had the forum to do so. Another big woo hoo for Adult Dating zone! I can understand the apprehension in sharing such desires with your girl. Every man I have chatted with (no exceptions ever) have said their woman, whether it be a girlfriend or wife, just wouldn’t support or understand them being bi. As some small consolation, some of us girls dig the idea. I for one, fully support and encourage my man to live out his fantasy (yes, I remind him how lucky he is daily). I have little doubt he’ll be back for more. For God sakes, who doesn’t love cock? I am fully willing and able to be part of my man’s boy urges as frequently as he likes. We are secure enough in our relationship and in our own sexuality to try something new. Life’s an adventure, right? It’s a matter of finding the right person to travel with so to speak. Here’s the most frequented topic which brings out the Dr. Ruth in me each and every time. For those boys that are curious and on the fence about sucking or fucking another guy, they are worried about labels. The perpetual question is will being with a man automatically make others think I am gay? It’s a reasonable and fair question which screams out INSECURITIES. My dear friends, let’s shed the labels. I have no sexuality labels nor will I slap one on my man. We are two responsible, consenting adults doing what we want to make us happy. If we want girl on girl, so be it. If we want boy on boy, so be it. It’s about living your life free of scrutiny or criticism of others. It’s being confident enough in yourself and your partner (if they are involved) to repel any label someone might want to put on you based on their own fears or even desires. Life is about finding happiness wherever that might be. My point today is, freedom is waiting for you if you are willing to shed all labels. |
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My label says.."if you want it..and they want it..then do it!" No other labels necessary! Good point of discussion! Thanks!
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