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Communication is the Key
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Communication is the Key I believe communication with your partners(s) is just as important as the physical part. Dont get me wrong, if u choose a partner that has a 5 inch penis when u desire 10 inches obviously, the chance for failure is great, it fail physically and there could not have been great communication. What I have found in my experiences is one; alot of woman are afraid to express what they want, two; men dont listen when they do. I can recall many conversations I have had with my partners who talk about a bad exerience sexually they had with a nice guy. Most relate to them giving them head, some are funny like, "he ate pussy like a cat drinking milk". Then I will asked them whether they told him how they wanted their pussy to be eaten. The majority say no, he should know how, he's a grown man. I always found this to be surprising. Ladies and men, we are all and I repeat we are all individuals. When it comes to sex, nobody and mean nobody knows how to do you better than you. The same goes with a woman giving a man head, I have talked with countless men who have realted how the just suffered thru a bad BJ, afarid if they said something they would not get the pussy. Everytime I go have a sexual encounter, I make it clear to my partner we are in this together. Even with someone you have a on going relationship with, just because last time work does not mean it will work this time. When<b> performing oral </font></b>sex this is especially true. One size or way does not fit all. I think men more so than women fail in the oral game for this reason. First many men do it only because they believe if they dont, no intercourse. Secondly, most men's bring their ego to the bedroom, "I know how to make her Cum", what happens, failure. Put that with a women who lays there, and a hardheaded man, well u see where I am coming from. Ladies tell us how and where u want us to lick and suck. U have nothing to lose and everything to gain. What I find funny is you tell a man how u want fuck, ex; I like to ride or pound me doggie style, I like it slow first and then build it up to a pounding, etc.. But when it cums to oral, many women as we as men will say nothing, and suffer in silence. Just my blogs with my opinions. I guess this what happens when u retire early, blogs and opinions, LOL  |
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2/28/2011 12:44 pm |
Well I dont know about other females but I say how the man should move his tongue and I can tell when a man likes it by how his body motions.
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