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Blogs > lovelyladies11 > lovelyladies11

looking for advice  

lovelyladies11 39M
2 posts
4/19/2011 7:44 am
looking for advice

im currently in a relationship that is totally down hill and dont know how it became of it..i love her and we got a together but we argue about the stupidist shit...when i lay next to her at nite i get pushed away unless she is wanting to be touched hell im lucky if i<b> get sex </font></b>1 every 2 weeks.shes not cheating and thats for a fact but im wondering what is her problem..if i leave im afraid to hurt her and i think it would effect me well i know it would..is it worth suffering a big heartache and leading another life or not..ive had my wit ends with the bs im 25yrs old yes i want a family but not a family that dont appreciate the effort and etc put in the relationship..what should i do?im ready to go have fun

rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
4/19/2011 8:50 am

 There is so much wrong and I'm sure it's not just her. You may think you are making all kinds of effort, but if it is the wrong effort, it's not going to improve anything.

Why are you here? You stated in another post you've already cheated and by what you have said, versus your profile, you are looking to continue that. You can't be a good husband and father if you view your life so selfishly.

Get counseling. If she won't go, go by yourself to gain a better understanding of what you are doing. I'm sure if you leave her, she'll find a way to live and get over it, maybe find someone who loves her enough to work on fixing things or stay true to her.

Basically I keep hearing what all this means to you and not about her.


Maverick_55 36M
6 posts
4/19/2011 8:42 am

 The best way to go about it is to simply asked if she thinks anything has changed and listen. It'd be easy to get into a arguement so it's up to you to keep your cool. If she thinks there is a problem she'll probably tell you.


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