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Dont believe the hype
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Dont believe the hype So as so often does the online courting thing happens. I am not immune to it, in fact i kinda like it. You have some nice looking lady email you or flirt with you if you will and something happens and gets started. Soon you are flirting back and emailing you secret desire to do naughty things to her. Somewhere in all the back and forth certain promises are made. You may have talked to her about her long standing desire to be spanked or she may have asked you about your fetish for leather. Hell you might be a fellow toy fan who wants nothing more than to check out her collection. Like i said certain promises or schemes are made. You have promised her to suck her clit like a baby soother. She has promised you that her asshole belongs only to you and no other. You have gone out to purchase the seven pounds of cottage cheese she requires for her kinky food play. Things are happening in your brain. You are anticipating a moment or two that will go into your personal record book, biggest orgasm, or messiest sex or loudest partner. Finally you do get together and the nervousness of the moment comes and goes much like you clothing. You appreciate her hours at the gym and she appreciates the beauty of your cock and away you go. And then it happens. It all falls apart. The plans and the schemes that you both made fade and disappear. Missionary and maybe a little doggy style are what happen. Maybe a little oral for each and if it is compatible a 69 or two. The cottage cheese is spoiling and you spend more time just holding each other than actually tying each other up and spanking them with a flogger. You might look at the toys she brought and maybe even use one or two of them. Eventually you part. Emails go back and forth and it is evident to both of you that you didn't get to the big list of<b> perversion </font></b>that you both drew up together. The lesson is this. Don't expect the first get together to be the full on porno film shoot that you have in your head. If you don't normally play in someones ass don't expect it to happen that first time. There are enough nerves at play for that not to happen. Hell you have to have a reason for there to be a return visit after all. |
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1/4/2012 7:50 am |
This is your experience? Interesting.
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i dont know about the hero status but i will roll with it. i would agree with you though. way too caught up to part is a really nice way of putting it.
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This is your experience? Interesting.
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no not disillusioned at all. and were you asking for one he says raising his eyebrows. thanks for the back up linds.
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painfully exquisite is another beautiful phrase. i dont think i was condemning the vanilla sex. but more a warning of the build up and the expectations. personally i go in with a plan to scorch the heavens and make demons blush in my graphic excesses. it goes out the window when i actually get there and just play it all by ear instead.
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The cottage cheese is spoiling??? 
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The cottage cheese is spoiling???
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Well, Spidey, I personally like to keep expectations in check (his, not mine). My current "Beau" and I had several sexy conversations and cyber-sexted each other into comas before we ever met. But we knew that "what is said here, stays here"- we didn't expect everything to translate into the real world. Fantasy is fantasy an reality is real. Seems pretty striaghforward to me. I haven't even brought out my best work yet, lol. After all, who doesn't like a surprise  ? But we know the basics about each other- especially what's off limits. Would I be disappointed if he didn't utter the phrases he's typed a thousand times? Idk. I might wonder if he's disappointed and not feeling those things now that we are in person. But I wouldn't let it kill the moment- after all, we are still IN THE MOMENT so I have to assume he didn't find me repulsive in some fashion.But shit Spidey, now you have me all paranoid about the harness and swing I installed for him. Think I jumped the gun?  When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...
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i have two dude here...and one said, he promised to give me all night pleasure...and he completely failed...and another dude said, he can give me maybe 45 minutes before he cums and he is not a multiple cummer...which was probably true to the statement...if i have a choice between two...i would take the  latter...
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What she said... And yes, with the right man, his hands anywhere on my body, even just curled with my own hands, is enough to make me shiver and swoon at the same time  .When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...
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i think you are probably right abby. however there are those rare times that are magical.
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intensity is a thing that can cut both ways i guess. lack of intensity and then full on mind blowing intensity.
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Well, Spidey, I personally like to keep expectations in check (his, not mine). My current "Beau" and I had several sexy conversations and cyber-sexted each other into comas before we ever met. But we knew that "what is said here, stays here"- we didn't expect everything to translate into the real world. Fantasy is fantasy an reality is real. Seems pretty striaghforward to me. I haven't even brought out my best work yet, lol. After all, who doesn't like a surprise ? But we know the basics about each other- especially what's off limits. Would I be disappointed if he didn't utter the phrases he's typed a thousand times? Idk. I might wonder if he's disappointed and not feeling those things now that we are in person. But I wouldn't let it kill the moment- after all, we are still IN THE MOMENT so I have to assume he didn't find me repulsive in some fashion.But shit Spidey, now you have me all paranoid about the harness and swing I installed for him. Think I jumped the gun?
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i have two dude here...and one said, he promised to give me all night pleasure...and he completely failed...and another dude said, he can give me maybe 45 minutes before he cums and he is not a multiple cummer...which was probably true to the statement...if i have a choice between two...i would take the latter...
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What she said... And yes, with the right man, his hands anywhere on my body, even just curled with my own hands, is enough to make me shiver and swoon at the same time .
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hey i go with what fetish she is rocking at the time. she wanted to make a sex lasagna i go with it. yeah i hear you on the second and third meeting. makes total sense. i usually walk away from those ones too going "i forgot to do this".
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oh SH(**) that reminds me I have to email her back! i;ll get back to you later
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so i need to find a wine that goes well with you?
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