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Repeated Profile Views For the longest time, I see local men who are actually Gold members that view my profile often. Like once or twice a week. They seem to meet my criteria of not being married or attached (or at least so they say) are in my age group, live within 25 to 50 miles from me and have pictures of their faces posted as the main photo. I can think of three at the moment and I always smile when I see that they have viewed me once again. I do check to be sure they are actually online at that time if I am signed in. Otherwise I see the notification was sent when I am not signed in so they may have viewed me once last year for all I know. Adult Dating zone has several things they do to try and make sales understandably. I know that Adult Dating zone uses this notification as a sales tactic at times to make a member think someone has viewed them, but as a 5 year Gold member I usually can tell when that is the case. It's usually ones out of my criteria of what I am seeking. I also can see the three I am referring to on the IM feature at times when I am signed in over there. Are they waiting for me first? So...men, my question to you is this - Do you view a woman's profile often when you find her attractive but never try to contact her? If you do this may I ask the reason why? Are you married and not serious? Shy? Or perhaps she doesn't meet all of your requirements of course, or you might just be pleasuring yourself while looking? I don't know, but I can tell you that the three that view mine often I would respond in a heartbeat if they would only make the first move. I am old fashioned and have a difficult time initiating contact and hate to send a message that just says "Hi" or "Good evening/good morning." I think there needs to be more in a first contact message. I am just uncomfortable doing that initially. I have done it but not often. {=} {=} KCClaire0923 |
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i think it is another Af f play, putting views on a loop. I have had men send me notes saying I see you keep viewing me..........and NO i dont possibly once...........if Isee nothing that attracts me then or meets my criteria. why continue without contacting them?? good luck to you
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Men can be just as insecure as women. I have some times viewed a profile many times before getting up the nerve to make contact. Yet some how I always make the move. Just hang in there, if they are that interested they will contact you. I believe nothing until it has become history!
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I'm just aware of 1 in particular, but it is puzzling if something about the profile piques my interest. I've written with no response, even though all seemed to match, interest-wise. Some men have written something to me like, "Thank you for stopping by to read my profile." "I appreciate the attention." could be added or "We seem to have a lot in common." or another brief comment on something in theirs to show you read and liked it. No expectations. Some guys are very tired of all the ether negative feedback or no feedback and are afraid to try anymore, not wanting one more "no, thanks". It costs me nothing to be willing to hold out my hand, verbally, and make the first effort if I really want to know more and see what might happen. Don't want anyone to put on my tombstone that I was afraid to take the first step. I just choose to do it tastefully and gently. Also, I have a thing about guys who break a first date/meeting. No longer will I reschedule. They have told me what their priorities are, and meeting is not one of them.
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I can't speak for all men. But If I've showed an interest in a woman, IE, winked or hot listed, and she's a Gold Member I wait for a response back, a wink or being hot listed by the lady. Before I contact her. Often as not women on Adult Dating zone are receiving tons of mail from guys like us and most don't have, or take the time to respond to emails. After a number of rejections that kind of thing deflates a guys ego. 
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You need to keep in mind that they may actually NOT be viewing your profile. Every time the cursor passes over a screen name, it shows as a profile view. This is especially the case if you spend any time in chat rooms. Be safe, relax and just have fun!
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I use to message them and getting no reply. So at times, I just look when I can. I get many lookers too but too far or too young. I do believe A-F-F do play some games to get people to connect and/or interest. Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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